At last, my session on EmlaLock has reached the end, and the combination to the lockbox holding my keys is now within reach!
Archive for the ‘Long Term Chastity’ Category
Heading for the Finish Line!
Posted: January 22, 2016 in Chastity, Key-Holder, Kinky, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial6
The Nerve of My Key-holder
Posted: January 17, 2016 in Chastity, Key-Holder, Kinky, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial
We’re coming down the home stretch! At most, it should only be about 10 more days before EmlaLock reaches the “max time” for my chastity session and releases the combination to the keys, effectively giving Angel full control once again of when I will actually be unlocked. But my feeling is that it will be a little bit earlier than that, so I’m expecting it to hit at some point this coming week! I have told Angel that as well, and she is definitely looking forward to having me out and being able to feel me inside of her again!
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2015 Lock-up Summary
Posted: January 13, 2016 in Anal Sex, BDSM, Bondage, Chastity, Kinky, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm Denial, Queens Keep, Spanking, Strap-On
I decided to go back through the records on my Current Status page and add up how many total days I was locked in a chastity device vs. being unlocked during 2015. I was actually somewhat surprised by the results: For every day that I was free, I spent almost 5 days locked up!
The year ended the same way as it began, with me locked in the Queen’s Keep. At the beginning of the year, the steel device was brand new to me and that was the very first session where I had turned control of these keys over to Angel. But she took to it like a fish to water, and started keeping me locked far more than not!
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Reader Question: Effects of Long-Term Chastity?
Posted: January 10, 2016 in Chastity, Key-Holder, Kinky, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm Denial
I had another question from a reader, this one about possible unwanted side effects from engaging in long-term chastity.
🔒🍆🗝👸🏽 wrote:
Hi, I’m an avid follower and love your writing. My wife and I enjoy it as we have much in common with you guys (or as much as can be surmised from your writing) ;).
I know you can lay an issue we have with chastity to rest once and for all, get it from the horses mouth so to speak. We have gone to 20 days in the past and read you can either have difficulty achieving erection or your size of the erection gets diminished with long term chastity. My wife saw this and immediately unlocked me. Now we are going to try for 6 weeks but were hoping you can put our concerns to rest.
Any advice you might have would be wonderful, thanks!
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Well 🔒🍆🗝👸🏽, here’s the deal. First of all, thank you for the compliment! It is rather flattering to hear that I have an “avid follower!” Lol
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Locked and Loaded, Ready for Release!
Posted: January 8, 2016 in Chastity, Kinky, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm DenialI have to say, that as the days/weeks/months continue to add up for this round of chastity, I have really been noticing just how horny it is making me ALL THE TIME! This is especially true when I’m with Angel, helping HER to orgasm, but the feeling still continues well past “playtime” too! I have had other lock-up periods where it might eventually subside for a while, and it may have with this round too (a couple months ago) but now has come full-circle and I have a little bit of a hard time getting sex out of my mind!
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Chastity Christmas Jingle
Posted: December 17, 2015 in Chastity, Kinky, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial
About a year ago, I wrote a little Christmas song about being locked in chastity! Ok, so it’s not like I wrote an entire musical tune from scratch, but I did come up with my own complete set of lyrics that I thought should flow nicely to the tune of the well-known Bing Crosby melody: I’ll Be Home For Christmas.
I’m not going to repeat all of the lyrics here, but they are posted on another page with the new song title: I’ll Be ‘Locked’ For Christmas!
This year, I took it a step further. I found a free-lance artist online who goes by the name Dying Seed, who was willing to record a track for me of him singing my custom lyrics along with playing his acoustic guitar with it. It basically follows the Bing Crosby melody, with some minor variation that I had given him the artistic freedom to do as he saw fit. I was VERY happy with the results! (Thank you, Dying Seed!)
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Long Locked and Loving It!
Posted: December 14, 2015 in Chastity, Key-Holder, Kinky, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Mature Metal, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial, Queens Keep, Strap-On
I have been locked in the Queen’s Keep non-stop now for 76 days, and still counting. On one hand I am practically climbing the walls with how horny I am, ALL the time! Sometimes, it seems that this is pretty much all I can think about! Angel has been thoroughly enjoying having me in this state, and egging it on even more. I know she is anxious to have it off as well, but in the mean time she likes to pet me through the cage and comment about how it’s too bad somebody can’t come out and play–which just manages to drive me even more wild! 🙂
This past weekend, I did show Angel the EmlaLock session that is controlling access to my keys, and explained the little calculation error that I made when setting it up. If she was very disappointed that I will be locked a few weeks longer than we originally thought, she didn’t show it much, and in fact we ended up having some of the hotter rounds of “chaste sex” that we’ve had for a while! That’s where the other side of the catch-22 comes into play for a chaste man.. While I am extremely horny and want to be released very badly, it still just never gets old watching and feeling Angel as she loses control of her body time and time again, as her orgasms come in huge waves! At that point, I truly don’t even care that I’m not getting a release. I only want HER to have more!
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Miscalculation…
Posted: December 9, 2015 in Chastity, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm Denial
Due to a little miscalculation on my part (oops!), it looks like I will be spending a few extra weeks in chastity than I had originally thought…
As I’ve previously written about, I have currently been locked in the Queen’s Keep continuously since September 29. One month into it (on October 29), the combination picture providing access to my keys was uploaded to a new EmlaLock session and set to a random duration. It was meant to ensure that I would reach a personal lock-up record, but not necessarily much more than that! (more…)
Personal Chastity Record In Progress!
Posted: December 1, 2015 in Chastity, Key-Holder, Kinky, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm DenialAs of this past weekend, I am treading new waters and have reached a personal record as far as length of time being locked continuously in a chastity device! As tracked on my Current Status page, my previous record was 60 days. As of today, being locked since September 29th, I am at 63 days and still counting!
Going For a Record Chastity Duration
Posted: November 2, 2015 in BDSM, Be Careful What You Wish For, Chastity, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial, Queens Keep
Ok, I gave a little teaser post on Halloween, but being how this past weekend was spent mainly focusing on the kids’ fun (as it should be!), now I finally have a chance to sit down and tell about what I was referring to!
I’ve written before about occasionally securing the keys to my Queen’s Keep into a little realtor’s lockbox, and uploading the combination pic to a site like CarliLock for a while. This takes the control away from both myself AND Angel! The last time we did this, Angel and I sat down together to set up the session and upload the pic, making sure neither of us could ever remember the combination! We had talked briefly from time to time about doing this again, but so far had not done so. Over the summer, I had suspected that we might do it pretty soon, so I had even gone ahead and set the lock on the box (making sure not to close it) and had the pic file stored in a specific folder on our computer. I knew that as the weeks/months went on, there was no way I would remember what it was. So as long as I didn’t peek at that file, we would never know! After our summer vacation, for various reasons we still did not go this route again with the keys, so a random combination has been set on this box for quite some time now!
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Happy Chaste Halloween!
Posted: October 31, 2015 in Chastity, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm Denial
Happy Halloween, everybody! Time for all the ghouls and goblins, and every other scary thing to come out and play! I know one thing of mine that will NOT be coming out to play any time soon… In fact, we did something this week to ensure that won’t be happening for a rather SCARY LONG TIME!! But, I really don’t have a lot of time to write about that today. So consider this a tease (yes, us chaste guys tend to like things like that!) and stay tuned!
Strap-On Some Fun!
Posted: October 27, 2015 in Anal Sex, BDSM, Bedroom Bondage, Bondage, Chastity, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial, Queens Keep, Sex, Strap-On
This past weekend, with Angel and I both feeling particularly horny, we found some time to make sure that HERS was taken care of despite the fact that I would still not be unlocked for my own! Keeping in mind that the last time we had much playtime was following a big fight between us, it was very nice to both be going into this completely relaxed and on good terms with each other!
Angel told me that I was free to do ANYTHING I wanted to her that evening–though of course I was immediately shot down when I said that I wanted to be inside her! 🙂 THAT wasn’t happening. Instead, I started off with the usual routine of getting her warmed up with some orgasms via my fingers, tongue, and of course her magic wand! As things began to heat up a lot, Angel requested that I pay some attention to her ass, as it had been quite a while since we had done anything like that!
To backtrack just a bit, before we went on our little anniversary get-away last month, we had begun playing around with several different sized butt plugs, etc. and found that Angel was really enjoying them! She really wanted to try straight-up anal with ME inside her, but of course that could only be done when I was not locked! Well, when I was out of the Queen’s Keep that weekend, we did in fact try that for the first time ever! I just didn’t write about that aspect of our adventures before, because it didn’t exactly work out quite the way either of us was expecting..
One Year of Chaste Thrills!
Posted: October 24, 2015 in Chastity, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Mature Metal, Orgasm Denial, Queens Keep
It has been one year today since I published my first ever blog post, here on Thrill of the Chaste! It was, and in a lot of ways still is, just a personal little “diary” of my experiences being locked in chastity. I had no real idea what I was doing, or how long I would keep it up. (Minds out of the gutter, I’m talking about the blog! The very purpose of chastity is to make sure something else is NOT up… much! Lol)
The amount of following and feedback I have received since starting this blog has been incredible, and in a word: Thrilling! It is certainly a lot of fun to hear other’s ideas and experiences as well, and to be honest I suspect that in some ways the fact that I HAVE gotten such a following has helped me to keep going with my own writing!
As Angel and I have gotten deeper and deeper into the chastity lifestyle over the past year, it has become even more thrilling than I ever imagined! That in itself makes it very easy to keep writing, because it seems that there is always some new experience to share. I also really enjoy going back myself on occasion to read about what I was doing several months ago, and seeing just how far we’ve come since then!
So thank you again to all of my readers who make it feel like the time I spend writing this blog is worth it! Here’s to one thrilling year down and (hopefully) many more thrills to come! 🙂
P.S. As I was searching for some sort of celebration-themed clipart including some variant of a lock/key to represent chastity, I wasn’t actually finding much out there that I felt like attaching to this post. What I DID find though, was the real set of lock/key champagne flutes that you can see in the picture above. Some day, I may just have to order those for us.. They would be very appropriate, don’t you think? 🙂
The source of that pic as well as the sale page, is here:
Thank You for 100,000 Views!
Posted: October 22, 2015 in Chastity, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm DenialWOW, I have just hit 100,000 page views on my blog! It feels like just a few weeks ago that I wrote about a milestone at 50,000! I’m not going to get really deep into it here, as I will also have a “1-year anniversary” post coming very soon as well, but just wanted to give a quick shout-out and Thank You again to everyone who has been coming to read my writing!
And, as my world-wide readership continues to expand, I now have visitors from a whopping 135 different countries! The U.S. still holds a vast majority of the views to my blog, but I still also welcome everybody else from around the globe! Even if English is not your primary language (I do see the Google Translator fairly often as a “referrer”), I hope you still find my blog interesting and informative!
No End In Sight
Posted: October 6, 2015 in Chastity, Key-Holder, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial, Sex
After a great, romantic get-away last weekend for our anniversary, Angel and I have had to get back into the grind of normal life this past week. The weekend seemed to be especially busy, as we both had different obligations to fulfill so it didn’t feel like we even SAW each other all that much! We did wake up on Sunday morning though, both feeling rather frisky. Being how it hadn’t even been 1 week yet since starting this latest round of chastity, it was a pretty safe bet that I wouldn’t be getting an orgasm any time soon. But that sure didn’t mean that Angel had to do without!
As we started with some heavy petting, and working my fingers to all the right places down her body, it took a little while for Angel to completely let go and enjoy the sensations. She always had one ear tuned for some little footsteps coming down the stairs, since more often than not our 4-year old will end up climbing into bed with us by that time on the weekends! Once it became fairly apparent that he was actually still asleep, she was able to have some fun!
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Birthday / Anniversary Celebration
Posted: September 23, 2015 in Anal Sex, Chastity, Key-Holder, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm Denial
Besides Angel’s birthday coming up here very soon, we will also be celebrating our wedding anniversary within two weeks of that. I wrote a bit on a previous post (Chaste Anniversary Planning) about how we are planning a long weekend out of town, leaving the kids behind this time, so we can have a bit more than just a PG-rated celebration! We are very close now to making this trip, and both of us are extremely excited about what is to come! (No pun intended… or was it?!)
As of today, I have been locked for 42 days so far for this current chastity session. I fully anticipate that I will be out at least part of the time over this weekend (though it is still well within Angel’s power NOT to unlock me, if she so chooses!) so that will probably put me somewhere around 44-45 days total. That’s hardly a record for me, but will easily be well within my top 5 longest durations! This has certainly been one of the more intense periods though, as Angel has been pretty much constantly teasing me and giving me lots to think about–primarily in regards to our upcoming trip! I definitely cannot wait to see this new lingerie she bought herself recently. Apparently it’s a lot more “dirty” (in her words) than what she usually wears, so I’m looking forward to finding out exactly what she classifies as dirty! 🙂
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Courtroom Chastity
Posted: September 18, 2015 in Chastity, Key-Holder, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Mature Metal, Orgasm Denial, Queens Keep
For the first time in my life, I was summoned for Jury Duty this week. It is a very interesting process, which took 2 days just for the selection of twelve jurors and two alternates. In this case I was not chosen in the end, so I did not have to return for day 3.
I was a bit nervous when entering the courthouse on the first day, considering that I would have to pass through metal detectors while wearing a stainless steel chastity device! As I’ve previously written about, I have passed through the detectors numerous times at baseball games with no issues, but I can easily see how they might have the machines calibrated quite a bit tighter here. I even considered asking Angel to unlock me beforehand to make sure I didn’t set off the alarm. I’m sure she would have gone along with that, but the more I thought about it I decided to go ahead and take the risk. What’s the worst that could happen? A security guard would find out about my “situation.” I mean, it’s not like there’s anything illegal going on here!
Thank You for 50,000 Views!
Posted: September 16, 2015 in Chastity, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm DenialI haven’t been watching my stats particularly close lately, but just noticed that I’ve hit 50,000 page views on my blog! I am still rather amazed at just how many people read this, and hopefully get at least a little something out of my experiences! Sometimes it is hard to find the time to really write very much, so the time between posts can fluctuate a lot. But I have certainly still been enjoying putting my thoughts and experiences down on “paper!” As I’ve mentioned before, as long as I still feel that I have something pertinent and worthwhile to say, I will continue to do my best to keep this updated as much as possible.
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Reblogged: The Only Thing Hotter than Perfect Sex is No Sex
Posted: September 10, 2015 in Chastity, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm Denial, SexFor only the second time in over 100 posts, I find it worthwhile to reblog somebody else’s writing into my own blog. I can definitely relate to the detailed description given here about how over time chastity can turn into the “most sublime pleasure imaginable!”
Chaste Anniversary Planning
Posted: August 31, 2015 in Chastity, Key-Holder, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Mature Metal, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial, Queens Keep
Angel’s birthday is coming up towards the end of September, followed shortly after by our wedding anniversary (7 years). To celebrate, this year we have been planning a little getaway, leaving the kids with their grandparents for a long weekend. For us, we have reserved a small condo on a lake, about a 3 hour drive away. We are both really looking forward to having a few full days alone, away from everybody!
It was very cute the other day, when Angel decided to do a little shopping for some new lingerie to take on our trip. Rather than go out to local stores, she decided to do it online this time instead. I didn’t even know she was doing this, until she sheepishly came to me asking if I could show her how to clear all of the search history, etc. from the web browser. She wanted to be sure none of these sites would come up if other family/friends might ever happen to be over and use our laptop for anything! She was also rather worried about the “discreet shipping,” but was pleased when it did come in a completely plain, unmarked package. Angel apparently found two new outfits for herself. She has only given me a preview of one so far, and I know it will look very sexy on her! The other, she says I will have to wait until the trip to see, but has teased that it is a bit “dirtier…” I can’t wait to see what she comes up with!
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