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I have been wanting to post about my being let out of the Queen’s Keep this past weekend while it is still somewhat fresh in my mind, but have been far too busy lately to be able to actually sit down and write much!  Last weekend was definitely one to remember, though! To start with, our oldest boy was taking a little trip out of town with his Grandma.  That left only the baby with us, and Angel convinced another family member to watch him over Saturday night meaning the two of us would have the entire evening to ourselves to do whatever we wanted!

To begin with, upon returning from running couple of errands in the afternoon, I was rather surprised to find Angel waiting for me in bed decked out in some of her sexiest lingerie!  I hadn’t really expected to be getting down to business before we even had dinner, but if she was ready for it I sure wasn’t one to complain! She let me help her to a couple of “mild” orgasms, and as usual it wasn’t long at all before I was really wishing to be unlocked.  Angel decided that she wanted to go ahead and let me out for just a little bit, and I could have one orgasm myself to get the night started.  BUT, I was to go right back into the cage before we left the house to eat!  This was rather carefully planned out, as she wanted me to be ready to go for the long haul that night, and we know from experience that my first time after a long period of lock-up tends to be rather quick!



Just wanted to throw one quick note out here. As anticipated, we didn’t quite make it to 8 full weeks being locked up for this round.  I’ll call it 7 weeks and 6 days, or about 55 days total. That will go down as my second-longest duration to date, though!

Week 8 (the six days of it, at least) certainly was a lot of fun, which I will write more about later. I just wanted to note that I am out of the Queen’s Keep, at least for the moment.  All I can say as a teaser for later, (more…)


It’s been such a busy week since Angel returned from her trip, that I am a little late getting my weekly update written.. Week 7 was very interesting though, with lots to talk about!

To recap a couple of my previous posts, the beginning of the week is when I was home alone for a few days, and found myself missing Angel very much; even more than I USUALLY miss her when we’re apart! I missed her to the extent that I even went so far as to wear some of her sexy lingerie to bed a few nights, just to feel a little bit closer to her. That actually DID help quite a bit! Though a little nervous about what she might think of it, I even told Angel that I had been wearing her clothes, and sent a pic so she could see for herself.

By the last night that she was away, we were delving into even more new things and “sexting” some slightly “naughty” pics and texts back and forth to each other. Being locked up for so long and therefore having NO way to relieve myself, she had me pretty much bouncing off the walls even from a couple hundred miles away! 🙂


I’ve reached six full weeks for this round of chastity, making it the longest so far being locked in the Queen’s Keep, and the third longest overall that I have been locked.  It has certainly been quite a ride, which continues to get more and more intense as Angel dives deeper herself into the role of being my key-holder, and deciding if/when I am able to orgasm! Of course this week she didn’t have much of a say in the matter, being how the keys are now locked up and under the control of, but even that was HER decision to do!

It is incredibly hot, seeing Angel take/embrace that kind of control.  She asked me once after I had just finished getting HER off, if I wished I could get out then.  I told her Yes AND No! Of course it would feel absolutely amazing to get out and be inside her again. But when I’m still at the same level of “horny” hours later, I feel perfectly content with having my own orgasms sort of vicariously through hers!  And she certainly does have enough for the both of us! 🙂


I’ve already written about the biggest changes that came out of week 5 of this round of chastity. To recap, Angel decided that we should lock up the KEYS, in our little lock-box, and let CarliLock be the only keeper of that combination for a little while. That effectively “forces” me to remain locked up for at least 2 more weeks, as NEITHER Angel or I have access to the keys right now to let me out!

The remainder of the weekend since we did that, has been both very exciting and frustrating at the same time. It is still very fun and fulfilling to help Angel orgasm, which of course she did let me do quite a lot! It was an added bonus to be able to tease HER somewhat as well, about how much she must want to have me filling her up, but just can’t… I know it’s not nearly as effective of a tease for her, being how she still has plenty of “options” of how to get off, but it was still fun none-the-less! Lol When I turned it around and let Angel know how much I wanted to be inside of HER, she replied with a simple “OK,” and proceeded to push my head down between her legs again, making it clear that she was quite content with my tongue & fingers being the only things to make their way inside! Very hot indeed!



Week 4 was a pretty good week of being locked in chastity.  We were  both pretty busy during the first part of the week as is often the case, so it’s usually difficult to find time for sexual things then, but the weekend generally changes that!

Both Saturday and Sunday mornings we woke up early (as in, BEFORE the toddler!) with Angel being in desperate need of some attention.  As I was helping her to get off with my fingers/tongue, I would on occasion let her know just how badly I really wanted to be unlocked and inside her. She was very adamant about “NO, not today!” Besides driving ME even more crazy with desire, I could swear that it felt like SHE got even more turned on and wet as she was actively denying me! (more…)


The remainder of Week 3 was relatively uneventful in terms of being locked. I would have thought, that getting an unexpected “release” halfway through the week might have been sufficient to make me not quite so horny… But nope! I don’t know if it’s the fact that I was immediately locked back up afterwards or what, but I almost think I’ve been even MORE horny the second part of this week!



This morning brought about a new “first” for me: being unlocked just long enough for a quickie then being required to go right back into chastity again! Angel and I both somehow woke up well before the alarms would be going off, started cuddling a lot, and it wasn’t long at all before that started escalating into much more!

I was busy going down for a good taste of her, and helping her to some nice orgasms with my fingers, when Angel asked if I wanted to come out. I was actually quite content at the moment just helping HER, and hadn’t really expected to have that offer on the table this morning, so I just turned it around and asked if SHE wanted me out. She said she did, but ONLY if I put it right back on when we were done! That is, after all, exactly what I offered to do whenever she wished, when we first started talking about some long-term chastity!



I missed my weekly update for Week 1 of this particular round of chastity, as I was still recovering from being sick last weekend.  But because of the illnesses, there wasn’t much really worth speaking about anyway.  Week 2 started off just as uneventful, with Angel taking her turn being sick as well (fortunately not nearly as severe as what I had just gone through though!)  By the end of the week, everyone was pretty much back to our “normal” selves. It felt nice to be snuggling up behind Angel again one night and start feeling that familiar urge once again as I started to get hard–only to be stopped short at the end of the cage! It was a nice little reminder that “I’ve still got it!”  🙂 (more…)


I was going to try to get this post out about a week ago, but then ended up spending about five days straight in bed with a nasty stomach flu…  I wanted to talk a little bit more about the Anti-Pullout options that I have with the Queen’s Keep.  Previously, I had tried the shortest version of the “blunt” anti-pullout pin, and really for the most part could barely tell it was there at all!  (see previous Anti-Pullout post, here) For this round of chastity, I went on up to the medium length blunt pin.



Last night I got the first feedback from Angel regarding my note about Long Term Chastity, but not exactly in the way I expected!  I had actually gone and laid down in bed a little early, trying to fight off the beginnings of a cold that I was feeling coming on, while Angel was still up finishing some work that she had to bring home. When she did come to bed, she asked if I was still awake, which I “barely” was.. She tried starting a conversation about what she had read (my note) earlier in the day, asking if I really wanted to stay locked all the way until my Birthday??  I wasn’t sure I was really awake enough to have that conversation right then, but managed to mumble something about being willing to go that long if SHE wanted to try it!  She commented about that being a LONG time (which it is!), then it seemed to drop at that for the time.  Eventually, she rolled over and turned off the lights, saying we could talk more about it later…

BUT THEN, as I was snuggling up behind her and truly starting to drift off to sleep, Angel suddenly grabbed my hand and guided it down to her crotch in a clear indication that she wanted some attention! Somewhat late, on a work night even… That virtually never happens anymore since we started having kids! 🙂


One thing I failed to mention in my last post, is that I AM actually locked again! Yesterday evening as I was finishing writing down my ideas for Angel, I did go ahead and lock the Queen’s Keep back on. So if she DOES decide to go for a longer period, it it already in effect as of February 15, after only one day of being “free.”

We will see where things go from here!


As I alluded to in my last Valentine’s post, Angel and I did start having a conversation about possibly doing some longer periods of chastity.  A couple of the main issues that we have with this are:

  1. She thoroughly enjoys having me unlocked on occasion for “real” sex. (And so do *I*, I’m not going to lie about that!)
  2. We both rather enjoy leaving the “power” in her hands, to decide at any particular moment in time whether she wants to unlock me or not.

So we are both rather hesitant about setting a hard end date and saying that I HAVE TO stay locked until that time with no exceptions.  One “middle ground” option that was mentioned, was to be locked up for a set amount of time, but it wouldn’t technically be a hard limit because she would still get the option to let me out any time she wishes.  If she DOES unlock me, I would lock the device back on again immediately after we are finished playing, whether I actually have an orgasm during that time or not.  Angel did say that she might not mind at some point, if we were to put the keys back in the lockbox again (see my CarliLock post to read about previous experience with this), but we’d have to think about how much time to put on it.


Valentine’s Day started off pretty low-key for Angel and I, but ended with a bang! Coming off of one kid being sick the day before, we weren’t going to get him out in the cold at all, but Angel decided to run down to Dunkin Doughnuts for some of their little heart-shaped, cookie dough filled goodness, for breakfast.  We had some good time with the boys, exchanged some chocolates, cards, etc. and then just had pretty much a normal Saturday with the family.  It was fun!  In the evening though, once the kids were both in bed, the fun could REALLY start!


One week is behind me now for “round 2” of being locked in the Queen’s Keep. It was a relatively uneventful week. Angel and I did manage to find some time to fool around over the weekend, which is ALWAYS great! Just one week though, doesn’t really have me at the point yet where I almost can’t stand it to not get a release for myself… (more…)


I’ve been unlocked for a little while now, until today!  It was 16 days free, according to my Current Status page.  I had been contemplating going back in earlier, but Angel hadn’t said any more about it since we last took the device off a couple of weeks ago.  Sometimes, I do almost feel a little bad about always locking myself then dumping the keys on her.  I know she does enjoy it when I’m locked, but she hasn’t ever really taken a notion to ask me to go back in on her own.  I don’t know… Am I pushing this on her too hard?


Since I’m not really in an “official” lock-up period at the moment, I have been kind of playing around a little bit with another option which I had gone ahead and ordered with the Queen’s Keep even though I wasn’t sure if it would ever get used or not. That is the “anti-pullout” option.  Pulling (or even “falling”) out of a chastity device has never been a particularly big problem for me but I can see how it might get pretty close sometimes.  I can think of maybe ONE time, early on, when I may have actually slipped all the way out of one of the larger CB-XXXX devices, but that hasn’t happened at all since using better fitting devices.


OOPS!  Never mind, I was starting my normal Tuesday update, but didn’t actually hit 6 weeks in the keep for this round, did we? 🙂 I’m still out, just wanted to give an update on the condition of the “merchandise!” Starting with the steel..  Everything is looking good!  The Queen’s Keep is so much easier to keep clean than the plastic devices. There was just a tiny bit of some sort of build-up on the inside of the bars right at the end of the cage, so I guess I need to pay closer attention to that part in the shower the next time I’m wearing it..  But really I see no issues at all!

Then for MYSELF…  Again, looking good!  I did get a better look at the place where the bottom of the cage seemed to be rubbing a little bit.  It IS a tad bit red there, but really not too bad at all.  I think the lotion was helping a lot to keep the skin moist and somewhat lubricated so it stopped rubbing and started to heal up pretty well.  I’m sure I’ll probably be out now at least long enough for that to get completely better, and next time I’ll know from the start the best way to care for it.  I would suspect that with continued use my body will probably start “adapting” to it a little bit too, and make it even more of a non-issue.



I am happy to say that my first run locked in the Queen’s Keep, with Angel holding the keys, ended rather explosively (pardon the pun! 🙂  ) a couple of nights ago! As reflected on my Current Status page, the official count was 5 weeks 3 days, or 39 days total.


A couple months ago I had a whole post about Measuring and Ordering from Mature Metal. I got the measuring rings and spent quite a bit of time trying to make sure my measurements were just right. They were pretty darn good, but I wanted to revisit this just a little bit to see what kind of changes I might make if I were ever to order again. I thought I had done a pretty good job of doing these measurements while at my “smallest,” but of course it is reasonable to expect that just the simple thoughts of DOING this type of measuring is probably enough to increase the bloodflow down there for most guys! 🙂