Archive for the ‘Long Term Chastity’ Category

WOW, I have just hit 100,000 page views on my blog! It feels like just a few weeks ago that I wrote about a milestone at 50,000! I’m not going to get really deep into it here, as I will also have a “1-year anniversary” post coming very soon as well, but just wanted to give a quick shout-out and Thank You again to everyone who has been coming to read my writing!

And, as my world-wide readership continues to expand, I now have visitors from a whopping 135 different countries!  The U.S. still holds a vast majority of the views to my blog, but I still also welcome everybody else from around the globe! Even if English is not your primary language (I do see the Google Translator fairly often as a “referrer”), I hope you still find my blog interesting and informative!



After a great, romantic get-away last weekend for our anniversary, Angel and I have had to get back into the grind of normal life this past week.  The weekend seemed to be especially busy, as we both had different obligations to fulfill so it didn’t feel like we even SAW each other all that much!  We did wake up on Sunday morning though, both feeling rather frisky.  Being how it hadn’t even been 1 week yet since starting this latest round of chastity, it was a pretty safe bet that I wouldn’t be getting an orgasm any time soon. But that sure didn’t mean that Angel had to do without!

As we started with some heavy petting, and working my fingers to all the right places down her body, it took a little while for Angel to completely let go and enjoy the sensations. She always had one ear tuned for some little footsteps coming down the stairs, since more often than not our 4-year old will end up climbing into bed with us by that time on the weekends!  Once it became fairly apparent that he was actually still asleep, she was able to have some fun!


Besides Angel’s birthday coming up here very soon, we will also be celebrating our wedding anniversary within two weeks of that. I wrote a bit on a previous post (Chaste Anniversary Planning) about how we are planning a long weekend out of town, leaving the kids behind this time, so we can have a bit more than just a PG-rated celebration! We are very close now to making this trip, and both of us are extremely excited about what is to come! (No pun intended… or was it?!)

As of today, I have been locked for 42 days so far for this current chastity session.  I fully anticipate that I will be out at least part of the time over this weekend (though it is still well within Angel’s power NOT to unlock me, if she so chooses!) so that will probably put me somewhere around 44-45 days total.  That’s hardly a record for me, but will easily be well within my top 5 longest durations! This has certainly been one of the more intense periods though, as Angel has been pretty much constantly teasing me and giving me lots to think about–primarily in regards to our upcoming trip!  I definitely cannot wait to see this new lingerie she bought herself recently.  Apparently it’s a lot more “dirty” (in her words) than what she usually wears, so I’m looking forward to finding out exactly what she classifies as dirty! 🙂


For the first time in my life, I was summoned for Jury Duty this week. It is a very interesting process, which took 2 days just for the selection of twelve jurors and two alternates. In this case I was not chosen in the end, so I did not have to return for day 3.

I was a bit nervous when entering the courthouse on the first day, considering that I would have to pass through metal detectors while wearing a stainless steel chastity device! As I’ve previously written about, I have passed through the detectors numerous times at baseball games with no issues, but I can easily see how they might have the machines calibrated quite a bit tighter here. I even considered asking Angel to unlock me beforehand to make sure I didn’t set off the alarm. I’m sure she would have gone along with that, but the more I thought about it I decided to go ahead and take the risk. What’s the worst that could happen? A security guard would find out about my “situation.” I mean, it’s not like there’s anything illegal going on here!


I haven’t been watching my stats particularly close lately, but just noticed that I’ve hit 50,000 page views on my blog! I am still rather amazed at just how many people read this, and hopefully get at least a little something out of my experiences! Sometimes it is hard to find the time to really write very much, so the time between posts can fluctuate a lot. But I have certainly still been enjoying putting my thoughts and experiences down on “paper!” As I’ve mentioned before, as long as I still feel that I have something pertinent and worthwhile to say, I will continue to do my best to keep this updated as much as possible.

For only the second time in over 100 posts, I find it worthwhile to reblog somebody else’s writing into my own blog. I can definitely relate to the detailed description given here about how over time chastity can turn into the “most sublime pleasure imaginable!”


Angel’s birthday is coming up towards the end of September, followed shortly after by our wedding anniversary (7 years).  To celebrate, this year we have been planning a little getaway, leaving the kids with their grandparents for a long weekend.  For us, we have reserved a small condo on a lake, about a 3 hour drive away.  We are both really looking forward to having a few full days alone, away from everybody!

It was very cute the other day, when Angel decided to do a little shopping for some new lingerie to take on our trip.  Rather than go out to local stores, she decided to do it online this time instead.  I didn’t even know she was doing this, until she sheepishly came to me asking if I could show her how to clear all of the search history, etc. from the web browser.  She wanted to be sure none of these sites would come up if other family/friends might ever happen to be over and use our laptop for anything!  She was also rather worried about the “discreet shipping,” but was pleased when it did come in a completely plain, unmarked package.  Angel apparently found two new outfits for herself.  She has only given me a preview of one so far, and I know it will look very sexy on her!  The other, she says I will have to wait until the trip to see, but has teased that it is a bit “dirtier…”  I can’t wait to see what she comes up with!


The more/longer I am locked in chastity, I find that I’ve gotten so used to it that at times it is very easy to completely forget all about it! That happened this past weekend.  One thing that Angel and I really enjoy doing in the summertime is taking our boat out and cruising around on the local rivers.  It has been kind of a crappy season so far this year with lots of rain, flooding, unpredictable currents, etc.  Finally, this past weekend was nearly perfect out there! The weather was very nice with lots of sunshine, and when we arrived at one of our favorite places to anchor we found that the current was not strong at all this time–meaning we could safely do some swimming off the back of the boat without having to worry as much about being swept too far downstream!

Angel was the first to jump in and start swimming around the boat.  After making sure that some friends who were with us would keep an eye on our 4-year old, I dove right in to join her.  After several minutes of having a good time and trying to convince our son to jump in too, it suddenly occured to me that I couldn’t feel the Queen’s Keep down there!  I stealthily slipped a hand into my trunks to check, and was pleased to find everything still in place, locked and secure!


We arrived back home this past Sunday evening from a nice and (mostly) relaxing vacation.  As I previously wrote, Angel did decide that I should be unlocked for the duration of that trip.  It was nice, and we did manage to find a fair share of “alone time” as well! Of course, Angel had the most benefit from those times with numerous orgasms, but I’m sure I had no less than 4 of them myself over the past couple of weeks! By the end of the trip though, Angel was telling me that she WAS missing having me locked (she loves how horny she can keep me in that state), and was ESPECIALLY missing her “friend” (the Magic Wand)! We planned on playing with the wand some on Sunday night, and work on Angel’s endurance with it a little bit, but got home quite a bit later than expected and have been so busy ever since that it is still yet to happen.  Soon enough though! 🙂

As for me, I was rather missing being locked as well.  Looking back through the history on my Current Status page, I have not been out of chastity for that long since late January! Still, I did not go back into the Queen’s Keep immediately upon arriving home, or even the next day.  This morning though, I woke up before the alarm clock, very hard, and was fairly sure that if I didn’t get back into the cage right away I’d probably wind up taking other matters into my own hands too! Lol


I was out of chastity for 9 days, and dare I say that it almost felt a little bit strange NOT being locked up! I guess I have been getting used to not being able to touch myself, with the longer periods of denial that we have been practicing lately.  Even this time around, Angel didn’t explicitly ask (or tell!) me to lock it back up again, but she was definitely dropping subtle little hints that she wanted me to! (more…)


It’s been such a busy week since Angel returned from her trip, that I am a little late getting my weekly update written.. Week 7 was very interesting though, with lots to talk about!

To recap a couple of my previous posts, the beginning of the week is when I was home alone for a few days, and found myself missing Angel very much; even more than I USUALLY miss her when we’re apart! I missed her to the extent that I even went so far as to wear some of her sexy lingerie to bed a few nights, just to feel a little bit closer to her. That actually DID help quite a bit! Though a little nervous about what she might think of it, I even told Angel that I had been wearing her clothes, and sent a pic so she could see for herself.

By the last night that she was away, we were delving into even more new things and “sexting” some slightly “naughty” pics and texts back and forth to each other. Being locked up for so long and therefore having NO way to relieve myself, she had me pretty much bouncing off the walls even from a couple hundred miles away! 🙂


Angel has been out of town for only three days so far, but I have really been missing her terribly! It hasn’t been too bad during the daytime, as I have had plenty of things to work on and keep my mind occupied; but when I lay down at night alone, it has really been hitting me hard.  I have actually been finding at least a little bit of relief from the loneliness, by putting on and sleeping in a piece of Angel’s lingerie! I know it’s all a mental thing, but when I do that it really makes me feel like I’m close to her again and (though nowhere near the same thing as her) I can at least snuggle into a pillow a little bit and drift off to sleep with nothing but happy thoughts about her!

The first morning after I did that, I was texting with Angel and told her how much I missed her, and that I had worn one of her sexy outfits overnight!  I almost chickened out before hitting the send button on that message. I can’t explain why, but part of me still always seems to be a little nervous about opening up with new little “kinks,” even to my wife who has shown nothing but support and acceptance, even to the point of keeping my junk locked in a steel cage for weeks at a time! To my relief, Angel truly did not seem to find it weird at all. She thought it was “interesting,” and after seeing a picture she commented about it being sexy, and she thought I even pulled off the look better than HER! I will have to disagree with her on THAT one, but the point is that she was just as accepting as ever, so I really didn’t have anything to worry about! Plus her clothes are so soft and comfortable… I slept like a baby! 🙂


Home Alone… “Bachelor” again for a few days… Good chance for a guy like me to be able to have some fun personal time and take care of my own…?! Oh yeah–wait a minute–no I can’t! I’m still locked in a chastity device! 🙂 And I know exactly where the keys are, but they are secured in a lockbox to which I have no clue what the combination is! But Angel is sure loving that right now!  She and the kids left town this morning to go visit some family out of state for a few days.  Of course now she knows that I will DEFINITELY be thinking about her all the time, and have no way of doing anything on my own!

Angel certainly did take advantage of every opportunity for HER to have orgasms before she left though! Friday alone, we both woke up early and managed to get in some very hot sexy time before work, then managed to do it again that night before bed! In the morning, we were talking afterwards about whether she would have unlocked me or not “IF” she had access to the keys.  She claimed she wouldn’t have, that she’s been getting much better at her own self-control (which is true!) She did say though, that as good as I am at making her have incredible orgasms by other means, there is still just a little something missing by not having me inside her.  There’s just a connection when we do that which can’t really be completely replicated any other way.  I get that.  I do feel it too, and I DO love being out and being able to have my own orgasms inside her as well, but wow, I’d also still have to say that getting HER off is pretty darn close to being even better than my own!


Well we’ve done it! It has been almost a week since we floated the idea of securing my keys in the lockbox and starting a new session on CarliLock.  But tonight, the topic came up again and this time we did something about it!

I showed Angel how the site worked, and let her set the random combination and upload a picture without my ever seeing it.  She was still thinking for now, that sometime around Easter weekend might be a good time for a possible release, so we set the session times (both Starting and Max duration) to 2 weeks. Already 33 days into this session so far, and now it is for sure going to be at least another 14 days! IF it comes off that day, that would put me just short of the 7 week mark. We will just have to see how Angel is feeling about it at that time to see if I will end up going even longer than that!


This morning brought about a new “first” for me: being unlocked just long enough for a quickie then being required to go right back into chastity again! Angel and I both somehow woke up well before the alarms would be going off, started cuddling a lot, and it wasn’t long at all before that started escalating into much more!

I was busy going down for a good taste of her, and helping her to some nice orgasms with my fingers, when Angel asked if I wanted to come out. I was actually quite content at the moment just helping HER, and hadn’t really expected to have that offer on the table this morning, so I just turned it around and asked if SHE wanted me out. She said she did, but ONLY if I put it right back on when we were done! That is, after all, exactly what I offered to do whenever she wished, when we first started talking about some long-term chastity!



Last night I got the first feedback from Angel regarding my note about Long Term Chastity, but not exactly in the way I expected!  I had actually gone and laid down in bed a little early, trying to fight off the beginnings of a cold that I was feeling coming on, while Angel was still up finishing some work that she had to bring home. When she did come to bed, she asked if I was still awake, which I “barely” was.. She tried starting a conversation about what she had read (my note) earlier in the day, asking if I really wanted to stay locked all the way until my Birthday??  I wasn’t sure I was really awake enough to have that conversation right then, but managed to mumble something about being willing to go that long if SHE wanted to try it!  She commented about that being a LONG time (which it is!), then it seemed to drop at that for the time.  Eventually, she rolled over and turned off the lights, saying we could talk more about it later…

BUT THEN, as I was snuggling up behind her and truly starting to drift off to sleep, Angel suddenly grabbed my hand and guided it down to her crotch in a clear indication that she wanted some attention! Somewhat late, on a work night even… That virtually never happens anymore since we started having kids! 🙂


As I alluded to in my last Valentine’s post, Angel and I did start having a conversation about possibly doing some longer periods of chastity.  A couple of the main issues that we have with this are:

  1. She thoroughly enjoys having me unlocked on occasion for “real” sex. (And so do *I*, I’m not going to lie about that!)
  2. We both rather enjoy leaving the “power” in her hands, to decide at any particular moment in time whether she wants to unlock me or not.

So we are both rather hesitant about setting a hard end date and saying that I HAVE TO stay locked until that time with no exceptions.  One “middle ground” option that was mentioned, was to be locked up for a set amount of time, but it wouldn’t technically be a hard limit because she would still get the option to let me out any time she wishes.  If she DOES unlock me, I would lock the device back on again immediately after we are finished playing, whether I actually have an orgasm during that time or not.  Angel did say that she might not mind at some point, if we were to put the keys back in the lockbox again (see my CarliLock post to read about previous experience with this), but we’d have to think about how much time to put on it.