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I feel like it’s been a while since I’ve been able to write anything, as life has been pretty crazy for the past few weeks.. Not in a bad way or anything, just lots of things going on with the kids, plus Angel and I have been taking some dance lessons together so that has been interesting. It’s been pretty fun, but kind of crazy trying to juggle between babysitters, etc. for at least one night most weeks so we can go out for a while.

But even through our hectic “vanilla” lives, it seems like there has still been plenty of the “kinky” stuff going on behind the scenes too. For one, I’m still locked in the Jail Bird–and loving it! And Angel gets off on that fact so much too, which just makes me love it even more! We haven’t had a whole lot of actual “play time” lately, but when we do we have really been incorporating the strap-on a LOT more! As in, ME wearing the strap-on over the top of my cage, and filling Angel up with a fake dick considerably larger than the real one still locked away…

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Today I have hit a full SIX MONTHS straight of being locked in the Jail Bird!  This is already roughly two months longer than my previous personal chastity record, and still counting.  Now this is not to say that I have had completely zero orgasms over the past 6 months or have been locked absolutely 24×7 since October 4, 2016, but both of those statements are ALMOST true.

According to my records on my Current Status page, I have only been unlocked very briefly a total of 4 times over the past 6 months, including two of them on the same day.  I would estimate that I have had less than 1 hour TOTAL of “freedom” since we began this lock-up session.  And each of those outings did include an orgasm, so I can say that I’ve had a total of 4 full orgasms plus 2 of what I like to call “Chastegasms.”  So I guess you could say that I am still averaging 1 “release” per month, give or take a few days/weeks.

Now I’m not going to lie, a chastegasm does feel pretty damn good and does provide a bit of relief from all of the pent up sexual energy that just keeps building inside of me during long periods of chastity.  It ends up being pretty close to a “normal” orgasm, but still very different at the same time.  There’s just something about being scrunched in a steel cage less than 2 inches long, not being able to get completely hard at all and not feeling the stroking motion all the way down your shaft that makes it a completely new experience.  The only way I’ve ever even been able to have one is with very strong vibrations (i.e. from a Hitachi Magic Wand) directly on the tip of the cage.  The most recent such experience was just this past weekend, and it’s a fun story!

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Happy Valentine’s Day, everybody!  Being how it falls in the middle of the week this year, Angel and I had a chance to celebrate this past weekend instead.  Friday night we had an all-night sitter for the kids, so when those nights come around something fun is almost always bound to happen!  We started off with getting tickets to a Broadway production currently touring at a theatre in our city.  I haven’t been to a live show myself for a few years, so that’s always a good date night!  Since we ran out of time for dinner beforehand, we stopped off for some food after the show, then it was back home where we very quickly made our way to the bedroom, already getting quite frisky!

As I warmed Angel up with my hands, she wanted to jump straight to her best friend (the Magic Wand), propping it between my legs and riding herself to several quick and powerful orgasms!  I love the experience of getting to have a front row seat and being kept right on the edge for the entire time, while Angel basically just uses my body as a wand holder and comes over and over again on top of HER locked dick!  In fact there aren’t many places I’d rather be, second only to having my head down BETWEEN her legs licking her to even more orgasms..  That’s a good thing, I suppose, since as soon as she was completely drenched from riding her wand, Angel rolled over to her back and nudged me right down there to help clean up!

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Once again I just wanted to wish everybody a Happy New Year, and take a few moments to recap the fun night that WE had this past weekend, albeit a day early for the new year.  I knew that Angel and I would be out all night with the extended family on new year’s eve, so I had planned our own little party the night before!  Once we were sure the kids were both sound asleep, I had Angel change into a sexy new piece of lingerie I’d bought for her and meet me in the bedroom.  I wish I could get a couple pics on here of that but I doubt she’d appreciate that very much!  But it is this bright red outfit, trimmed in black lace which just barely covers the nipples, then a pair of black fishnet stockings and some new strappy high heels.  Very tall heels have never really been Angel’s “thing,” but I bought her a pair this time anyway hoping she might try them on for me at least once, and I must say that they do look very HOT on her!  She is a tall woman anyway, and these actually make her even taller than me.  When she’s standing and I’m not, it’s as if Angel is just completely towering over me which just seems to add even more to the new D/s dynamic that has been growing ever stronger between us lately!

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Wow, can I just say: This has been one of the more fun & rewarding Christmas seasons that I can ever remember!  Of course, our boys are at just the right age where they are really into everything, so that is always a blast to watch them. But Angel and I have also been able to have even more of our own fun behind closed doors, every day lately!  Honestly I can’t even remember the last day that we DIDN’T either wake up and/or go to bed with some play time, and with SO many orgasms for Angel!  I’m sure it’s been every day for at least the better part of the past two weeks now, and I see no reason that this streak might break at least until we get into the new year!

Some of the most fun yet, has been just the past couple of nights, starting on Christmas Eve.  We knew we’d have to be getting up early with the boys the next day to see what Santa brought for them, but Angel was all for having some fun of our own the night before!  I had thought she’d be too tired that night since we were already up past midnight finishing up the last bit of wrapping, etc.  But when I realized she wasn’t I had a little early gift for her.  First I sent her off to change into a fun new piece of lingerie I’d picked up for her.  She had asked for something rather “slutty” for christmas, so when she came back in her red lace outfit decked out with bits of white fur along the neckline and of course crotchless panties, I could tell by the look on her face that she was really going to love being my slutty little Mrs. Clause for the evening!  For myself, I had pulled on a new pair of green velvet underwear complete with a red ribbon tied into a bow right at the tip of my cage.  A nice little “present” for Angel to unwrap later if she so desired!

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November is coming to an end and I am still locked, for ~56 days now and still counting. This is my first stint in the new “Jail Bird” chastity device, and I am really loving it so far! All in all there is really very little difference between this one and my Queen’s Keep, other than the fact that I think I really have finally gotten the measurements near-perfect now. The length and diameter of the cage do keep me very restricted to my most flaccid size. I was even sick one day a couple weeks ago, and that’s when I can usually really tell exactly how large a cage is on me since that’s obviously when I’m by far the LEAST aroused! But in this case it really didn’t change much; the cage still fit very tightly all the way around the sides and tip! The only thing I may change, eventually, is the gap size between the base ring and the cage. It’s not terrible, but does seem just a hair too long. So one of these days when I might happen to be unlocked for a few days, I may decide to go ahead and send it back in for Mature Metal to reduce that by at least 1/2 a size.

canstockphoto17076699So I’m still locked, but Angel and I HAVE been able to have quite a lot of fun this month! Mostly for her benefit of course, but some for me as well. I have even managed… Let’s call it 1 1/2 orgasms for myself this month! Starting with the full one, I remember there was one night after I had been treating Angel to one orgasm after another with my fingers, tongue, magic wand, etc. and she decided that she really wanted to see me have one as well! I wasn’t going to be allowed inside of her, but she really wanted to make me come by HER mouth! She handed me the key to the Jail Bird, and I had the cage off very quickly. When I started to take the base ring off though, she stopped me saying that I might as well leave that piece there, as I was DEFINITELY going right back in! Have I ever mentioned how hot that is when Angel takes charge to that extent? 🙂 Anyhow, as HER dick was springing to life, Angel took it a step further and pulled out our cuffs from under the bed so she could secure both of my hands to the corners. Now she could really have her way with me!

Angel teased and tantalized me for several minutes before finally taking her plaything into her mouth and licking/sucking in such a way as I’m not sure I’ve ever felt before! This only took a few minutes before I was right on the edge and practically begging her to either finish it off or just lock me back up and let me simmer down that way. It was completely her choice and I truly didn’t care; I just couldn’t take much more of that! Angel had never really considered the latter proposal, and thinks that would be kind of “mean,” but she did finally give permission to explode in her mouth. That was about the best I’d felt in a long time, and as I laid there reveling in the moment I barely noticed that I was still tied to the bed for a while when Angel disappeared to the bathroom to clean up a bit. When she came back and released me, I went to the bathroom as well, taking the Jail Bird with me, and dutifully locked right back up again as per Angel’s request. Total time out was less than 20 minutes, so in my opinion that doesn’t really count as being out of chastity as far as my Current Status page is concerned. That streak will continue until I’ve been out for at least most of one full day. After all, I’m only counting days locked, not necessarily days without an orgasm! 🙂

20161129_070637.jpgThe other more memorable experience from this past month involved playing with a new toy! We now have one of these double-dildo type things, or a “strapless strap-on” if you will. We have used a regular strap-on several times in the past, mostly with me wearing it over my cage and letting Angel feel some real penetration while I get zero stimulation from it whatsoever. Only once have we reversed roles with HER wearing the strap-on and taking me in the ass, which was also quite an enjoyable experience! This time, I took it upon myself to at least try to provide something more pleasurable for both of us at the same time. This time, ANGEL was the one tied to the bed (at her request even, which is somewhat rare!) I was not unlocked at all this time, but got to spend a good amount of time working her entire body, drawing orgasm after orgasm from her! After a while of this, I pulled out the new toy, lubed up the short end and worked it inside of her. I had to go very slow with that as it almost seemed to be hurting her, but I don’t know if that’s because it was just too big/inflexible, or Angel just isn’t really used to being penetrated much anymore! Regardless, it eventually slipped in and Angel became more accustomed to it. Now it was my turn, so I also lubed up the longer end, then straddled her while slipping it into my ass! It took a little while to get the angles right for it to be comfortable, but eventually everything hit home!

This toy does also have a pretty good little vibrator built into it, though I believe I was feeling much more of that than Angel was. As I kind of bounced around on top of her, exactly the way that she typically enjoys riding ME, I was feeling like I was VERY close to having a little mini-orgasm just from anal stimulation alone! But alas, as I was getting pretty close to it, the vibrator’s battery died. It’s rechargable, and only comes partially charged at time of purchase, so I guess that’s what I get for not following the directions and taking the time to fully charge it before the first use! Lol Though that part was over, it still felt pretty amazing being completely impaled while riding on top of Angel. Her magic wand was still laying right there beside us, so I tried picking that up and holding it against the toy to continue the sensation–but it didn’t work particularly well. I settled with holding the wand against my cage, which of course made EVERYTHING try to spring to life once more! It wasn’t long at all before I knew I was close. It’s not like Angel was in much of a position to stop me, but I still asked her permission to finish myself off on her belly. She was throughly enjoying the show happening on top of her, and oblidged my request. Pretty much as soon as I got the nod, it was all over! Of course it felt very nice and all, but there’s still just something quite different about coming from within the confines of my cage, where I am not fully hard in the least! So I guess that’s what I’ll call the 1/2 orgasm. Not exactly a “ruined” one, but certainly not the normal full-blown “out of this world” experience either!

canstockphoto37653771.jpgSo that’s the latest, and now I’m still locked for who knows how long. Most likely at least until the holidays, as fitting for our song that Angel just loves for me to play for her daily! For November I did manage a couple of brief releases despite being locked in my Jail Bird for the whole month. But hey, even a REAL “jailbird” might be granted a conjugal visit on occasion, right? I know, I know… The jokes kind of write themselves with this device, right? Lol


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I’ll Be Locked For Christmas

Lyrics by: pcguy0681
Music by: Dying Seed
To the tune of Bing Crosby’s classic melody: “I’ll Be Home For Christmas”


Angel’s birthday fell over this past weekend and we were certainly able to have some fun with it!  After the last time I was out of the Queen’s Keep (about a month ago) Angel had decided that I would definitely stay locked until at least her birthday, but at that point she would probably want to have me out.

We ended up being pretty booked up for most of the day on Saturday but fortunately we were able to find an overnight sitter for the kids that night, which meant that we would be able to REALLY have some fun!  First we did meet up with a couple of friends to celebrate Angel’s birthday over dinner, which turned into another stop at a “chocolate bar” for dessert, and it was actually well after midnight before we arrived back at our house for some alone time.  At that point it wasn’t long at all before we were in bed ready to get started!

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And now for the REST of the story!  (If you haven’t read my last post yet, I highly suggest starting with that, HERE!)

I left off my story with Angel relaxing on a chair in the basement, still calming down from at least one big orgasm that I had given her while she was hanging by her arms from a hook up in the rafters.  It was such a sight to see, and now she was kicking back, still glowing in post-orgasmic bliss, and still wearing nothing but her black lace teddy covering all but her most intimate parts.

I, for one, knew I had to have more, and I was pretty sure that Angel wasn’t quite finished yet either!  I dropped to the floor at her feet, and began kissing her toes, feet, and legs, making her giggle as I hit some rather ticklish spots.  I worked my way up her legs, eager to taste just how wet she still was from just a few minutes prior.  I was definitely not disappointed to get there and find that she was still VERY wet! Angel scooted forward a bit to give me easier access, and I didn’t have to lick very long before I could tell that she was very close to yet another orgasm!

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Lately I’ve been writing about several new “firsts” that Angel and I have been able to experience together recently, and this past weekend leading up to the holiday presented yet another!  It’s no secret (at least to readers of my blog here) that we like to “play,” whether it be with light bondage, spanking, vibrators, butt plugs–you name it!  Well a while ago (I can’t really remember if I wrote about this particular experience or not), we played once with some of these “cheaper” little door jamb cuffs, and had a lot of fun with each other actually standing up this time instead of just being tied to the bed or something..  Angel was definitely interested in doing that again, and since we had last Friday night with no kids in the house, I had teased her starting that morning before work by saying that by the end of the day I would have her strung up by her hands and be turning her exposed ass a nice shade of red!

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First of all, to all of my readers in the U.S., Happy Labor Day! I don’t really have any pithy remarks about this “unofficial” end of summer, so let’s just say have fun! 🙂  And now on to what I REALLY wanted this post to be about! 

I’ve written a little bit before about WHY I’m interested in male chastity and orgasm denial.  Ok so really that’s basically this entire blog, but specifically I posted about it earlier this year with my piece titled appropriately:

Why Chastity?

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I stand by everything I wrote on that page at the time, but the other day I also came across a little different perspective on this topic which I felt was worth writing more about.  This is from a chastity forum on Reddit, where the author granted me permission to cross-post his writing, so enjoy!

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In my last post, I wrote about a very hot encounter where Angel did very briefly choose to let me out of the Queen’s Keep for one of the more intense orgasms I have ever experienced for myself!  If desired, you can re-read that account, here.  That all went down about a week and a half ago.  As I’m trying to finally get caught up on some of my writing here, I wanted to finish up that story with how it continued this past weekend as well!

Angel had so much fun with that the week before, that she decided fairly quickly this past weekend that we should do it again.  The only stipulation was, that she didn’t really want to swallow it this time.  Instead she would go get herself a little cup to be able to spit into when she was finished with me. By the time she told me this, Angel and I were already in bed going pretty hot and heavy with her magic wand, and the last thing I wanted at the moment was to see her leave, so I ended up offering an alternative…

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I wanted to write a little bit about last weekend (As in, a week ago. This story will continue later with updates from the weekend just a couple days ago!), as we had one VERY fun, hot night!  As I said in my last post, Angel has said that I should be locked until HER birthday, in late September, but in a lot of ways I think that’s almost more difficult for her to enforce than it is for me to “endure!” 🙂  She definitely does enjoy my horniness levels when she keeps me locked this long, and enjoys the endless stream of orgasms that she is able to achieve with me in this state, but I know there are just times that she still really wants me inside her.  And I do want that too, but it is quite liberating to know that it will only happen at HER discretion!

For quite a while now, Angel has been very attached to her “best friend” the Hitachi Magic Wand.  She can come so hard and so often with this vibrator, and it is truly amazing watching her!  It is especially fun when the wand is placed between my legs and she straddles it (and me!) so I get the best view!  The only bad part about that, is when I have to use one hand to hold the wand in place and help press it into her a little harder.  Over time, my hand tends to go a bit numb, but that’s not even the bad part…  Frankly, my hands would be of better use in OTHER areas! 🙂  So lately we’ve actually been trying a NEW toy, which is this little cushion with a wand holder built right into it, like this:

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Angel was out of town with the boys for this past weekend visiting some family, leaving me home alone again.  Not that I could really do any more than I normally can anyway, since she is still in full control of my keys!  But this did turn out to be a very fun, interesting weekend, with even more FIRSTS for our relationship!

 

To start with, I’m going to have to back up just a little bit to set the stage for what happened Saturday night…  Over the past several months, I have been getting involved to a small extent with our local “kink” community.  There is a really great “munch” just a few miles from my house that meets once a month, where everyone is always so nice and welcoming!  (If you don’t know what a munch is, I highly recommend looking into it to see if there are any in YOUR area!)  It is so nice to have a place to go and be able to talk to real people about absolutely anything!  The conversations are definitely not always kink related, but when it does come up everybody is very accepting and not judgmental in the least.  And in my previous statement, I say “real people” not to imply that you folks from all over the world who are reading my blog AREN’T real, but I find that face-to-face interactions are also very rewarding! It’s one thing to tell my story on the internet for strangers to read in their spare time, but quite another to tell somebody point blank that I am locked in a chastity device for which my wife holds the keys, and see them not even bat an eye at the topic!

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After Angel and I completed our little 5 day challenge of waking up early for (her) orgasms, we had a couple days off from doing that.  I think in a way Angel missed waking up like that, but at the same time she told me that it was good because she still kind of likes the spontaneity of it sometimes too, and felt like she was losing a little bit of that this past week.  It was a very busy weekend though, so neither of us were really too bummed about breaking our streak and skipping sex completely for Saturday.  Sunday was almost the same, but late in the evening we managed to find yet another new way to have some fun!  

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​In my last post I wrote about a 5 Day Orgasm Challenge that Angel and I were going to try to accomplish this week.  I am happy to say that it was VERY successful!  Here’s a day-to-day rundown of our activities! 

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Between summer being upon us making it generally a VERY busy time for our family, plus starting a new job recently, I realize that the frequency of my blog posts has been slowing down a bit lately.  But I wanted to take a little bit of time to talk about the “fireworks” that have been happening already since my last post, and a fun little game that Angel and I are trying to do incorporate into this coming week! (more…)


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So it was my birthday this past Monday, and it has been a pretty fun week!  It has been extremely busy too, as I also started a new job on the same day, so there has been the normal concerns of learning a new environment, trying to make a good first impression with a new boss, etc.  But on the bright side, as we anticipated the busy days ahead Angel decided to give me a little birthday surprise and unlock me the weekend before!

It was well after the kids had gone to bed on Friday night.  In fact, well after midnight, which is why I marked Saturday as my official release date for this round, after 29 days of trying out the resized Queen’s Keep.  I am very happy to report no more issues with it at this point!  Of course, we had to begin the fun with several orgasms for Angel, as she “considered” whether or not to let me out of chastity or not.  I do think she had most likely already decided, but nonetheless she was having fun with keeping me in the dark about whether or not I would get out that night!
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As more and more people discover and read parts of my blog, I inevitably field a number of various questions around chastity.  I do try my best to get back with at least a brief answer for each and every question that comes up, and many of them even become an entire topic for a new blog post.  One question that seems to be asked most often is simply “WHY?  Why the heck would I actually WANT to be locked in a chastity device and be denied orgasm?  I write often about all of the orgasms/pleasure that Angel is receiving (at my “expense”), but what about MY pleasure; isn’t that important too?

canstockphoto8241603Now, the easiest answer to that question would be to just go back and read my entire blog from the beginning! After all, that’s basically what the entire subject of Thrill of the Chaste is all about! 🙂  But that’s kind of mean.. I could never actually answer one of my readers in that way!  Lol  I am into the 100’s of posts now, so that would be an awful lot of content to sift through.  And I do greatly appreciate the fact that so many people do read my blog and ask such thoughtful questions as they try to comprehend why exactly I do what I do, so I don’t think it would be fair in the least to just brush anybody aside and tell them that their question has already been answered, so go find it…

As I thought more about it, I realized that I have written pretty extensively on various blog posts about WHY I enjoy chastity so much, but I can’t recall ever dedicating one single post to that topic alone.  So here it is!  This should give a pretty good rundown of why I allow myself to be locked in chastity (and even ask for it).  When I get this question in the future, I may very well start redirecting folks back to this particular page, so if that is you, please don’t be offended that I didn’t type out a personalized, lengthy response to your question.  I think this should give you the very basics, and if you want to know more about literally ANY aspect of the lifestyle that I haven’t covered enough of here, please feel free to keep asking questions!  If you ask about something that I either don’t know or don’t have any direct experience with then I will tell you that; but if I have any insights/opinions on the topic then I’m more than happy to share it!


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This post isn’t anything to do with chastity, I just wanted to wish any Moms out there who might be reading my blog a Happy Mother’s Day!  Raising kids can be [is] one of the most difficult and underappreciated jobs in the world, and you probably don’t get nearly as much credit as you deserve for it!

I do hope that you have the opportunity to at least take this one day to relax for a little while.  Pamper yourself a bit… or have your horny, locked up husband/significant other pamper you even more! (ok sorry, had to at least slip in a LITTLE chastity reference here! Lol)  Seriously though, you guys definitely deserve more than one day, but at least this is a start.   Happy Mother’s Day!


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Last week, I did have a few pretty productive days alone while Angel and the boys were out of town visiting some family.  Of course I missed them all very much, but in a lot of ways it WAS a nice break for me as well!  They arrived safely back home very late last Saturday night, and it seems like we’ve all been going pretty much non-stop ever since.  Angel and I have had very little time to even be intimate at all since then, and I for one have been missing THAT too!

Last night I was working down in the basement for a while, and when I came upstairs to get ready for bed I found Angel relaxing in the bathtub, enjoying a nice Jacuzzi bath.  The thing to start with here is that Angel RARELY uses the tub anymore, generally just opting for a quick shower on her way out the door every morning.  When I saw her there, I was immediately struck with just how sexy she looked all stretched out, mostly submerged in the water!
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