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And now for the REST of the story!  (If you haven’t read my last post yet, I highly suggest starting with that, HERE!)

I left off my story with Angel relaxing on a chair in the basement, still calming down from at least one big orgasm that I had given her while she was hanging by her arms from a hook up in the rafters.  It was such a sight to see, and now she was kicking back, still glowing in post-orgasmic bliss, and still wearing nothing but her black lace teddy covering all but her most intimate parts.

I, for one, knew I had to have more, and I was pretty sure that Angel wasn’t quite finished yet either!  I dropped to the floor at her feet, and began kissing her toes, feet, and legs, making her giggle as I hit some rather ticklish spots.  I worked my way up her legs, eager to taste just how wet she still was from just a few minutes prior.  I was definitely not disappointed to get there and find that she was still VERY wet! Angel scooted forward a bit to give me easier access, and I didn’t have to lick very long before I could tell that she was very close to yet another orgasm!

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Lately I’ve been writing about several new “firsts” that Angel and I have been able to experience together recently, and this past weekend leading up to the holiday presented yet another!  It’s no secret (at least to readers of my blog here) that we like to “play,” whether it be with light bondage, spanking, vibrators, butt plugs–you name it!  Well a while ago (I can’t really remember if I wrote about this particular experience or not), we played once with some of these “cheaper” little door jamb cuffs, and had a lot of fun with each other actually standing up this time instead of just being tied to the bed or something..  Angel was definitely interested in doing that again, and since we had last Friday night with no kids in the house, I had teased her starting that morning before work by saying that by the end of the day I would have her strung up by her hands and be turning her exposed ass a nice shade of red!

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First of all, to all of my readers in the U.S., Happy Labor Day! I don’t really have any pithy remarks about this “unofficial” end of summer, so let’s just say have fun!🙂  And now on to what I REALLY wanted this post to be about! 

I’ve written a little bit before about WHY I’m interested in male chastity and orgasm denial.  Ok so really that’s basically this entire blog, but specifically I posted about it earlier this year with my piece titled appropriately:

Why Chastity?

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I stand by everything I wrote on that page at the time, but the other day I also came across a little different perspective on this topic which I felt was worth writing more about.  This is from a chastity forum on Reddit, where the author granted me permission to cross-post his writing, so enjoy!

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In my last post, I wrote about a very hot encounter where Angel did very briefly choose to let me out of the Queen’s Keep for one of the more intense orgasms I have ever experienced for myself!  If desired, you can re-read that account, here.  That all went down about a week and a half ago.  As I’m trying to finally get caught up on some of my writing here, I wanted to finish up that story with how it continued this past weekend as well!

Angel had so much fun with that the week before, that she decided fairly quickly this past weekend that we should do it again.  The only stipulation was, that she didn’t really want to swallow it this time.  Instead she would go get herself a little cup to be able to spit into when she was finished with me. By the time she told me this, Angel and I were already in bed going pretty hot and heavy with her magic wand, and the last thing I wanted at the moment was to see her leave, so I ended up offering an alternative…

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I wanted to write a little bit about last weekend (As in, a week ago. This story will continue later with updates from the weekend just a couple days ago!), as we had one VERY fun, hot night!  As I said in my last post, Angel has said that I should be locked until HER birthday, in late September, but in a lot of ways I think that’s almost more difficult for her to enforce than it is for me to “endure!” :)  She definitely does enjoy my horniness levels when she keeps me locked this long, and enjoys the endless stream of orgasms that she is able to achieve with me in this state, but I know there are just times that she still really wants me inside her.  And I do want that too, but it is quite liberating to know that it will only happen at HER discretion!

For quite a while now, Angel has been very attached to her “best friend” the Hitachi Magic Wand.  She can come so hard and so often with this vibrator, and it is truly amazing watching her!  It is especially fun when the wand is placed between my legs and she straddles it (and me!) so I get the best view!  The only bad part about that, is when I have to use one hand to hold the wand in place and help press it into her a little harder.  Over time, my hand tends to go a bit numb, but that’s not even the bad part…  Frankly, my hands would be of better use in OTHER areas! :)  So lately we’ve actually been trying a NEW toy, which is this little cushion with a wand holder built right into it, like this:

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I feel like I am WAY behind on my writing lately, so hopefully I’ll be able to crank out a couple posts fairly quickly here! First, I wanted to follow up on what I wrote a couple weeks ago, about possibly ordering a spare chastity device.  I have placed the order!  Mature Metal is now crafting me a new Jail Bird chastity device, just slightly longer and also narrower than my current Queen’s Keep measurements.
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I had some e-mail last week from a new reader who is also getting started and trying to find his way through the world of male chastity.  He just had a few questions, most of which I think I gave him fairly sound advice about, but he had one question for which I don’t really have any specific experience to speak of.

So I thought I’d go a slightly different route and open it up here, to see if anybody else who sees this might happen to have any advice for him!  I may post more of his message at a later date when relevant; but for now this is truncated down just a bit for space and to keep the discussion centered on this one specific topic..

Mark asks:

My wife unlocked me last night, which was about 14 days, our longest to date.

I am still playing with the rings and the gap spacing on the CB6000S, and have the sizer rings on order from MM.   I felt a little discomfort at the end of the two weeks and thought it might just be that tugging feeling you get with an erection and the way it pulls on the ring.  After letting me out, I looked a litle closer because I was still feeling discomfort with it off.  Turns out, I have a couple in-grown hairs where I had shaved.  So that is my next question.  I thought if I was smoother there would be less friction, but now I am wondering if having something tight has any effect on in-grown hairs.  I have shaved before as that is the way my wife likes me, every once in a while I’ll get an in-grown hair, but after wearing the CB6000S for 2 weeks, I had about 3.  If your experience has given you insight into shaving or not shaving, I would love to hear about it.

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I’ve been thinking a lot lately of ordering myself a second device, most likely another custom steel one from Mature Metal.  Since I last had my current Queen’s Keep adjusted again it has been a lot better, but I’m still not sure that we’re QUITE there yet..  So despite everything I’ve already gone through with various devices and with the Queen’s Keep being by far the best so far, I guess you could say that I am still in search of that ultimate, perfect device for myself! Read the rest of this entry »


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Angel was out of town with the boys for this past weekend visiting some family, leaving me home alone again.  Not that I could really do any more than I normally can anyway, since she is still in full control of my keys!  But this did turn out to be a very fun, interesting weekend, with even more FIRSTS for our relationship!

 

To start with, I’m going to have to back up just a little bit to set the stage for what happened Saturday night…  Over the past several months, I have been getting involved to a small extent with our local “kink” community.  There is a really great “munch” just a few miles from my house that meets once a month, where everyone is always so nice and welcoming!  (If you don’t know what a munch is, I highly recommend looking into it to see if there are any in YOUR area!)  It is so nice to have a place to go and be able to talk to real people about absolutely anything!  The conversations are definitely not always kink related, but when it does come up everybody is very accepting and not judgmental in the least.  And in my previous statement, I say “real people” not to imply that you folks from all over the world who are reading my blog AREN’T real, but I find that face-to-face interactions are also very rewarding! It’s one thing to tell my story on the internet for strangers to read in their spare time, but quite another to tell somebody point blank that I am locked in a chastity device for which my wife holds the keys, and see them not even bat an eye at the topic!

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After Angel and I completed our little 5 day challenge of waking up early for (her) orgasms, we had a couple days off from doing that.  I think in a way Angel missed waking up like that, but at the same time she told me that it was good because she still kind of likes the spontaneity of it sometimes too, and felt like she was losing a little bit of that this past week.  It was a very busy weekend though, so neither of us were really too bummed about breaking our streak and skipping sex completely for Saturday.  Sunday was almost the same, but late in the evening we managed to find yet another new way to have some fun!  

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​In my last post I wrote about a 5 Day Orgasm Challenge that Angel and I were going to try to accomplish this week.  I am happy to say that it was VERY successful!  Here’s a day-to-day rundown of our activities! 

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Between summer being upon us making it generally a VERY busy time for our family, plus starting a new job recently, I realize that the frequency of my blog posts has been slowing down a bit lately.  But I wanted to take a little bit of time to talk about the “fireworks” that have been happening already since my last post, and a fun little game that Angel and I are trying to do incorporate into this coming week! Read the rest of this entry »


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So it’s the 4th of July, or otherwise known as Independence Day here in the U.S.!  That means an extra day off of work, having some barbeque and beer with friends, and most likely capping off the night with a nice fireworks display to celebrate the many freedoms that most of us in this country tend to take for granted..

I for one, am actually choosing to GIVE UP one of my freedoms today; one that I’ve had returned to me for the past 3 weeks or so now since my birthday weekend.  And that is the freedom to orgasm any time I wish!  Since we just returned from a week long family vacation, and I do have one more day off of work due to the holiday, I decided that this was as good of a time as any to go back into my chastity device and once again give Angel full control of my sexuality! 
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My other pending reader question was from Chris_sd, who commented back on my previous post: Re-sizing the Keep.

Chris wrote:

Hello, I went ahead and got the jailbird a couple months back. I love it and my measurements were pretty close although I could have gone a bit smaller. My problem is I’ve had a burning sensation under my scrotum, I contacted MM and sent it in as they suggested increasing the gap a half size. I got it back and still same problem. I’m able to wear it at night with loose clothing but wearing dress pants seems to increase the pain. I’m only to wear it a couple days then have to take a break because of the pain. I’m hoping everything will kind of adjust to the device over time but wondering if theirs any special type of lotion or lube that may help. I’ve been using regular water based lube but it doesn’t seem to help at all.

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I’ve had a couple of reader questions in my inbox for a few weeks now and I feel a little bad about taking so long to respond to them, so I wanted to take a few minutes to go ahead and address these.

The first is a multi-parter.  Wade wrote:

Hey Mate,

Just found your blog, I am currently in the ordering process of getting a Mature Metal Device too, I was looking at the Jail Bird purely because it is open so I figure it will make cleaning easy for prolonged wear. You had some serious sores wearing yours is that issue sorted out now? Was it just caused by sizing?

Sizing is a bit of an issue everyone seems to order so small I have worn the Birdlocked Maxi device so far and it can really slide down and put pressure on my balls when getting aroused, I bought the sizing rings and am trial wearing the 1 3/4 ring to see if it is comfortable along for a day or two like I read else where is good to do. length wise overtime I measure I get almost 4 inches so that means I should order like 3.5-.75″ like I never see people ordering such sizes from what I have read, I know that hard I am 8″ or so but should I be trying to squish it up more or just go off the true measurement I get…

My other question is about the boxer shorts you wear they are a one size fits most, what size are you? curious if that will help me to know if they would fit me, I am guessing they won’t as I am 6ft3 250lbs with a 40″ waist so a bit above average any help you give me is great I found them on amazon too…
http://www.amazon.com/Zeus-Look-Peek-Shorts-Black/dp/B013NXNTHQ/ref=sr_1_fkmr0_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1465022876&sr=8-1-fkmr0&keywords=Men%27s+Wet+Look+Peek+a+Boo+Shorts+Mesh

My Wife and I am starting our own blog but only just its http://spoiledwifehappylife.blogspot.com FYI only one post but there will be a lot more…

Cheers for the informative blog look forward to reading more

Wade

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I know it’s almost over at this point, but I wanted to wish all of the dad’s out there who read my blog a Happy Father’s Day!  If you are chaste, good for you! I know first hand that it can be somewhat challenging at times to practice something like chastity around your kids, but it’s doable…

I am actually still unlocked for the time being, partly because Angel has been a bit under the weather for the past week.  There hasn’t exactly been much (any) play-time to speak of, but I’ve been good and also refrained from any other kind of release for myself during this time that I’m unlocked!
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So it was my birthday this past Monday, and it has been a pretty fun week!  It has been extremely busy too, as I also started a new job on the same day, so there has been the normal concerns of learning a new environment, trying to make a good first impression with a new boss, etc.  But on the bright side, as we anticipated the busy days ahead Angel decided to give me a little birthday surprise and unlock me the weekend before!

It was well after the kids had gone to bed on Friday night.  In fact, well after midnight, which is why I marked Saturday as my official release date for this round, after 29 days of trying out the resized Queen’s Keep.  I am very happy to report no more issues with it at this point!  Of course, we had to begin the fun with several orgasms for Angel, as she “considered” whether or not to let me out of chastity or not.  I do think she had most likely already decided, but nonetheless she was having fun with keeping me in the dark about whether or not I would get out that night!
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Angel and I had somewhat of an interesting conversation a few days ago, about a particular dream that she had the night before..  Angel was clearly very nervous about even bringing it up, and wanted to make sure that I wouldn’t get mad at her.  I assured her that I wouldn’t, and she proceeded to tell me that she had this dream where she almost started an affair with a co-worker of hers.  She thought it was kind of weird because while she was friends with the guy, she had never really thought of him in that way!  She did say that if it made me feel any better, they didn’t end up going through with anything because they were both married… 
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At least for my U.S. readers, I hope that everybody had a nice Memorial Day holiday this past week!  I had started drafting a little post which I had planned to publish this past Monday, but unfortunately Angel and I BOTH caught some nasty stomach bug and woke up very sick that day.  Between being sick and everything else coming up in life–well, sometimes the blog tends to fall behind a bit!🙂

I AM still locked though, and as Angel previously hinted I will likely remain that way at least until my birthday which is coming up in a couple of weeks…  Next week we are actually heading out of town for a little family trip for just a few days, so that should be fun!  We’re not flying or anything, so I wouldn’t be surprised at all if the keys get left behind completely!

Well this is probably it for now, just a quick update to say that I’m still alive and locked!  I do have a couple of other “hotter” topics that will be worth writing about soon, so stay tuned!🙂


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There hasn’t been a whole lot of chastity-related activity going on around our house lately to speak of, but so far things are going pretty well with the Queen’s Keep since having it resized!  I really like the shorter length, as now I truly am always pushed up against the tip of the cage instead of not being able to completely fill it when soft.  I haven’t noticed the bad chafing that I had started getting before either.  One other thing that I HAVE changed up though, is using a dab of baby oil gel every day at the bottom of the cage and as much as I can get under the cage.  That stuff doesn’t really absorb into the skin very fast so it keeps everything nice and fluid.  It does seem to help! 
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