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Living on the Edge

Posted: February 8, 2016 in Chastity, Kinky, Male Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial
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I have been unlocked for a little over a week so far (9 days, currently).  The last time I was free for this long was some time way back in July 2015! It really does almost feel strange NOT wearing a cage, as I’ve been so used to that constricted feeling for such a long time.

Over the past week when I wake up in the middle of the night next to my sleeping Angel, I notice that I’m still horny as hell, but unlike when I’m locked I actually have something to “show” for it! 🙂  I have given Angel control of when I can have an orgasm, so that’s not going to change just because I’m not locked at the moment.  But, being how I suddenly AM able to at least touch myself down there, I have not been able to resist the temptation to stroke “just a little bit…”  Several times, I have managed to bring myself right to the brink of an orgasm, then stop.  A few minutes later (if I haven’t fallen back asleep by then!) I might do the same thing again..
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Reader Question: Chastity Game Rules

Posted: February 4, 2016 in Chastity, Long Term Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial, Queens Keep
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I recently had a question from a reader regarding Chastity Game Rules; specifically how I actually count time locked vs. unlocked.
Servinghimwithchastity wrote (in response to “Four Months in the Keep“):

A super congratulations! That was a very long time and much longer than we have been able to go, hats off. I believe we are caught up with all your past posts but am wondering what your “game rules” are. We never know how long my hubbie has been “officially” locked. About 2 weeks ago he had an accident right in his cage (my fault), we don’t believe that counts as an unlocking. And about 3 weeks ago I was not having a good day (it happened to land on a bad day of the month 🙁 ) and I unlocked him out of anger and told him to give it to me. I wasn’t even warmed up and as he had been locked for a few weeks at that point he lasted exactly 2 pumps and I put his device back on, the whole thing ended up being a lesson but does that count as unlocked? We were thinking it maybe it counts if he sleeps without the device on. I know it’s whatever “rules” you want it to be but if you can post (or point me to where you already posted) your rules of an official unlocking, we would love to follow them! You never know, your rules may become “The Official Rules to Chastity Time Locked”.

Thanks so much for your posts, we always look forward to reading them and get so excited for you and yours.

I hope your release is mind blowing.

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No More FourPlay!

Posted: February 1, 2016 in Chastity, Key-Holder, Kinky, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Mature Metal, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial, Queens Keep
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JUST in case you’re wondering, yes–the play on words in my title was very intentional! Four months of being locked in the Queen’s Keep pretty much equates to four straight months of foreplay leading up to the big event that we had this past Saturday night! So yes, I think that the term “fourplay” seems to be most appropriate! 🙂

I wasn’t completely sure if I would be getting out this past weekend or not.  Friday night came and went without much of a word about it.  Saturday, Angel did start hinting quite a bit that she “might” unlock me. Later that night after we had gotten the kids down to bed, we started talking about maybe taking a shower together since we had relatively early plans on Sunday morning and it would be much more difficult to take them while trying to get the kids going at the same time. The reasoning was sound, plus we don’t seem to get many opportunities to actually shower TOGETHER anymore, so of course I was all for that idea!  As she went off to get undressed, Angel also commented that maybe we should also go ahead and get that code for the lockbox (from EmlaLock).
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Four Months in the Keep

Posted: January 29, 2016 in Chastity, Kinky, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial
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We’ve done it!  Four full months of being locked 24×7 in the Queen’s Keep with absolutely no release, even for a cleaning! I’d say it’s a good thing I chose one of the more “open” chastity designs, like the Queen’s Keep, otherwise it would be much more difficult to take care of and keep the device from getting rather smelly!  At any rate, I might have been able to get a break from it last weekend after EmlaLock released the keys back to us, except for the fact that Angel decided that as close as we were we should shoot for a full 4 months..  So here we are! My previous record duration of 60 days has been completely shattered (by more than double).  I could try to say it’s been the hardest 4 months of my life (no pun intended!), but it really hasn’t! 
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Sorry, but NO!

Posted: January 25, 2016 in Anal Sex, Chastity, Key-Holder, Kinky, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial, Sex, Strap-On
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As I wrote about last week, the EmlaLock session that I had started which kept my keys completely out of reach for a couple months has ended.  We have not yet actually clicked the “End” button and gotten the combination to the lockbox, but Angel now has full say again of when that will happen.  The control is completely back in her hands again, and she has already taken great advantage of that fact!

Based only on recent bedroom talk and knowing our past history, I actually rather expected that Angel would most likely be letting me out sometime this past weekend.  I know that she has been desperately craving the intimate, one-on-one connection between us that only “real” sex seems to be able to fully provide.  Yes, I have been practically bouncing off the walls at times too, wanting my OWN release, but that is completely secondary to HER wants/needs and I wouldn’t have it any other way!

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Heading for the Finish Line!

Posted: January 22, 2016 in Chastity, Key-Holder, Kinky, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial
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At last, my session on EmlaLock has reached the end, and the combination to the lockbox holding my keys is now within reach!

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The Nerve of My Key-holder

Posted: January 17, 2016 in Chastity, Key-Holder, Kinky, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial
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We’re coming down the home stretch! At most, it should only be about 10 more days before EmlaLock reaches the “max time” for my chastity session and releases the combination to the keys, effectively giving Angel full control once again of when I will actually be unlocked. But my feeling is that it will be a little bit earlier than that, so I’m expecting it to hit at some point this coming week! I have told Angel that as well, and she is definitely looking forward to having me out and being able to feel me inside of her again!
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Locked and Loaded, Ready for Release!

Posted: January 8, 2016 in Chastity, Kinky, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial
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I have to say, that as the days/weeks/months continue to add up for this round of chastity, I have really been noticing just how horny it is making me ALL THE TIME!  This is especially true when I’m with Angel, helping HER to orgasm, but the feeling still continues well past “playtime” too! I have had other lock-up periods where it might eventually subside for a while, and it may have with this round too (a couple months ago) but now has come full-circle and I have a little bit of a hard time getting sex out of my mind! 
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100 Days in the Keep

Posted: January 6, 2016 in Chastity, Key-Holder, Kinky, Male Chastity, Mature Metal, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial, Queens Keep
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I have reached 100 days of being locked continuously in the Queen’s Keep, and still am not entirely sure when my EmlaLock session will end for me to be released! It definitely should be this month, I just will not know an exact day until it gets here..

Angel and I have been having lots of fun with it lately though! There was a ton of “action” going on while we both had a little bit of time off over the holidays, I just never really had much of a chance to sit down and write about it much. One of my favorites relates back to a previous post (Playtime for Angel?) where I had tried to prod Angel into having a little bit of solo fun one day when she was home alone.  It didn’t work out that day, but one evening later that week she decided to go for it!
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Merry Chaste Christmas!

Posted: December 25, 2015 in Chastity, Key-Holder, Kinky, Male Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial
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Merry Christmas, everybody! I hope your holidays are filled with cheer and that you get everything you wish for (or wish you HADN’T wished for! Lol)  For us, Angel still has one package that she won’t be able to “unwrap” for at least a couple more weeks.  We are both very much looking forward to that day! But for now, it’s all about the kids and spending time with the family, and you can’t go wrong with that!

 

 

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I’ll Be Locked For Christmas
Lyrics by: pcguy0681
Music by: Dying Seed
To the tune of Bing Crosby’s classic melody: “I’ll Be Home For Christmas”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Playtime for Angel?

Posted: December 21, 2015 in Chastity, Key-Holder, Kinky, Male Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial
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Angel has a bit more time off of work than I do over the holidays, and for today the kids were still going to daycare so she would be free to run some errands.  This also meant that she was going to be home by herself for a while at certain times of the day.  After talking to her at one point (so I knew that she was home) I sent Angel a little e-mail, followed by a text message to make sure that she actually checked her e-mail!

The message read:

[Angel],

Before you leave the house again, you should go back to the bed and relax (lights out, clothing… optional!) Listen to this (attached) a couple times, grab your friend… and tell me all about it later! 🙂

You know that I’m thinking about you!

Love,

[pcguy]

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Chastity Christmas Jingle

Posted: December 17, 2015 in Chastity, Kinky, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial
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About a year ago, I wrote a little Christmas song about being locked in chastity! Ok, so it’s not like I wrote an entire musical tune from scratch, but I did come up with my own complete set of lyrics that I thought should flow nicely to the tune of the well-known Bing Crosby melody: I’ll Be Home For Christmas.

I’m not going to repeat all of the lyrics here, but they are posted on another page with the new song title: I’ll Be ‘Locked’ For Christmas!

This year, I took it a step further.  I found a free-lance artist online who goes by the name Dying Seed, who was willing to record a track for me of him singing my custom lyrics along with playing his acoustic guitar with it.  It basically follows the Bing Crosby melody, with some minor variation that I had given him the artistic freedom to do as he saw fit.  I was VERY happy with the results! (Thank you, Dying Seed!)
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Long Locked and Loving It!

Posted: December 14, 2015 in Chastity, Key-Holder, Kinky, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Mature Metal, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial, Queens Keep, Strap-On
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I have been locked in the Queen’s Keep non-stop now for 76 days, and still counting.  On one hand I am practically climbing the walls with how horny I am, ALL the time! Sometimes, it seems that this is pretty much all I can think about! Angel has been thoroughly enjoying having me in this state, and egging it on even more.  I know she is anxious to have it off as well, but in the mean time she likes to pet me through the cage and comment about how it’s too bad somebody can’t come out and play–which just manages to drive me even more wild! 🙂

This past weekend, I did show Angel the EmlaLock session that is controlling access to my keys, and explained the little calculation error that I made when setting it up.  If she was very disappointed that I will be locked a few weeks longer than we originally thought, she didn’t show it much, and in fact we ended up having some of the hotter rounds of “chaste sex” that we’ve had for a while!  That’s where the other side of the catch-22 comes into play for a chaste man.. While I am extremely horny and want to be released very badly, it still just never gets old watching and feeling Angel as she loses control of her body time and time again, as her orgasms come in huge waves! At that point, I truly don’t even care that I’m not getting a release. I only want HER to have more!
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Personal Chastity Record In Progress!

Posted: December 1, 2015 in Chastity, Key-Holder, Kinky, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial
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As of this past weekend, I am treading new waters and have reached a personal record as far as length of time being locked continuously in a chastity device! As tracked on my Current Status page, my previous record was 60 days.  As of today, being locked since September 29th, I am at 63 days and still counting!

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Wet & Wild Wand Fun

Posted: November 15, 2015 in Chastity, Key-Holder, Male Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial
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A couple of nights ago, Angel began hinting very early in the evening that she would like to possibly get to bed a little bit earlier than normal, at least after the kids were both down, so we could take care of a little “stress relief” for her. A series of strong orgasms can do wonders in that area for her! Of course I agreed, but we did both still have some other work to get done first–her for her job, and me for a small remodeling project that I still have going on in the house.

Once the kids were in bed and we had both finished up what we needed to do, we hopped in the shower to get cleaned up a bit before bed. Angel and I do manage to shower together fairly frequently, but while she was expecting a very FAST shower that night so we could move on to other business in the bedroom, I had a little surprise for her instead!

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Going For a Record Chastity Duration

Posted: November 2, 2015 in BDSM, Be Careful What You Wish For, Chastity, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial, Queens Keep
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Ok, I gave a little teaser post on Halloween, but being how this past weekend was spent mainly focusing on the kids’ fun (as it should be!), now I finally have a chance to sit down and tell about what I was referring to!

I’ve written before about occasionally securing the keys to my Queen’s Keep into a little realtor’s lockbox, and uploading the combination pic to a site like CarliLock for a while.  This takes the control away from both myself AND Angel! The last time we did this, Angel and I sat down together to set up the session and upload the pic, making sure neither of us could ever remember the combination! We had talked briefly from time to time about doing this again, but so far had not done so.  Over the summer, I had suspected that we might do it pretty soon, so I had even gone ahead and set the lock on the box (making sure not to close it) and had the pic file stored in a specific folder on our computer.  I knew that as the weeks/months went on, there was no way I would remember what it was. So as long as I didn’t peek at that file, we would never know!  After our summer vacation, for various reasons we still did not go this route again with the keys, so a random combination has been set on this box for quite some time now!
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Strap-On Some Fun!

Posted: October 27, 2015 in Anal Sex, BDSM, Bedroom Bondage, Bondage, Chastity, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial, Queens Keep, Sex, Strap-On
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This past weekend, with Angel and I both feeling particularly horny, we found some time to make sure that HERS was taken care of despite the fact that I would still not be unlocked for my own! Keeping in mind that the last time we had much playtime was following a big fight between us, it was very nice to both be going into this completely relaxed and on good terms with each other!

Angel told me that I was free to do ANYTHING I wanted to her that evening–though of course I was immediately shot down when I said that I wanted to be inside her! 🙂 THAT wasn’t happening. Instead, I started off with the usual routine of getting her warmed up with some orgasms via my fingers, tongue, and of course her magic wand! As things began to heat up a lot, Angel requested that I pay some attention to her ass, as it had been quite a while since we had done anything like that!

To backtrack just a bit, before we went on our little anniversary get-away last month, we had begun playing around with several different sized butt plugs, etc. and found that Angel was really enjoying them! She really wanted to try straight-up anal with ME inside her, but of course that could only be done when I was not locked! Well, when I was out of the Queen’s Keep that weekend, we did in fact try that for the first time ever!  I just didn’t write about that aspect of our adventures before, because it didn’t exactly work out quite the way either of us was expecting..

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Chaste Make-Up Sex

Posted: October 19, 2015 in Chastity, Key-Holder, Male Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial, Queens Keep, Sex
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As much as it pains me to say, Angel and I had a pretty big fight with each other towards the end of this past week. Very possibly, I think, the worst we’ve had in all the years of our marriage so far!  I’m not going to get into the cause of the fight here, because it really isn’t relevant. I’m fairly sure ALL couples must go through similar things at some point in their relationships.  Money, kids, friends, general stresses of day-to-day life.. There is always some sort of disagreement lurking around the corner when people co-habitate, no matter how much they love each other!
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No End In Sight

Posted: October 6, 2015 in Chastity, Key-Holder, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial, Sex
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After a great, romantic get-away last weekend for our anniversary, Angel and I have had to get back into the grind of normal life this past week.  The weekend seemed to be especially busy, as we both had different obligations to fulfill so it didn’t feel like we even SAW each other all that much!  We did wake up on Sunday morning though, both feeling rather frisky.  Being how it hadn’t even been 1 week yet since starting this latest round of chastity, it was a pretty safe bet that I wouldn’t be getting an orgasm any time soon. But that sure didn’t mean that Angel had to do without!

As we started with some heavy petting, and working my fingers to all the right places down her body, it took a little while for Angel to completely let go and enjoy the sensations. She always had one ear tuned for some little footsteps coming down the stairs, since more often than not our 4-year old will end up climbing into bed with us by that time on the weekends!  Once it became fairly apparent that he was actually still asleep, she was able to have some fun!
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Chaste Anniversary – part 2 (Spa Day)

Posted: October 1, 2015 in Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial, Sex
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…Continued from Chaste Anniversary – part 1

After being released from chastity for some fun times with my “slutty wifey,” normally if Angel doesn’t say anything about going back into the cage then I will ask her myself if that’s what she is expecting or not.  Saturday night she didn’t outright ask me to go back in, and I purposely did not bring it up again either.  The reason was that I had another little anniversary surprise scheduled for the following morning: A full Spa day for the two of us, complete with an hour long couple’s massage! Angel does get massages for herself semi-regularly, but I’m sure it had been years since I’ve had a professional one, and we had never done anything like that together! I managed to keep it a secret until we were walking through the resort following signs leading to the spa, and Angel managed to figure out that was where we were heading. She was both surprised and thrilled at the thought of being able to share yet another fun, new experience with each other!

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