Over Two Years Served in Jail(Bird)

Posted: February 26, 2021 in Chastity, Fetish, Kinky, Male Chastity, Orgasm Denial

Hello World! If I have any readers left that is, then here is (finally) an update on where I’ve been for the past year or so. Otherwise it’s just a long-awaited continuation of my own personal diary for myself, but that’s OK too!

I know my blog has been a little stagnant for a good long while now, for a few reasons. Not the least of which I just REALLY have not wanted to write about coronavirus like everyone else in the world. You know? I just do not. want. to. write. about. covid-freaking-19… My family has been very fortunate not to have had anyone in our immediate family or even particularly close to us be infected or worse [knocking on wood!], but I know that many others are going through some really tough times with this pandemic and if you are one of them please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Other reasons for not writing much lately are simply being too busy with life as the kids get older and more active, plus working from home during Covid (dang it I still can’t get away from writing about that!). And honestly for another reason… in a way I guess maybe my creative juices may have dried up a bit from writing too long about pretty much a singular, very niche, kink topic. I mean how many times and different ways can I come up with to say how wonderful it feels to be chaste, with my dick locked away for long stretches in a very small steel cage?!  LOL

I do have a few new ideas to write about, so those will be coming at some point, and my blog will always stay up as long as I can afford to keep the domain so anyone new to chastity will always have a chance to find this and hopefully learn a little bit from my past experiences. But to be honest new posts may always be somewhat few and far between, focusing primarily on new and significant milestones I may reach as opposed to just blabbering much of the same text all the time just for the sake of being able to publish a new post every few days or so!

And while on the topic of writing – certainly if ANYONE has any specific questions or comments you would like answered, please feel free to contact me! I have been somewhat amazed at the number of people over the past year who have reached out just to say they’ve noticed I’ve been quiet and just wanted to make sure I was still here and everything is OK. Yes, things are good, and I do very much appreciate the concern! I have also had a few questions come in here and there and do my best to answer each one as adequately as I can. I certainly hope I’ve gotten back with everybody who has written me, so if you are reading this and thinking that you sent me a note that I never replied to… please try again?? Sometimes things end up in my spam folder too by mistake, so I’ve been trying to keep an eye on that one as well.

OK, well that was a long intro getting a few housekeeping items out of the way. Now on to the good stuff! The main reason for jumping back in to publish a new post today, is definitely a big milestone and end of an era so to speak.

As of today I am unlocked again, ending by far my longest session to date of nearly 2 1/2 years!! Specifically 2 years, 4 Months, 26 Days. Or a grand total of 879 Days! From October 1, 2018 until now, February 26, 2021. The two year graphic at the top here is a few months late, and that’s just the last one I had created. So I guess if I ever get much past this duration in another session I’ll have to go and brush up my photoshop skills again to make some more of those! 🙂

I never could have dreamed I would be locked that long continuously! Before that, my previous longest duration was 6 months 8 Days. My first goal was just to beat that, and that turned into a goal to make it a full year. That turned into a goal to make it a full CALENDAR year (2019), which turned into… no real end dates in mind, just non-stop chastity for as long as we could do it–which meant all of 2020 as well, and now ended today.

And I can tell you whole heartedly that I have absolutely zero regrets, and the last 2+ years have been absolutely some of the most amazing and magical years of my life!!

So why did it come to an end, and I’m out now? Well it’s really rather anti-climactic and I wish it hadn’t happened… but a couple nights ago I had a little scare thinking I may have a kidney stone. I’ve never had one before, but I am a little more middle-aged now, and the way this pain started out of nowhere kind of in my mid to lower back area (right at my kidneys) really made us start thinking that could be what it was. I was literally just sitting at the table eating dinner when it hit, so it’s not like I was stretching or twisting wrong to just throw my back out or something. The pain would kind of come and go for a few hours, like (if it were a stone) it could be kind of moving around in there a little bit. But then somehow eventually it stopped, I did actually manage to get a good night’s sleep, and the next day I never felt it again! Still, everyone I spoke with strongly suggested I make an appointment with my doctor to have it checked out. Just in case there WAS a kidney stone in there, it would be much better to get in front of it rather than have it cause even more pain later.. So I’m taking that advice and have an appt for today.

That being said, if there IS a stone, I think I would prefer to not be locked when trying to pass it. I did take to a couple larger chastity groups on FetLife to ask if anyone out there had ever passed a kidney stone while locked. It sounds like a few folks have, but the vast majority of advice was to ditch the cage until it’s taken care of. It sounded like just passing the stone may not really be affected by a cage but there’s a good chance they would have to take an X-ray at some point so there would also be the issue of exposing my kink and what not…

All in all I talked it over with Angel and she agreed that I should go ahead and unlock before my doctor appointment today. So that’s where I am now, unlocked and waiting. And Angel also said to just leave it off for a little while as she would like to see me without the cage again as long as it’s been! So who knows what kind of fun could be in store for tonight or the weekend in that regard! 🙂

It feels very strange being unlocked! Like I’m totally naked even though I’m otherwise fully clothed at the moment. I will say that I was a little bit worried about cleanliness after that long being locked. I do try to keep good hygiene but obviously it’s hard to get EVERYTHING, and after two years I had no real idea what to expect. But overall it actually looks pretty good in there! There’s a little bit of buildup on the inside of the cage, so I think I may throw that in a pot of boiling water for a little while to see if that helps. Besides that, just a damp washcloth over my body was all I needed to get a little sweat and stuff off. I’d say I’m in pretty good shape!

I think that’s probably enough of an update for now, just to get some information out there about the end of my record setting session and still keep a little content for future posts! I would love to hear from others about your own personal records in chastity! How long have you gone, either continuously (never let out for even a moment) or even just being let out occasionally for cleaning, etc?

I’ve never done this before, but I think I may start a little list here of very broad topics that I would like to discuss in the fairly near future as to how each of these may or may not relate to chastity. Not in any particular order and there may well be other things that come too before I get to all of these:

– Being One with my Wife(Mistress)
– Underwear (or lack there of)
– Vasectomies (vs. other birth control options)
– Colonoscopies (sticking with the medical theme!)
– Shaving body hair
– etc.

So stay tuned!!  


  1. Mark Lukas says:

    Totally for shaving and against underwear, in most situations.

  2. Jerry says:

    Congratulations on 2 1/2 years. Talk about goals!! Having had kidney stones, they are no joke. Had you gone to the doctor you would have probably had a CAT scan which would required you to be sans Jailbird anyway. As for topics, as someone who shaves his entire body, I’d be interested to hear your take on the subject when/if you decide to give it a try.

  3. musicman says:

    Glad I found your blog as blogs on this subject are not easy to find.
    I bought my first cage several yrs ago with some play here & there. End of June I did my longest – 2 weeks. I have just started a minimum of a 32 day lock down. After that my Key Master/ holder will decide if we need to be locked longer.
    I myself have kidney stones and had a vasectomy done 3 yrs ago. So far no issues with my cage, from Mancage. My stones, I see a dr yearly that doesn’t do a physical look. Biggest thing is keep hydrated. To this day I still have a 8mm in my one kidney. If it flares up, I sit inverted. Helps drop the stone from the tube area.
    Please keep up the blog as a newbie to chasity I look forward to all the info you can provide.
    Happy lock up

  4. trappedandloved says:

    Just saw this link from Sub Hub – I had almost given up checking your site. So glad to see you are back and well and hope your medical issues are resolving now in a good way?

    On the question of the vasectomy – if you are planning/hoping to stay locked and given that any operation has risks I am intrigued as to what motivates you about the operation?

  5. Neo says:

    So happy to see you return to your blog.
    You were missed.
    Hopefully your health issues are insignificant and are resolved quickly, and you’re able to embark onto the next chapter of your journey.
    2+ years is exceptional.
    My journey has been significantly influenced by your writings, thank you! It was due to your blog that I discovered that this can be a lifestyle opposed to just a fetish. It was as a result of your blog that I discovered Sarah Jameson’s book, which my wife (now spectacular keyholder) listened to, and bought entirely into the idea of locking me up. After your review of the JailBird, I moved into the world of custom steel habitations. (At some point I’ll share with you my review of my Behind Barz belt.)
    Over the last year, I checked in on your blog frequently, hoping all was ok. It is great to see, current plumbing issues aside, all sounds well.
    I wanted to express my gratitude, and to let you know your blog has made a difference in my life, and I’m sure in many others.
    Thank you!

  6. Chaste Cyclist says:

    Glad to see you posting again. I ran into the same dilemma with just hitting a wall with my blog and shut it down. I may launch another one and keep it more as a diary and not the salacious content of how chastity, or in our case more Devotional Sex, continues to improve our marriage after 32 years.

    I would love to hear your thoughts on some of the topics you listed. I had a vasectomy and regret it daily because of scar tissue build up around the little clamps that are placed on the severed vas. That is one of the primary reasons I can’t stay locked up as long as I would like…I mean going 2.5 years is awesome!

    I shave my entire body from the neck down…primarily because I looked in the mirror and all I saw was grey hair. It is a bit of a chore but it makes me happy and MrsL doesn’t mind provided I shave before coming to bed.

    Again, thanks for blogging!

    • pcguy0681 says:

      Thank you for the comments, that is actually my biggest fear for getting a vasectomy; that it will affect being able to wear a cage for long durations! And obviously just coming off of almost 2 ¹/2 years, I’m [we’re] in it for the long haul!
      I actually have a consultation scheduled soon to get the process started, and am seriously debating with myself about whether I should bring up chastity to my urologist… I realize you may have (possibly) had yours done long before chastity was even an issue for you, but do you think it would have made any difference if they had known? Anything different they might have been able to do, or is it pretty much just go for it and hope for the best?
      It’s been a while and I’ll need to go back and review them, but for a little while I was engaged in a few conversations on Fet regarding this. Heard some really bad horror stories and many others with no issues whatsoever. Hopefully mine will be more like the latter!

      • Chaste_Cyclist says:

        Honestly, I don’t know if it would have made a big difference or not. Who knows, they may have come up with something new since I had mine 22 years ago. All I know is that “clump” of scar tissue around those damned titanium clamps (and it only happened on one side) only lets me stay locked up for two to three weeks at a time.

        What are your thoughts on body hair and shaving?

        • pcguy0681 says:

          Well, I am in favor of it! Shaving that is 😀 Stay tuned, I’ll be trying to write on a couple of those topics fairly soon!

          • ChasteCyclist says:

            There is just something erotic and sexy about a guy’s shaved body. I have never been one attracted to body hair.

  7. naughty nora says:

    Great to see you back in this space, my friend! That is a long time to be locked away but I am glad it was a thrilling time for you. Very sorry to hear you’ve got a medical issue going on…I do hope that clears up soon. Will be great to see your posts in my news feed again 🙂

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