I feel like I am WAY behind on my writing lately, so hopefully I’ll be able to crank out a couple posts fairly quickly here! First, I wanted to follow up on what I wrote a couple weeks ago, about possibly ordering a spare chastity device.  I have placed the order!  Mature Metal is now crafting me a new Jail Bird chastity device, just slightly longer and also narrower than my current Queen’s Keep measurements.
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I had some e-mail last week from a new reader who is also getting started and trying to find his way through the world of male chastity.  He just had a few questions, most of which I think I gave him fairly sound advice about, but he had one question for which I don’t really have any specific experience to speak of.

So I thought I’d go a slightly different route and open it up here, to see if anybody else who sees this might happen to have any advice for him!  I may post more of his message at a later date when relevant; but for now this is truncated down just a bit for space and to keep the discussion centered on this one specific topic..

Mark asks:

My wife unlocked me last night, which was about 14 days, our longest to date.

I am still playing with the rings and the gap spacing on the CB6000S, and have the sizer rings on order from MM.   I felt a little discomfort at the end of the two weeks and thought it might just be that tugging feeling you get with an erection and the way it pulls on the ring.  After letting me out, I looked a litle closer because I was still feeling discomfort with it off.  Turns out, I have a couple in-grown hairs where I had shaved.  So that is my next question.  I thought if I was smoother there would be less friction, but now I am wondering if having something tight has any effect on in-grown hairs.  I have shaved before as that is the way my wife likes me, every once in a while I’ll get an in-grown hair, but after wearing the CB6000S for 2 weeks, I had about 3.  If your experience has given you insight into shaving or not shaving, I would love to hear about it.

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I’ve been thinking a lot lately of ordering myself a second device, most likely another custom steel one from Mature Metal.  Since I last had my current Queen’s Keep adjusted again it has been a lot better, but I’m still not sure that we’re QUITE there yet..  So despite everything I’ve already gone through with various devices and with the Queen’s Keep being by far the best so far, I guess you could say that I am still in search of that ultimate, perfect device for myself! Read the rest of this entry »



Angel was out of town with the boys for this past weekend visiting some family, leaving me home alone again.  Not that I could really do any more than I normally can anyway, since she is still in full control of my keys!  But this did turn out to be a very fun, interesting weekend, with even more FIRSTS for our relationship!


To start with, I’m going to have to back up just a little bit to set the stage for what happened Saturday night…  Over the past several months, I have been getting involved to a small extent with our local “kink” community.  There is a really great “munch” just a few miles from my house that meets once a month, where everyone is always so nice and welcoming!  (If you don’t know what a munch is, I highly recommend looking into it to see if there are any in YOUR area!)  It is so nice to have a place to go and be able to talk to real people about absolutely anything!  The conversations are definitely not always kink related, but when it does come up everybody is very accepting and not judgmental in the least.  And in my previous statement, I say “real people” not to imply that you folks from all over the world who are reading my blog AREN’T real, but I find that face-to-face interactions are also very rewarding! It’s one thing to tell my story on the internet for strangers to read in their spare time, but quite another to tell somebody point blank that I am locked in a chastity device for which my wife holds the keys, and see them not even bat an eye at the topic!

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After Angel and I completed our little 5 day challenge of waking up early for (her) orgasms, we had a couple days off from doing that.  I think in a way Angel missed waking up like that, but at the same time she told me that it was good because she still kind of likes the spontaneity of it sometimes too, and felt like she was losing a little bit of that this past week.  It was a very busy weekend though, so neither of us were really too bummed about breaking our streak and skipping sex completely for Saturday.  Sunday was almost the same, but late in the evening we managed to find yet another new way to have some fun!  

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​In my last post I wrote about a 5 Day Orgasm Challenge that Angel and I were going to try to accomplish this week.  I am happy to say that it was VERY successful!  Here’s a day-to-day rundown of our activities! 

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Between summer being upon us making it generally a VERY busy time for our family, plus starting a new job recently, I realize that the frequency of my blog posts has been slowing down a bit lately.  But I wanted to take a little bit of time to talk about the “fireworks” that have been happening already since my last post, and a fun little game that Angel and I are trying to do incorporate into this coming week! Read the rest of this entry »


So it’s the 4th of July, or otherwise known as Independence Day here in the U.S.!  That means an extra day off of work, having some barbeque and beer with friends, and most likely capping off the night with a nice fireworks display to celebrate the many freedoms that most of us in this country tend to take for granted..

I for one, am actually choosing to GIVE UP one of my freedoms today; one that I’ve had returned to me for the past 3 weeks or so now since my birthday weekend.  And that is the freedom to orgasm any time I wish!  Since we just returned from a week long family vacation, and I do have one more day off of work due to the holiday, I decided that this was as good of a time as any to go back into my chastity device and once again give Angel full control of my sexuality! 
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My other pending reader question was from Chris_sd, who commented back on my previous post: Re-sizing the Keep.

Chris wrote:

Hello, I went ahead and got the jailbird a couple months back. I love it and my measurements were pretty close although I could have gone a bit smaller. My problem is I’ve had a burning sensation under my scrotum, I contacted MM and sent it in as they suggested increasing the gap a half size. I got it back and still same problem. I’m able to wear it at night with loose clothing but wearing dress pants seems to increase the pain. I’m only to wear it a couple days then have to take a break because of the pain. I’m hoping everything will kind of adjust to the device over time but wondering if theirs any special type of lotion or lube that may help. I’ve been using regular water based lube but it doesn’t seem to help at all.

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I’ve had a couple of reader questions in my inbox for a few weeks now and I feel a little bad about taking so long to respond to them, so I wanted to take a few minutes to go ahead and address these.

The first is a multi-parter.  Wade wrote:

Hey Mate,

Just found your blog, I am currently in the ordering process of getting a Mature Metal Device too, I was looking at the Jail Bird purely because it is open so I figure it will make cleaning easy for prolonged wear. You had some serious sores wearing yours is that issue sorted out now? Was it just caused by sizing?

Sizing is a bit of an issue everyone seems to order so small I have worn the Birdlocked Maxi device so far and it can really slide down and put pressure on my balls when getting aroused, I bought the sizing rings and am trial wearing the 1 3/4 ring to see if it is comfortable along for a day or two like I read else where is good to do. length wise overtime I measure I get almost 4 inches so that means I should order like 3.5-.75″ like I never see people ordering such sizes from what I have read, I know that hard I am 8″ or so but should I be trying to squish it up more or just go off the true measurement I get…

My other question is about the boxer shorts you wear they are a one size fits most, what size are you? curious if that will help me to know if they would fit me, I am guessing they won’t as I am 6ft3 250lbs with a 40″ waist so a bit above average any help you give me is great I found them on amazon too…

My Wife and I am starting our own blog but only just its FYI only one post but there will be a lot more…

Cheers for the informative blog look forward to reading more


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I know it’s almost over at this point, but I wanted to wish all of the dad’s out there who read my blog a Happy Father’s Day!  If you are chaste, good for you! I know first hand that it can be somewhat challenging at times to practice something like chastity around your kids, but it’s doable…

I am actually still unlocked for the time being, partly because Angel has been a bit under the weather for the past week.  There hasn’t exactly been much (any) play-time to speak of, but I’ve been good and also refrained from any other kind of release for myself during this time that I’m unlocked!
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So it was my birthday this past Monday, and it has been a pretty fun week!  It has been extremely busy too, as I also started a new job on the same day, so there has been the normal concerns of learning a new environment, trying to make a good first impression with a new boss, etc.  But on the bright side, as we anticipated the busy days ahead Angel decided to give me a little birthday surprise and unlock me the weekend before!

It was well after the kids had gone to bed on Friday night.  In fact, well after midnight, which is why I marked Saturday as my official release date for this round, after 29 days of trying out the resized Queen’s Keep.  I am very happy to report no more issues with it at this point!  Of course, we had to begin the fun with several orgasms for Angel, as she “considered” whether or not to let me out of chastity or not.  I do think she had most likely already decided, but nonetheless she was having fun with keeping me in the dark about whether or not I would get out that night!
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Angel and I had somewhat of an interesting conversation a few days ago, about a particular dream that she had the night before..  Angel was clearly very nervous about even bringing it up, and wanted to make sure that I wouldn’t get mad at her.  I assured her that I wouldn’t, and she proceeded to tell me that she had this dream where she almost started an affair with a co-worker of hers.  She thought it was kind of weird because while she was friends with the guy, she had never really thought of him in that way!  She did say that if it made me feel any better, they didn’t end up going through with anything because they were both married… 
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At least for my U.S. readers, I hope that everybody had a nice Memorial Day holiday this past week!  I had started drafting a little post which I had planned to publish this past Monday, but unfortunately Angel and I BOTH caught some nasty stomach bug and woke up very sick that day.  Between being sick and everything else coming up in life–well, sometimes the blog tends to fall behind a bit!:)

I AM still locked though, and as Angel previously hinted I will likely remain that way at least until my birthday which is coming up in a couple of weeks…  Next week we are actually heading out of town for a little family trip for just a few days, so that should be fun!  We’re not flying or anything, so I wouldn’t be surprised at all if the keys get left behind completely!

Well this is probably it for now, just a quick update to say that I’m still alive and locked!  I do have a couple of other “hotter” topics that will be worth writing about soon, so stay tuned!:)


There hasn’t been a whole lot of chastity-related activity going on around our house lately to speak of, but so far things are going pretty well with the Queen’s Keep since having it resized!  I really like the shorter length, as now I truly am always pushed up against the tip of the cage instead of not being able to completely fill it when soft.  I haven’t noticed the bad chafing that I had started getting before either.  One other thing that I HAVE changed up though, is using a dab of baby oil gel every day at the bottom of the cage and as much as I can get under the cage.  That stuff doesn’t really absorb into the skin very fast so it keeps everything nice and fluid.  It does seem to help! 
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I had a reader question come in regarding the use of Mature Metal’s “anti-pullout” pins, wondering if it is worth the purchase.  Again, my response was beginning to get rather lengthy, so I thought it worthy of a post all to itself.

Pogo Asks:

What advice do you have about investing in the anti-pullout pins? Do they make it possible to loosen things up in the ring? I’ve been having serious chafing problems on top of HolyTrainer and Miss wants to upgrade to something from Mature Metal, but trying to figure out what right combination is

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Funny story:  I’ve had my re-sized Queen’s Keep back from Mature Metal for at least a week or so now, and didn’t even know it!  I’ve had several other little orders coming in lately from Amazon, etc. so it’s nothing new to come home and find a box or two waiting for me on the front porch.  One day last week, there were about 3 of them, which Angel had already brought in and set on the table for me.  I thought I knew what all of them were, and didn’t really have time to open everything at the time, so I just took everything downstairs and set it on my workbench until later.

Finally, this week I did get back down there to start cleaning things up and open all of my packages.  The second one that I came to, without even bothering to look at the return address or anything I just assumed it was probably a small battery charger or something.  But lo and behold, out comes this little red velvet bag, with my Queen’s Keep inside!  Unless I missed an e-mail from Mature Metal somewhere, I didn’t even realize that they were finished with it and sending it back!  :)  It was taking a little longer to get it back than what I was used to with them, but I figured that when it came to shortening the cage that might just take a lot longer to do, maybe more like building a brand new device. But apparently not, because they did still have a VERY fast turn-around time!

So apparently, after the base ring of my CB-6000S broke, I could have gotten back into the Queen’s Keep much faster if only I had paid more attention to my mail!  While it IS nice to be out for a little while sometimes, I have been missing being locked.  It’s just kind of… part of me now. 
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As more and more people discover and read parts of my blog, I inevitably field a number of various questions around chastity.  I do try my best to get back with at least a brief answer for each and every question that comes up, and many of them even become an entire topic for a new blog post.  One question that seems to be asked most often is simply “WHY?  Why the heck would I actually WANT to be locked in a chastity device and be denied orgasm?  I write often about all of the orgasms/pleasure that Angel is receiving (at my “expense”), but what about MY pleasure; isn’t that important too?

canstockphoto8241603Now, the easiest answer to that question would be to just go back and read my entire blog from the beginning! After all, that’s basically what the entire subject of Thrill of the Chaste is all about! :)  But that’s kind of mean.. I could never actually answer one of my readers in that way!  Lol  I am into the 100’s of posts now, so that would be an awful lot of content to sift through.  And I do greatly appreciate the fact that so many people do read my blog and ask such thoughtful questions as they try to comprehend why exactly I do what I do, so I don’t think it would be fair in the least to just brush anybody aside and tell them that their question has already been answered, so go find it…

As I thought more about it, I realized that I have written pretty extensively on various blog posts about WHY I enjoy chastity so much, but I can’t recall ever dedicating one single post to that topic alone.  So here it is!  This should give a pretty good rundown of why I allow myself to be locked in chastity (and even ask for it).  When I get this question in the future, I may very well start redirecting folks back to this particular page, so if that is you, please don’t be offended that I didn’t type out a personalized, lengthy response to your question.  I think this should give you the very basics, and if you want to know more about literally ANY aspect of the lifestyle that I haven’t covered enough of here, please feel free to keep asking questions!  If you ask about something that I either don’t know or don’t have any direct experience with then I will tell you that; but if I have any insights/opinions on the topic then I’m more than happy to share it!

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This post isn’t anything to do with chastity, I just wanted to wish any Moms out there who might be reading my blog a Happy Mother’s Day!  Raising kids can be [is] one of the most difficult and underappreciated jobs in the world, and you probably don’t get nearly as much credit as you deserve for it!

I do hope that you have the opportunity to at least take this one day to relax for a little while.  Pamper yourself a bit… or have your horny, locked up husband/significant other pamper you even more! (ok sorry, had to at least slip in a LITTLE chastity reference here! Lol)  Seriously though, you guys definitely deserve more than one day, but at least this is a start.   Happy Mother’s Day!


So, that title is actually very literal…  I am currently “out,” because my CB-6000S broke!  I had been doing ok with that device since sending the Queen’s Keep back for some size adjustments, though the CB-6000s is definitely not NEARLY as comfortable as the keep!  The main issue I’d been having for the last week was that all the pieces of the base ring would still keep catching a stray pubic hair every once in a while, and I’d definitly feel it!  I got in there and shaved it as much as possible, but that’s not really the easiest thing to do in chastity without taking the device completely off.

However, Friday night I was woken up at about 3:00 AM feeling like something was really pinching me down there.  At first I thought it was just the hair thing, so I reached down to take care of that.  I couldn’t seem to find any hairs stuck, but over on the right side of the cage it seemed like (somehow) a small piece of actual skin was wedged up into the ring, causing the pinching.  I couldn’t figure out in the dark how that was happening, so ended up getting up to go to the bathroom and investigate.  That’s when I found that it was broken, but not in a way that you would expect of these plastic devices!
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