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e[lust] #98

Posted: September 23, 2017 in Fetish, Kinky, Sex

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Welcome to Elust 98

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #99 Start with the rules, come back October 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

Black and white

Underdressed

I Talk Sex – Female Sexuality and Education

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

You Don’t Know What Love Is

Writing for Free vs. Getting Paid

~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

Ropes, Silk, & an Egg   You really should consider adding your popular posts here too All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!
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wp-1489691168539.jpgOK, I’ll admit it.  I think I may be an addict!  Not in a bad way though.. I’m not an alcoholic, I don’t smoke or do drugs, I don’t particularly like to gamble, and can’t even realistically call myself a “sex addict” (given my situation! Lol) — though that’s probably at least much closer to being on the right track.  No, I’m addicted to Angel, and HER sex!  Everything about her, and every way I can help HER to orgasm; I just find myself craving it pretty much all the time!

Last Friday morning before work, Angel and I both woke up slightly before our alarms would start going off.  She rolled over and kind of snuggled into me, probably thinking she’d get a few more minutes to snooze before starting her day.  I wrapped my arm around and began lightly caressing her ass and upper legs.  She said she really needed to get up and use the bathroom, but even so it wasn’t very long at all before she began to spread her legs to let my roaming fingers hit home!

As Angel began to moan and really get into the moment, I could feel myself straining very hard against the tight, unforgiving cage.  But truly all I wanted to do was to get HER off!  I really couldn’t have cared less about being let out and having an orgasm for myself.  I just rode that high right along with Angel through the entire “build-up” process, then got to keep it there right on the edge, FAR beyond how long I’d have ever been able to last on my own accord!  Angel seemed like she might have been holding back a tiny bit herself, trying to delay the inevitable for as long as possible, but really exploded when I said the simple words “Come for me!”  And I got to feel all of that too, at least vicariously THROUGH Angel!
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e[lust] #97

Posted: August 22, 2017 in Fetish, Kinky, Sex

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Welcome to Elust 97

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #97 Start with the rules, come back September 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

The Confessional

A MISTRESS UNSEEN

Wrapped around his finger

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

Counting

The Storyteller’s Conundrum

~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

Rainy Day Lover

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Last week, we just returned from our second little vacation for the summer, back to Florida again. This one was a family vacation with the kids though–quite different than the trip Angel and I were able to take last month by ourselves!

For this trip we did the whole Disney thing for a couple of days (first time for the boys), after which we planted ourselves on the beach for the last half of the week. It was fun, don’t get me wrong. And the boys were definitely very excited for many of the rides, getting to meet some of their favorite characters, etc. But on the other hand it can get very frustrating dealing with kids “world is ending” type of problems every day while on vacation.. I love them dearly, but travelling with them can make me want to pull out what little hair I have left! 🙂

But I digress. The point of this story as it relates to chastity is that I was NOT in chastity for most of last week! I knew Angel had picked up a key before we left the house, it was just unclear if/when she would want to use it. Turns out, she was a little bit afraid of me possibly being stopped at the metal detectors at the gates to Disney World.

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e[lust] #96

Posted: July 19, 2017 in Fetish, Kinky, Sex

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Welcome to Elust 96

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #96 Start with the rules, come back August 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!  

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

The Loop Yellow Cab Service Pammy Corrigan Gets Her Wish

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

Luring Him Back Date Night

~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

International Chocolate Day 2017 (it was fucking brill)   You really should consider adding your popular posts here too All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

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e[lust] #95

Posted: June 21, 2017 in Fetish, Kinky, Sex

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Welcome to Elust 95

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #96 Start with the rules, come back July 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

Size Matters
Driven to Distraction
Under the Sea

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

My London Bridge
A Kind Touch

~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

Organised Orgasms You really should consider adding your popular posts here too All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!
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Believe it or not, my last post was not originally meant to be all about “Richard,” and strap-on sex!  But as I began writing and got stuck on that topic, it just kept getting longer and longer until I felt it justified its own blog entry.  What I had intended to write about, was the deepening D/s bond which has definitely been happening between Angel and I of late!
I feel like every day I wake up loving Angel even more and more; not just as my beautiful wife, my life partner, and my (kinky) best friend, but as my key-holder and most recently–my Domme.  We’ve talked about this a few times and even Angel can’t believe how much she has been able to find her little “inner dominatrix” and how much she enjoys and even gets off on dominating me!  Of course just hearing her speak in her own words of getting off while having her way with me, just makes me want even more of it right then and there!

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I feel like it’s been a while since I’ve been able to write anything, as life has been pretty crazy for the past few weeks.. Not in a bad way or anything, just lots of things going on with the kids, plus Angel and I have been taking some dance lessons together so that has been interesting. It’s been pretty fun, but kind of crazy trying to juggle between babysitters, etc. for at least one night most weeks so we can go out for a while.

But even through our hectic “vanilla” lives, it seems like there has still been plenty of the “kinky” stuff going on behind the scenes too. For one, I’m still locked in the Jail Bird–and loving it! And Angel gets off on that fact so much too, which just makes me love it even more! We haven’t had a whole lot of actual “play time” lately, but when we do we have really been incorporating the strap-on a LOT more! As in, ME wearing the strap-on over the top of my cage, and filling Angel up with a fake dick considerably larger than the real one still locked away…

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e[lust] #94

Posted: May 19, 2017 in Fetish, Kinky, Sex

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Welcome to Elust 94

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #95 Start with the rules, come back June 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!  

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

Always Coming Second Balance THREESOME – the card game

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

The #500words Project ~ 2 #Pussy Pride

~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

No Eligible Posts You really should consider adding your popular posts here too All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!  

Erotic Fiction

Forgiven Finally A Prostitute On Display World Traveller Red Ms. Mona’s Online Dating School for Dudes

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

BDSM is Not My Source for Life. Pure and Simple Discussing Consent & Scene Negotiation

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

You can All for one, or one for all… He haunts me.

Erotic Non-Fiction

Oh no, I’m not. the shoot begins Raylene’s pain does not matter

Poetry

-05.05.17_00:21- White Tee Shirt

Body Talk and Sexual Health

Orgasm Challenge

Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

A Kink Couple Fantasize About the Waitstaff     Elust 88

e [lust] #93

Posted: April 17, 2017 in Fetish, Kinky, Sex

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Welcome to Elust 93

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #94 Start with the rules, come back May 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

 

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

A dress to die for

Pushing Past

Necessary.

 

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

Kink lite, Kink life

Disturbance

 

~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

The Contract

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Erotic Fiction

The Contract

Speaking Truth to a Submissive Heart

Thunder

Subjugate U

Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Jerking off to be banned under Texas bill

That Time Steve Bannon Destroyed Me

How to program a sex robot

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Effortless Connections & Harmonious Energy

Cialis

Playlist…

Poetry

A Love Affair, From A to Z: “A” – Always

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Scouting: A Lusty Limericks

Erotic Non-Fiction

Conflict(ed) part 2

It’s All About The Feet

TEASE

Oral Birthday Fun ~ The Glorious Sixty-Ninth!

I Will Do…

The subtle threesome

Events

Eroticon 2017 – I Herd U Lieks It

Body Talk and Sexual Health

photo shoots past and future

Elust 88


Today I have hit a full SIX MONTHS straight of being locked in the Jail Bird!  This is already roughly two months longer than my previous personal chastity record, and still counting.  Now this is not to say that I have had completely zero orgasms over the past 6 months or have been locked absolutely 24×7 since October 4, 2016, but both of those statements are ALMOST true.

According to my records on my Current Status page, I have only been unlocked very briefly a total of 4 times over the past 6 months, including two of them on the same day.  I would estimate that I have had less than 1 hour TOTAL of “freedom” since we began this lock-up session.  And each of those outings did include an orgasm, so I can say that I’ve had a total of 4 full orgasms plus 2 of what I like to call “Chastegasms.”  So I guess you could say that I am still averaging 1 “release” per month, give or take a few days/weeks.

Now I’m not going to lie, a chastegasm does feel pretty damn good and does provide a bit of relief from all of the pent up sexual energy that just keeps building inside of me during long periods of chastity.  It ends up being pretty close to a “normal” orgasm, but still very different at the same time.  There’s just something about being scrunched in a steel cage less than 2 inches long, not being able to get completely hard at all and not feeling the stroking motion all the way down your shaft that makes it a completely new experience.  The only way I’ve ever even been able to have one is with very strong vibrations (i.e. from a Hitachi Magic Wand) directly on the tip of the cage.  The most recent such experience was just this past weekend, and it’s a fun story!

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Once again I just wanted to wish everybody a Happy New Year, and take a few moments to recap the fun night that WE had this past weekend, albeit a day early for the new year.  I knew that Angel and I would be out all night with the extended family on new year’s eve, so I had planned our own little party the night before!  Once we were sure the kids were both sound asleep, I had Angel change into a sexy new piece of lingerie I’d bought for her and meet me in the bedroom.  I wish I could get a couple pics on here of that but I doubt she’d appreciate that very much!  But it is this bright red outfit, trimmed in black lace which just barely covers the nipples, then a pair of black fishnet stockings and some new strappy high heels.  Very tall heels have never really been Angel’s “thing,” but I bought her a pair this time anyway hoping she might try them on for me at least once, and I must say that they do look very HOT on her!  She is a tall woman anyway, and these actually make her even taller than me.  When she’s standing and I’m not, it’s as if Angel is just completely towering over me which just seems to add even more to the new D/s dynamic that has been growing ever stronger between us lately!

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Wow, can I just say: This has been one of the more fun & rewarding Christmas seasons that I can ever remember!  Of course, our boys are at just the right age where they are really into everything, so that is always a blast to watch them. But Angel and I have also been able to have even more of our own fun behind closed doors, every day lately!  Honestly I can’t even remember the last day that we DIDN’T either wake up and/or go to bed with some play time, and with SO many orgasms for Angel!  I’m sure it’s been every day for at least the better part of the past two weeks now, and I see no reason that this streak might break at least until we get into the new year!

Some of the most fun yet, has been just the past couple of nights, starting on Christmas Eve.  We knew we’d have to be getting up early with the boys the next day to see what Santa brought for them, but Angel was all for having some fun of our own the night before!  I had thought she’d be too tired that night since we were already up past midnight finishing up the last bit of wrapping, etc.  But when I realized she wasn’t I had a little early gift for her.  First I sent her off to change into a fun new piece of lingerie I’d picked up for her.  She had asked for something rather “slutty” for christmas, so when she came back in her red lace outfit decked out with bits of white fur along the neckline and of course crotchless panties, I could tell by the look on her face that she was really going to love being my slutty little Mrs. Clause for the evening!  For myself, I had pulled on a new pair of green velvet underwear complete with a red ribbon tied into a bow right at the tip of my cage.  A nice little “present” for Angel to unwrap later if she so desired!

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Besides a couple of new things that I wrote about in my last post that Angel and I explored in November, I forgot to mention something else we’ve been doing pretty much every night for almost a month now.  And that is that I, at least, have been sleeping completely nude (except for the Jail Bird, of course!)  There have always been occasional nights where we would do this, after an evening of sexy fun, then we would both just sort of collapse into each other and fall asleep.  But normally we would each get up at some point (not necessarily at the same time) and pull on some underwear at the very least.  I would especially tend to do that fairly quickly as I’ve always preferred to not just be “flopping around” all over the place while I sleep! 🙂

But one night early last month we must have just REALLY worn ourselves out, because we both went all night sleeping like that.  And I’ve got to tell you, it felt pretty great!  Just having our warm bodies pressed up against each other all night was a treat in itself, but then it also made it that much easier for an extra round the next morning.  Even when I stay locked, morning sex really is the best!! (more…)


Angel’s birthday fell over this past weekend and we were certainly able to have some fun with it!  After the last time I was out of the Queen’s Keep (about a month ago) Angel had decided that I would definitely stay locked until at least her birthday, but at that point she would probably want to have me out.

We ended up being pretty booked up for most of the day on Saturday but fortunately we were able to find an overnight sitter for the kids that night, which meant that we would be able to REALLY have some fun!  First we did meet up with a couple of friends to celebrate Angel’s birthday over dinner, which turned into another stop at a “chocolate bar” for dessert, and it was actually well after midnight before we arrived back at our house for some alone time.  At that point it wasn’t long at all before we were in bed ready to get started!

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Now for part 2 of our weekend adventure (Part 1 can be found HERE).  Our fun started on Thursday night, but then fast-forward to Saturday…  We had a pretty busy morning/early-afternoon, so sex was pretty much off the table outside of some extra teasing and reminding each other of the fun we’d had a couple nights before that!  When Saturday evening came around, Angel already had plans to have a group of girls over to the house for a little party and to binge-watch some new Netflix series that just came out.  Not exactly something I cared to stick around for!  Luckily, I had also managed to acquire a baby-sitter for the boys, and they were going to stay there all night (gotta love having grandparents nearby!)

So that left me free to be out, hanging out with other friends for the evening, and I didn’t hear any more from Angel until almost midnight!  I was sitting over at a friend’s house when the “dirty texting” began…  I missed seeing it for the first few minutes, but essentially the conversation went like this:

11:49 Angel:  I just want you to know I am in bed – lightly clothed
11:54 Angel:  I just made my toes curl!
   [nice, she’s gotten all the way to THAT point now–perfectly willing to take care of herself, whether I’m there or not! She has come SO far in that area since we met!]

11:58 Me:  I’m jealous… be there in 20 mins?
12:00 Angel: Sooner
12:01 Me:  Will try.. keep it warmed up for me 🙂
12:05 Angel: Trying but that is a long time for vibrating

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This will end up being a two-part post, as I just wanted to take a little time to write about a pretty wild weekend that Angel and I just had. It actually began a little bit early, as in last Thursday night!  Angel had to work late into the evening on Thursday, but as a result she also got to take the day off on Friday.  I still had to work on Friday, but that wouldn’t stop us from having some fun!  I knew that Angel was working until around 8:00pm on Thursday, then she and a few co-workers had planned on going out somewhere for a bite to eat.  I managed to get the kids all settled down and off to bed, then naturally my horny mind started wandering.. wondering what kind of “fun” Angel and I might be able to have that night since she didn’t have to get up early for work the next morning!

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Happy Valentine’s Day, everybody! Yes, it’s supposed to be the most “romantic day of the year,” yada-yada.  Angel and I never really do a whole lot on this day.  To be honest, the most exciting part of today that we’re both looking forward to is the return of the “Walking Dead” later this evening! 🙂 And I’ll even go out on a limb and predict a special little surprise for Rick’s little sweetheart here on this Valentine’s Day! Don’t worry, that’s not exactly a spoiler–it could be a good or bad surprise! Lol

canstockphoto16905256Anyhow, I’m not here to talk about zombies! In REAL life, one “gift” I gave Angel today was the keys back to my Queen’s Keep, securely locked back where it belongs.  To go along with it, I created Angel a very custom card (take that, Hallmark!) with a handful of little poems that I wrote for her, very specific to chastity and key-holding.  Some are admittedly rather cheesy, but I figured I’d go ahead and share them here anyway…

 


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As I wrote about last week, the EmlaLock session that I had started which kept my keys completely out of reach for a couple months has ended.  We have not yet actually clicked the “End” button and gotten the combination to the lockbox, but Angel now has full say again of when that will happen.  The control is completely back in her hands again, and she has already taken great advantage of that fact!

Based only on recent bedroom talk and knowing our past history, I actually rather expected that Angel would most likely be letting me out sometime this past weekend.  I know that she has been desperately craving the intimate, one-on-one connection between us that only “real” sex seems to be able to fully provide.  Yes, I have been practically bouncing off the walls at times too, wanting my OWN release, but that is completely secondary to HER wants/needs and I wouldn’t have it any other way!

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This past weekend, with Angel and I both feeling particularly horny, we found some time to make sure that HERS was taken care of despite the fact that I would still not be unlocked for my own! Keeping in mind that the last time we had much playtime was following a big fight between us, it was very nice to both be going into this completely relaxed and on good terms with each other!

Angel told me that I was free to do ANYTHING I wanted to her that evening–though of course I was immediately shot down when I said that I wanted to be inside her! 🙂 THAT wasn’t happening. Instead, I started off with the usual routine of getting her warmed up with some orgasms via my fingers, tongue, and of course her magic wand! As things began to heat up a lot, Angel requested that I pay some attention to her ass, as it had been quite a while since we had done anything like that!

To backtrack just a bit, before we went on our little anniversary get-away last month, we had begun playing around with several different sized butt plugs, etc. and found that Angel was really enjoying them! She really wanted to try straight-up anal with ME inside her, but of course that could only be done when I was not locked! Well, when I was out of the Queen’s Keep that weekend, we did in fact try that for the first time ever!  I just didn’t write about that aspect of our adventures before, because it didn’t exactly work out quite the way either of us was expecting..

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