I have been wanting for a while to write up a good review of my “Jail Bird” chastity device now that I’ve been wearing it for some time, so here it is! I’m going to at least try to make this somewhat of a shortened version though. I know that I’ve written before, and I will still maintain that among Mature Metal’s devices, the Jail Bird and Queen’s Keep are VERY similar in terms of form, function, comfort, etc. So probably 99% of what I wrote in my Queen’s Keep review will still apply to this device. That can be viewed HERE. Instead of repeating much of that information, I will instead try to focus on the differences that I made in the new order and how that’s been working out for me, much of which would have been the same had I been ordering a new Queen’s Keep as well!
Archive for the ‘Queens Keep’ Category
Locked Until My Birthday
Posted: May 25, 2016 in Chastity, Kinky, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm Denial, Queens KeepThere hasn’t been a whole lot of chastity-related activity going on around our house lately to speak of, but so far things are going pretty well with the Queen’s Keep since having it resized! I really like the shorter length, as now I truly am always pushed up against the tip of the cage instead of not being able to completely fill it when soft. I haven’t noticed the bad chafing that I had started getting before either. One other thing that I HAVE changed up though, is using a dab of baby oil gel every day at the bottom of the cage and as much as I can get under the cage. That stuff doesn’t really absorb into the skin very fast so it keeps everything nice and fluid. It does seem to help!
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Reader Questions: Sleeping In & Security Of the Queen’s Keep
Posted: March 14, 2016 in Chastity, Fetish, Key-Holder, Kinky, Male Chastity, Orgasm Denial, Queens KeepIn response to my last post answering some general questions about the Queen’s Keep, I had another reader asking for more details about sleeping in chastity as well as security of the Queen’s Keep.
husbandinchastity writes:
Hi again. I’ve been in chastity since early January and the Holy trainer has been great as a starter device. When you are in the Queens keep, can you sleep on your stomach? Do you have any sleeping issues with it on? Can you escape if you tried? How 100% escape proof is your device? I am close to proposing buying one of the devices from mature metal for a few reasons.
My main ones:
– stopping nocturnal erections. I wake up quite a bit with the holy trainer with hard ons.
-the wife is having to unlock me twice a week to clean. With one of these other devices that may not have to happen.
Look forward to your response! Take care!
-J
Chaste Activities
Posted: February 22, 2016 in Chastity, Kinky, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm Denial, Queens KeepSomething I’ve been working on for a little while lately is trying to compile a list of normal, everyday activities that I engage in (either on a daily basis or just occasionally), which I am also able to do while wearing a chastity device. I have added this list as a separate “Blog Page” within the side and top menus of my site.
This list is specific to myself, for activities that I have personally engaged in while chaste, but I do welcome comments (on that page, please) from readers with any other experiences you may have had–especially if there is something that you CANNOT do while wearing a device! For the most part, it seems like my Queen’s Keep does not really prohibit me from doing anything that comes up during my normal, daily routine.
The last point I wanted to make is that this list is primarily for NON-SEXUAL activities, as things that I can/cannot do in that department are fairly obvious–not to mention well documented throughout this blog! Chastity is somewhat of a unique “kink” (for long-term wearers, at least) given how it extends far outside the bedroom, and into every mundane detail of our lives!
I will update this list periodically, as I think of anything new to add, so feel free to check back once in a while to see what’s different or to let me know about your own experiences!
The full list that I’ve come up with so far can be viewed here:
Chaste Activities
Birth Control
Posted: February 11, 2016 in Birth Control, Chastity, Key-Holder, Male Chastity, Orgasm Denial, Queens KeepAbout a day before I was let out of the Queen’s Keep this last time, Angel and I were at an event downtown with several of our friends. About half way through it, Angel caught up with me and told me about how she and one of my friend’s wives had been talking in general about kids, etc. and the question came up about whether we planned on having any more or if we were stopping with our two boys. Angel told her that she thought we were “probably done.” The friend went on to state the fact that if we haven’t yet taken measures to KEEP from getting pregnant again, you NEVER know! Angel had to chuckle to herself and secretly say that “if your husband is locked in a chastity cage, then you DO know it won’t be happening!”
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Reader Question: Chastity Game Rules
Posted: February 4, 2016 in Chastity, Long Term Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial, Queens KeepI recently had a question from a reader regarding Chastity Game Rules; specifically how I actually count time locked vs. unlocked.
Servinghimwithchastity wrote (in response to “Four Months in the Keep“):
A super congratulations! That was a very long time and much longer than we have been able to go, hats off. I believe we are caught up with all your past posts but am wondering what your “game rules” are. We never know how long my hubbie has been “officially” locked. About 2 weeks ago he had an accident right in his cage (my fault), we don’t believe that counts as an unlocking. And about 3 weeks ago I was not having a good day (it happened to land on a bad day of the month 🙁 ) and I unlocked him out of anger and told him to give it to me. I wasn’t even warmed up and as he had been locked for a few weeks at that point he lasted exactly 2 pumps and I put his device back on, the whole thing ended up being a lesson but does that count as unlocked? We were thinking it maybe it counts if he sleeps without the device on. I know it’s whatever “rules” you want it to be but if you can post (or point me to where you already posted) your rules of an official unlocking, we would love to follow them! You never know, your rules may become “The Official Rules to Chastity Time Locked”.
Thanks so much for your posts, we always look forward to reading them and get so excited for you and yours.
I hope your release is mind blowing.
2015 Lock-up Summary
Posted: January 13, 2016 in Anal Sex, BDSM, Bondage, Chastity, Kinky, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm Denial, Queens Keep, Spanking, Strap-OnI decided to go back through the records on my Current Status page and add up how many total days I was locked in a chastity device vs. being unlocked during 2015. I was actually somewhat surprised by the results: For every day that I was free, I spent almost 5 days locked up!
The year ended the same way as it began, with me locked in the Queen’s Keep. At the beginning of the year, the steel device was brand new to me and that was the very first session where I had turned control of these keys over to Angel. But she took to it like a fish to water, and started keeping me locked far more than not!
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