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I wanted to write a little bit about last weekend (As in, a week ago. This story will continue later with updates from the weekend just a couple days ago!), as we had one VERY fun, hot night!  As I said in my last post, Angel has said that I should be locked until HER birthday, in late September, but in a lot of ways I think that’s almost more difficult for her to enforce than it is for me to “endure!” 🙂  She definitely does enjoy my horniness levels when she keeps me locked this long, and enjoys the endless stream of orgasms that she is able to achieve with me in this state, but I know there are just times that she still really wants me inside her.  And I do want that too, but it is quite liberating to know that it will only happen at HER discretion!

For quite a while now, Angel has been very attached to her “best friend” the Hitachi Magic Wand.  She can come so hard and so often with this vibrator, and it is truly amazing watching her!  It is especially fun when the wand is placed between my legs and she straddles it (and me!) so I get the best view!  The only bad part about that, is when I have to use one hand to hold the wand in place and help press it into her a little harder.  Over time, my hand tends to go a bit numb, but that’s not even the bad part…  Frankly, my hands would be of better use in OTHER areas! 🙂  So lately we’ve actually been trying a NEW toy, which is this little cushion with a wand holder built right into it, like this:

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Angel was out of town with the boys for this past weekend visiting some family, leaving me home alone again.  Not that I could really do any more than I normally can anyway, since she is still in full control of my keys!  But this did turn out to be a very fun, interesting weekend, with even more FIRSTS for our relationship!

 

To start with, I’m going to have to back up just a little bit to set the stage for what happened Saturday night…  Over the past several months, I have been getting involved to a small extent with our local “kink” community.  There is a really great “munch” just a few miles from my house that meets once a month, where everyone is always so nice and welcoming!  (If you don’t know what a munch is, I highly recommend looking into it to see if there are any in YOUR area!)  It is so nice to have a place to go and be able to talk to real people about absolutely anything!  The conversations are definitely not always kink related, but when it does come up everybody is very accepting and not judgmental in the least.  And in my previous statement, I say “real people” not to imply that you folks from all over the world who are reading my blog AREN’T real, but I find that face-to-face interactions are also very rewarding! It’s one thing to tell my story on the internet for strangers to read in their spare time, but quite another to tell somebody point blank that I am locked in a chastity device for which my wife holds the keys, and see them not even bat an eye at the topic!

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​In my last post I wrote about a 5 Day Orgasm Challenge that Angel and I were going to try to accomplish this week.  I am happy to say that it was VERY successful!  Here’s a day-to-day rundown of our activities! 

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Between summer being upon us making it generally a VERY busy time for our family, plus starting a new job recently, I realize that the frequency of my blog posts has been slowing down a bit lately.  But I wanted to take a little bit of time to talk about the “fireworks” that have been happening already since my last post, and a fun little game that Angel and I are trying to do incorporate into this coming week! (more…)


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So it’s the 4th of July, or otherwise known as Independence Day here in the U.S.!  That means an extra day off of work, having some barbeque and beer with friends, and most likely capping off the night with a nice fireworks display to celebrate the many freedoms that most of us in this country tend to take for granted..

I for one, am actually choosing to GIVE UP one of my freedoms today; one that I’ve had returned to me for the past 3 weeks or so now since my birthday weekend.  And that is the freedom to orgasm any time I wish!  Since we just returned from a week long family vacation, and I do have one more day off of work due to the holiday, I decided that this was as good of a time as any to go back into my chastity device and once again give Angel full control of my sexuality! 
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So it was my birthday this past Monday, and it has been a pretty fun week!  It has been extremely busy too, as I also started a new job on the same day, so there has been the normal concerns of learning a new environment, trying to make a good first impression with a new boss, etc.  But on the bright side, as we anticipated the busy days ahead Angel decided to give me a little birthday surprise and unlock me the weekend before!

It was well after the kids had gone to bed on Friday night.  In fact, well after midnight, which is why I marked Saturday as my official release date for this round, after 29 days of trying out the resized Queen’s Keep.  I am very happy to report no more issues with it at this point!  Of course, we had to begin the fun with several orgasms for Angel, as she “considered” whether or not to let me out of chastity or not.  I do think she had most likely already decided, but nonetheless she was having fun with keeping me in the dark about whether or not I would get out that night!
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As more and more people discover and read parts of my blog, I inevitably field a number of various questions around chastity.  I do try my best to get back with at least a brief answer for each and every question that comes up, and many of them even become an entire topic for a new blog post.  One question that seems to be asked most often is simply “WHY?  Why the heck would I actually WANT to be locked in a chastity device and be denied orgasm?  I write often about all of the orgasms/pleasure that Angel is receiving (at my “expense”), but what about MY pleasure; isn’t that important too?

canstockphoto8241603Now, the easiest answer to that question would be to just go back and read my entire blog from the beginning! After all, that’s basically what the entire subject of Thrill of the Chaste is all about! 🙂  But that’s kind of mean.. I could never actually answer one of my readers in that way!  Lol  I am into the 100’s of posts now, so that would be an awful lot of content to sift through.  And I do greatly appreciate the fact that so many people do read my blog and ask such thoughtful questions as they try to comprehend why exactly I do what I do, so I don’t think it would be fair in the least to just brush anybody aside and tell them that their question has already been answered, so go find it…

As I thought more about it, I realized that I have written pretty extensively on various blog posts about WHY I enjoy chastity so much, but I can’t recall ever dedicating one single post to that topic alone.  So here it is!  This should give a pretty good rundown of why I allow myself to be locked in chastity (and even ask for it).  When I get this question in the future, I may very well start redirecting folks back to this particular page, so if that is you, please don’t be offended that I didn’t type out a personalized, lengthy response to your question.  I think this should give you the very basics, and if you want to know more about literally ANY aspect of the lifestyle that I haven’t covered enough of here, please feel free to keep asking questions!  If you ask about something that I either don’t know or don’t have any direct experience with then I will tell you that; but if I have any insights/opinions on the topic then I’m more than happy to share it!


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Last week, I did have a few pretty productive days alone while Angel and the boys were out of town visiting some family.  Of course I missed them all very much, but in a lot of ways it WAS a nice break for me as well!  They arrived safely back home very late last Saturday night, and it seems like we’ve all been going pretty much non-stop ever since.  Angel and I have had very little time to even be intimate at all since then, and I for one have been missing THAT too!

Last night I was working down in the basement for a while, and when I came upstairs to get ready for bed I found Angel relaxing in the bathtub, enjoying a nice Jacuzzi bath.  The thing to start with here is that Angel RARELY uses the tub anymore, generally just opting for a quick shower on her way out the door every morning.  When I saw her there, I was immediately struck with just how sexy she looked all stretched out, mostly submerged in the water!
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Angel and the boys went out of town yesterday morning to see some family for a few days.  I don’t have as much vacation time from work as she does, so I had to stay behind, home alone.  I do miss my key-holder very much, especially at night when I have this nice big bed all to myself and nobody to snuggle up into.. 😦

Of course, Angel knows that she can leave me alone and not have to worry about me having an orgasm or anything like that without her… Or does she?  The thing is, I am actually temporarily unlocked now, though still chaste.  For some reason, I’ve been having a little bit of an issue lately with the Queen’s Keep kind of rubbing/pinching in a bad way, and it has left a pretty bad sore spot sort of right at the base of the penis; right where the bottom edge of the cage rests. (more…)


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In response to my last post answering some general questions about the Queen’s Keep, I had another reader asking for more details about sleeping in chastity as well as security of the Queen’s Keep.

husbandinchastity writes:

Hi again. I’ve been in chastity since early January and the Holy trainer has been great as a starter device. When you are in the Queens keep, can you sleep on your stomach? Do you have any sleeping issues with it on? Can you escape if you tried? How 100% escape proof is your device? I am close to proposing buying one of the devices from mature metal for a few reasons.
My main ones:
– stopping nocturnal erections. I wake up quite a bit with the holy trainer with hard ons.
-the wife is having to unlock me twice a week to clean. With one of these other devices that may not have to happen.
Look forward to your response! Take care!
-J

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Now for part 2 of our weekend adventure (Part 1 can be found HERE).  Our fun started on Thursday night, but then fast-forward to Saturday…  We had a pretty busy morning/early-afternoon, so sex was pretty much off the table outside of some extra teasing and reminding each other of the fun we’d had a couple nights before that!  When Saturday evening came around, Angel already had plans to have a group of girls over to the house for a little party and to binge-watch some new Netflix series that just came out.  Not exactly something I cared to stick around for!  Luckily, I had also managed to acquire a baby-sitter for the boys, and they were going to stay there all night (gotta love having grandparents nearby!)

So that left me free to be out, hanging out with other friends for the evening, and I didn’t hear any more from Angel until almost midnight!  I was sitting over at a friend’s house when the “dirty texting” began…  I missed seeing it for the first few minutes, but essentially the conversation went like this:

11:49 Angel:  I just want you to know I am in bed – lightly clothed
11:54 Angel:  I just made my toes curl!
   [nice, she’s gotten all the way to THAT point now–perfectly willing to take care of herself, whether I’m there or not! She has come SO far in that area since we met!]

11:58 Me:  I’m jealous… be there in 20 mins?
12:00 Angel: Sooner
12:01 Me:  Will try.. keep it warmed up for me 🙂
12:05 Angel: Trying but that is a long time for vibrating

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This will end up being a two-part post, as I just wanted to take a little time to write about a pretty wild weekend that Angel and I just had. It actually began a little bit early, as in last Thursday night!  Angel had to work late into the evening on Thursday, but as a result she also got to take the day off on Friday.  I still had to work on Friday, but that wouldn’t stop us from having some fun!  I knew that Angel was working until around 8:00pm on Thursday, then she and a few co-workers had planned on going out somewhere for a bite to eat.  I managed to get the kids all settled down and off to bed, then naturally my horny mind started wandering.. wondering what kind of “fun” Angel and I might be able to have that night since she didn’t have to get up early for work the next morning!

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My last post, A Chaste Valentine, described a gift that I had given Angel for Valentine’s Day.  It involved locking myself back into the Queen’s Keep, and giving her the keys again inside of a special card that I created just for the occasion.  Yes, most of that post was pre-written, based on what I PLANNED on doing for Angel for Valentine’s Day.  Once it actually happened, that made it much easier to just get online and publish the post with only minor changes.  What I couldn’t pre-write at all, obviously, was Angel’s reaction to it–which was absolutely phenomenal!

My Valentine’s card for Angel was written, printed, and ready to go, so all I had to do to complete the plan was to lock myself back into the Keep, tape the keys inside the card, and place it somewhere that she would easily find it.  We had some friends over Saturday evening, and Angel had excused herself to go get ready for bed before everyone had even left, so in my head I thought that it should be easy to lock back up before I went to bed, without her noticing it at all.  However, once everybody left and I peeked into the bedroom, Angel was still lying there awake reading a book, so it it was already on to Plan B.  I changed clothes and joined her in bed still unlocked, and therefore did get to enjoy a final little bit of rubbing/teasing on her part before she turned out the lights and rolled over to go to sleep.  I had to lay there for a while to make SURE that she was asleep before I got back out of bed and went into the bathroom to complete my plan..

Being rather excited for what I thought might be coming (which alas, would not be me! Lol), it did take a little while to get myself down to a point of being able to fit back into the cage again.  But eventually I did get it, then I taped the keys to the inside of Angel’s card and left it sitting prominently on the bathroom vanity.  I went back to bed and drifted off to sleep feeling very secure and “home.” Back home where I belonged, in the Keep.

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Happy Valentine’s Day, everybody! Yes, it’s supposed to be the most “romantic day of the year,” yada-yada.  Angel and I never really do a whole lot on this day.  To be honest, the most exciting part of today that we’re both looking forward to is the return of the “Walking Dead” later this evening! 🙂 And I’ll even go out on a limb and predict a special little surprise for Rick’s little sweetheart here on this Valentine’s Day! Don’t worry, that’s not exactly a spoiler–it could be a good or bad surprise! Lol

canstockphoto16905256Anyhow, I’m not here to talk about zombies! In REAL life, one “gift” I gave Angel today was the keys back to my Queen’s Keep, securely locked back where it belongs.  To go along with it, I created Angel a very custom card (take that, Hallmark!) with a handful of little poems that I wrote for her, very specific to chastity and key-holding.  Some are admittedly rather cheesy, but I figured I’d go ahead and share them here anyway…

 


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About a day before I was let out of the Queen’s Keep this last time, Angel and I were at an event downtown with several of our friends.  About half way through it, Angel caught up with me and told me about how she and one of my friend’s wives had been talking in general about kids, etc. and the question came up about whether we planned on having any more or if we were stopping with our two boys.  Angel told her that she thought we were “probably done.” The friend went on to state the fact that if we haven’t yet taken measures to KEEP from getting pregnant again, you NEVER know! Angel had to chuckle to herself and secretly say that “if your husband is locked in a chastity cage, then you DO know it won’t be happening!”
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JUST in case you’re wondering, yes–the play on words in my title was very intentional! Four months of being locked in the Queen’s Keep pretty much equates to four straight months of foreplay leading up to the big event that we had this past Saturday night! So yes, I think that the term “fourplay” seems to be most appropriate! 🙂

I wasn’t completely sure if I would be getting out this past weekend or not.  Friday night came and went without much of a word about it.  Saturday, Angel did start hinting quite a bit that she “might” unlock me. Later that night after we had gotten the kids down to bed, we started talking about maybe taking a shower together since we had relatively early plans on Sunday morning and it would be much more difficult to take them while trying to get the kids going at the same time. The reasoning was sound, plus we don’t seem to get many opportunities to actually shower TOGETHER anymore, so of course I was all for that idea!  As she went off to get undressed, Angel also commented that maybe we should also go ahead and get that code for the lockbox (from EmlaLock).
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As I wrote about last week, the EmlaLock session that I had started which kept my keys completely out of reach for a couple months has ended.  We have not yet actually clicked the “End” button and gotten the combination to the lockbox, but Angel now has full say again of when that will happen.  The control is completely back in her hands again, and she has already taken great advantage of that fact!

Based only on recent bedroom talk and knowing our past history, I actually rather expected that Angel would most likely be letting me out sometime this past weekend.  I know that she has been desperately craving the intimate, one-on-one connection between us that only “real” sex seems to be able to fully provide.  Yes, I have been practically bouncing off the walls at times too, wanting my OWN release, but that is completely secondary to HER wants/needs and I wouldn’t have it any other way!

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At last, my session on EmlaLock has reached the end, and the combination to the lockbox holding my keys is now within reach!

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We’re coming down the home stretch! At most, it should only be about 10 more days before EmlaLock reaches the “max time” for my chastity session and releases the combination to the keys, effectively giving Angel full control once again of when I will actually be unlocked. But my feeling is that it will be a little bit earlier than that, so I’m expecting it to hit at some point this coming week! I have told Angel that as well, and she is definitely looking forward to having me out and being able to feel me inside of her again!
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I had another question from a reader, this one about possible unwanted side effects from engaging in long-term chastity.

🔒🍆🗝👸🏽 wrote:

Hi, I’m an avid follower and love your writing. My wife and I enjoy it as we have much in common with you guys (or as much as can be surmised from your writing) ;).

I know you can lay an issue we have with chastity to rest once and for all, get it from the horses mouth so to speak. We have gone to 20 days in the past and read you can either have difficulty achieving erection or your size of the erection gets diminished with long term chastity. My wife saw this and immediately unlocked me. Now we are going to try for 6 weeks but were hoping you can put our concerns to rest.

Any advice you might have would be wonderful, thanks!

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Well 🔒🍆🗝👸🏽, here’s the deal.  First of all, thank you for the compliment! It is rather flattering to hear that I have an “avid follower!” Lol
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