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e[lust] #108

Posted: August 16, 2018 in Fetish, Kinky, Sex

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Welcome to Elust 108

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #109? Start with the rules, come back August 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

Feeling Compersion
Invisibility
To baldly go

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

Cut Throat
The City I Love To Hate

~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

Legend Told
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Note: I’ve had this post mostly written in my drafts folder for far too long! I apologize for the delay… I’ve gotten very lazy with my blog this summer and am definitely going to try and do better with it again going forward!

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In my last post I hinted at sharing a story of some of our own 4th of July fireworks that Angel and I made together, so here it goes!

To start with, Angel and I have really come to enjoy experimenting with all sorts of different things in the bedroom, from different toys (vibrating, insertables, impact, etc.) to various articles of clothing (or lack thereof!) A couple of times recently I’ve been trying out a new little “outfit” I’d picked up somewhere which is basically just a stretchy, skin-tight, black spandex type of material that fits over my torso and crotch area. Sort of an adult “onesy” if you will. It feels great the way it sort of squeezes and compresses my body from all around, and Angel has had a lot of fun being able to easily glide around on top of me!

Going all the way back to the night BEFORE Independence Day, on July 3rd after the kids were sound asleep I was wearing this for Angel. It has one little hole built into it which somewhat exposes the ass, but this night I decided to turn it around and basically wear it backwards, so that my chastity cage could poke through that hole instead. It really was quite comfortable! As anyone who reads my blog very often would also probably know, I also have kind of a thing for a bit of self-bondage once in a while, or at least getting myself into bondage situations that only Angel will be able to free me from after she “finds” me in such a position. So preparing to have a little fun, I slipped into the leather cuffs that we leave conveniently under the edges of our mattress, and cinched them tightly to the bed until I was completely stuck and waiting for Angel.

It didn’t take very long, as apparently Angel had heard me doing this from the other room and was getting pretty excited herself! She came into the room, quickly disrobed, and began rubbing herself up and down my chest, just enjoying the sensations. Then she reached under the bed for her Magic Wand, placed it between my legs and rode it to a couple of good “starter orgasms” while I helplessly watched from below her, the Jail Bird getting tighter and tighter as time went on.

What happened next really kind of surprised me, and became the highlight of our night! Angel really liked the looks of my caged member sticking through the black spandex, but said it would look even better if “free!” She pondered for a little while whether or not she wanted to release me. Deciding she did, she reached over to grab the key from her nightstand drawer. This is where I assumed I would probabably be getting freed from my bonds, as she typically has me actually remove the security screw and cage whenever she’s in the mood for that. But not that night! Keeping me tied to the bed, she started trying to remove the screw by herself! Being the first time she’d ever done this I had to kind of walk her through it a bit, explaining that the key will only fit in the screw head one way. Once she got it started, the cage was off pretty quickly and I was immediately swelling up in size. There’s no way that base ring would have been coming off very easily, so I had her just rotate it to where the locking post was at the bottom where it would be more comfortable for both of us–no matter what else Angel had planned for me!

Stopping for a moment, Angel asked if there was anything in particular that I would like for her to do while I was out. Thinking about it, I told her that she could literally do anything she liked; the one thing I would ask, but it would be up to her to enforce it in the end, would be to make me clean up (eat) anything that came out of my body. I often seem to fantasize about being subjected to that, and on the rare occasions that I’m let out for sex I will generally “plan” on cleaning her up with my tongue after I come… but after the deed is done my mindset completely changes and I can’t make myself actually go there!

Taking in that little bit of information, Angel slid on down my spandex body and wrapped her mouth around my (correction: HER) throbbing dick. She teased me over and over with her tongue until I was just about ready to explode! I pulled and strained against the tethers holding my arms to the corners of the bed but they are quite strong and would not budge an inch! My hips thrust upwards pushing my dick further into her mouth until finally I did come with the force that may only be possible after a couple months or so of chastity!

Angel sucked up every drop, holding it in her mouth and looking at me with a little smirk. Suddenly I almost dreaded what was coming next, but I knew she was probably going to give me exactly what I had asked for. Sure enough, she slid back up my body and locked her lips to mind, transferring the load from her mouth to mine. It almost made me gag a bit, but I swallowed it down and loved the feeling of being so utterly submissive to Angel. Still tied to the bed, only let out of my chastity cage at HER whim, and being made to eat my own come after she was finished with me. Only she WASN’T even quite finished with me, as she quickly repositioned her magic wand between my legs once more and rode to a couple more gigantic orgasms to finish the night out with! I have become Angel’s personal, live sex toy, and truth be told I couldn’t be happier with that situation!

Once she was fully satiated, Angel finally released me from the cuffs so I could go to the bathroom to clean up. I asked if I should put the cage back on, to which she replied that it was up to me, but she wouldn’t even care if I left it off until after our next vacation that’s coming up about 1 1/2 weeks later where we will be flying out of the country this time. That’s quite a while to be “free” for a guy who has become accustomed to months on end of lock-up.

But we’ll see.. I may just have to lock back up sooner than that, but I AM pretty certain that Angel is not going to want to take any chances with chastity at the airport. If I was traveling alone or even with only her, I may have tried to persuade her otherwise. But since the entire family (including my mother) will also be along on this trip, I will probably just abide by that and not take any unnecessary risks of discovery.

End Note: A few days of Independence following being unlocked on the 4th of July has morphed into several weeks of being out, thus the updated title of this post. More to come about my longest time being unlocked in… I don’t even know HOW long. Years, probably.


Happy Fourth of July everybody! In years past I’ve tried coming up with some clever and/or deep writings about the irony of celebrating Independence while I’ve given up one area of my own independence to Angel. But I don’t really have anything new to add along those lines so if you want to see what I’ve said previously feel free to look back through my archives! 🙂

Angel and I definitely made some of our own fireworks last night which I’ll try to elaborate more on later… So stay tuned!

e[lust] #107

Posted: June 30, 2018 in Fetish, Kinky, Sex

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Photo courtesy of Cammies on the Floor

Welcome to Elust 107

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #108? Start with the rules, come back July 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

Baby making…
I thought of GotN while fucking
Man-struation

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

Room 401
Compost

~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

The Shadows Fall Behind You
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We just returned from a family vacation to the Northeast United States, a good 1200 miles from home! We drove there, so this made for quite a long road trip with two young boys plus all of our in-laws (Angel and I each only have one parent still living). I think spending that much time in a car together can test the patience of ANY family, but overall it really was a pretty fun trip and hopefully something the boys will remember fondly in the years to come!

One big thing that struck me on this trip that I wanted to write about here, was how Angel’s mindset towards chastity has evolved over time without her even realizing it! In years past when we would leave for a vacation, no matter how long I’d been locked ahead of time she has always been very mindful to pack the keys to my chastity device, “just in case she might decide to use them!” And usually, she does. Even if it’s only late one night while everyone else is sleeping in other rooms, she’ll want to let me out for a quickie then often lock me right back up again for the remainder of our trip.

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I’ve written at least a couple times previously about going through standard metal detectors at public venues (baseball games, the county courthouse, etc.) while wearing my Mature Metal chastity devices–and not setting off any alarms. That’s old news now, but I have a couple of newer stories to share along those lines that are kind of fun!

First, a few weeks ago Angel and I went to see some stand-up comedy. Trevor Noah (from “The Daily Show” on Comedy Central) was in town and we had tickets! It was being held at an older venue in our city that we don’t go to very often; in fact we had only been there one other time earlier this year when there was a kid show that we took the boys to see. I knew from that experience that this place does NOT have metal detectors installed at the doors at all, so I didn’t even give it a second thought to show up still locked as usual.

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What I did NOT expect, was that for this event they had security guards inside with the wand style metal detectors. Sometimes at places like this I’ve seen them just do the occasional spot checks, but here they were pretty much wanding everybody! Well, maybe not EVERYONE.. Ladies like Angel who were carrying a purse, only had their bags checked then were sent on through. But for me, I was definitely getting the wand.

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Catching up on a bit of mail from my inbox,

Jonathan asks:

Hi,

Thanks for the very interesting blog. I’ve gotten my wife into chastity
play and currently I’m wearing a CB-6000S, which is kind of OK, but
we’re planning of upgrading to a Mature Metal Jail Bird, since it seems
much better.

I have a question about the locking system though: I’d prefer to get
the device with the security screw, but it seems that you have had some
bad luck with that. Do you think it’s a general quality issue or have
you just had bad luck with it? I’d prefer having a reliable locking
system.

And do you think one could keep a padlock like in CB-6000S with a
jailbird instead of having it sideways?

Thanks in advance for your answers,

– J


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Note: I had hoped to have this published sometime over this past weekend, but didn’t quite get it all written in time. All references to Memorial Day are still very pertinent, even if a day late! 🙂


As we come up on Memorial Day here in the U.S. I do want to take a moment to remember those who have given their lives in service to our great country…

I am and will always be very grateful for the sacrifice these fine folks have given to ensure the freedoms that we all take for granted today. Now without further ado and with no disrespect intended whatsoever, I want to shift focus to a different type of “memory.” This IS a chastity blog after all! 🙂

I won’t have to go too far back in time now; only to Mother’s Day weekend, as it was certainly a Mother’s Day worth remembering! (more…)

e[lust] #106

Posted: May 27, 2018 in Fetish, Kinky, Sex

 

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Welcome to Elust 106

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #107? Start with the rules, come back June 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

Orgasms Save Me From Myself
Charlie’s Bar
I’m Not Ready to Love My Body

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

Letters and Lonely Hearts
I Want to Curve and Ache

~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

Don’t fear the smear
You really should consider adding your popular posts here too
All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!
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WOW, OK… Being locked in a chastity device for so long must definitely mess with a guy’s mind a bit, huh? I mean, could I really get to a point where I truly don’t even WANT to get out and have a “real” orgasm? Am I already at that point? I’ve long said that I don’t CARE when I get out, as I want it to be completely Angel’s decision… but in the heat of the moment I always still WANT to be out! Let’s back up a little bit though, and analyze my real-life account of last weekend (yes, I’ve been working this draft for several days now)…

This story takes place a week after I had ventured out into the local community to attend an intro “Rope Bondage” class. It went pretty well and was a lot of fun (read about it here and here.) I just hadn’t had any chance yet to practice any of my new knots on Angel. Saturday morning we woke up both a little frisky, but still couldn’t do very much because we heard that the kids were already up and moving around the house as well. Still, I rolled on top of her to simulate what she had to look forward to LATER if she wished! I held both of her wrists together over her head and said that I might just have to tie them like that to make sure she couldn’t stop me from giving her extra orgasms!

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e[lust] #105

Posted: April 27, 2018 in Fetish, Kinky, Sex

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Welcome to Elust 105

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #106 Start with the rules, come back May 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

I lost my sexuality for a year.
Stolen Penis
Bright English Mornings

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

Flavour of Femme
She Teaches Sex Ed!

~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

Katy
You really should consider adding your popular posts here too
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Last week when I wrote about my plans to attend a rope bondage class being offered in my city, I got quite a few comments of support. It seems there are quite a few fans of rope who read my blog! 🙂

You can go back and read the full post plus comments HERE, but one side conversation left me wanting to write my thoughts in a lot more detail than I could really fit in the comments section there. Nijntje wrote [paraphrasing] that she is also very interested in rope bondage, but had no desire to ever ‘out’ herself by attending a public class.

Being very curious as to whether her reservations about venturing out into the BDSM community were similar at all to Angel’s reasons, I had to ask a few follow-up questions. Here is an excerpt of the reply, which is the part I wanted to expand upon:
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A fun little poem, submitted by HappilyLockedMan. Enjoy!

Returning to bed
Her sleeping hand finds my cage
Manhood swelling against steel bars
I lay there, content

 

RE: A “Binding” Chance

Posted: April 17, 2018 in BDSM, Bondage, Fetish, Kinky, Rope

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It’s been a couple days since I ventured out to an “Intro to Rope Bondage” class that was offered in my city, but I wanted to write up a short follow-up to my last post (Taking a “Binding” Chance). If anybody hasn’t seen that one, it’s a pretty good read and generated some great, thought-provoking comments! (i.e. Is Angel’s lackluster “approval” of me attending an event like this, a way of subliminally trying to guilt me into not doing it, even if she doesn’t mean for it to be that way??)

Thank you for everyone’s support and feedback there, it’s always greatly appreciated! In that last post, I was getting ready to go to this rope class. I was very upfront with Angel about my desire to do it, even though I know that generally speaking she is fairly against any kind of kink-outside-the-privacy-of-the-bedroom type of things. That’s one opinion that I don’t happen to share with her. I mean, I’m completely good with not involving any 3rd party directly into our private, intimate moments (writing about them later doesn’t count as a 3rd party being physically involved!) But we do both seem to enjoy certain aspects of BDSM in our private lives, and I think the best part of having a “community” is to be able to get out and learn from others who have far more experience in doing these things in as safe a manner as possible!

But that’s all a conversation of its own which could probably span MANY blog posts!

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So I did get Angel’s “permission,” and attended a rope class on Saturday… It was a lot of fun! The format was pretty much just as I envisioned, and how a few folks described it on that last post we’ve been talking about. Yes, everyone in attendance was fully clothed. Though the subject matter might be of somewhat of a “kinky nature,” there was nothing particularly sexual going on there at all. The instructor may as well have been teaching basket weaving or any other subject under the sun as far as that goes! 🙂 But it was definitely a very laid back, fun learning environment where sexy things could be talked about candidly with no judgements whatsoever!

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This will be short and sweet (I think) and possibly leave some unfinished thoughts hanging out there, which isn’t usually my style of blogging.  But here goes.

Through some wonderful folks I know through a local Munch that I attend as often as possible, I’m aware of some “Rope Bondage” classes that happen monthly in my city.  I’ve been wanting to try one of these for quite a while but besides normally just being busy with other family things on Saturday afternoons, it has always been a tricky conversation to bring up to Angel.  As I’ve written about before, she is always very open about trying anything between just the two of us behind closed doors at home, but being “out there” in a public venue in a situation regarding any kind of kink, is very far outside of her comfort zone.

I did bring it up to her for the first time last October, and tried to go to an “Intro to Rope Bondage” workshop back then, but she was clearly not really OK with me doing that plus we ended up with something else going on then too, so I dropped it.  The Intro class is only offered once every few months, and I missed January as well but it is being held again this afternoon.  I’ve been talking to Angel about it different times this whole week to feel her out and see if there was any chance I could possibly attend this time.

She’s still not really sure, and says it just “feels weird” to “send” me to something like that…  I would MUCH rather have her right by my side at the event, but I know that’s not going to happen so I haven’t even tried that one.  I asked if she was worried that I may end up cheating on her with someone from there or something like that?  She said it’s not really that, it’s just…  “weird…”  I don’t really know how to respond to that to try and alleviate any of her fears!

I’ve told Angel that I’m absolutely NOT going to be doing anything with anyone else — she is definitely the only person I want in that regard!  I just think something like this could be fun and interesting to try out at least once, and maybe pick up a trick or two that I could bring back and show HER in the bedroom tonight!  Plus, as she knows well, I am definitely not always really the best in new social situations either.  So this is really kind of pushing me outside of my own comfort zone a bit as well!
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CALLING ALL BASEBALL FANS!!

Or even if you’re not, you may still enjoy this! I have no idea about internationally, but at least if you live in the U.S. (even if you don’t follow the sport or attend games very often) surely everyone is at least familiar with the catchy little jingle played during the 7th Inning Stretch at pretty much every game, right?

You know, they get the old pipe organ fired up and everyone sings:

Take me out to the ball game,
Take me out with the crowd.
Buy me some peanuts and cracker jack,
I don’t care if I never get back.
Let me root, root, root for the [home team],
If they don’t win it’s a shame.
For it’s one, two, three strikes, you’re out,
At the old ball game!

WELL, I’ve gone and written some new lyrics to that tune, starting with “Lock Me Up in a Steel Cage!
Then I hired it out to be sung and get a new track created, and it is fantastic!

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Angel has been out of town this week visiting some family, and I sure do miss her! I’ve been keeping busy and pretty productive around the house in her absence (painting the boys’ room, etc.), but at night when I’m alone in our big bed… That’s when it usually seems to hit the hardest. Luckily it’s only for a couple of days, so she will be back again tonight!

In the mean time, I wanted to write briefly about a couple of new experiences that I’ve had this week while locked. The first one being that I DID go to the doctor for an annual physical for the first time in chastity! I was a little bit emboldened the last time I went for a check-up (unlocked that time) and found out that apparently they don’t really do the little testicular check much anymore… If he’s not going to be feeling around down there, I see no reason that I would “need” to be unlocked!

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And it’s true, it was no big deal at all. All we talked about was my general health, cholesterol, exercise (or lack thereof!); all that type of normal mundane stuff. If he HAD tried to go south with it, my contingency plan was to stop him and ask if this would be considered a “kink-friendly” type of practice… then would of course have to explain why I was asking and effectively be “out” to my doctor. But you know, at this stage in my life I think I would be OK with that. But at the same time I’m also VERY OK with the fact that the conversation did NOT have to happen there! 🙂

The other thing I’ve done this week, I kind of splurged for a little bit of “me time” and went to a FLOAT spa. Has anybody ever heard of, or done this? Basically you get into this giant tank with like 10 inches of 97 degree water and several hundred pounds of epsom salt. You close the lid, the lights go out and you just float on your back in complete darkness and silence for the duration (90 minutes at this place). With zero outside stimuli, your brain can just completely disengage for a while letting your body completely relax and heal..

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Back in February I was contacted by Ms. Scarlett, who runs an Adult Toy Store & Blog out of the U.K., called “Toys 4 Naughty Boys.” She was getting ready to start writing an article for her blog aimed at helping people who are new to chastity and just trying to find some good beginner tips. As such, she was reaching out to “experts” who have been involved in the lifestyle for quite a while, to give some first-hand advice. I’d use the term loosely, but apparently I fit the bill as expert in this case! Lol

The article has published now, and can be read in its entirety here:

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e[lust] #104

Posted: March 17, 2018 in Fetish, Kinky, Sex

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Welcome to Elust 104

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #105 Start with the rules, come back April 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

A Wank and a Spank
The S Word
At My Feet

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

Boarding School Survivor
Varnish

~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

Ode to the 69
You really should consider adding your popular posts here too
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This will probably make more than a few of my readers cringe a bit, but Angel and I watched the 2nd installment of “50 Shades of Grey” last weekend. I had watched the first with her a couple years ago after it was released on DVD, and we’d skipped the second one but she wanted to get caught up on it before the last movie runs its course in the theater and becomes available to rent.

Overall, I find it to be a very cheesy plot line and only so-so sex scenes — probably a fairly typical “guy” reaction. Yes, I DO know that it’s not a particularly good representation of BDSM, but the effect it has on Angel… OH MY! That alone makes it soo worth watching with her, and indeed made for a very fun “post-Valentine’s” night when we managed to have an evening alone without the kids!
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