Archive for the ‘Long Term Chastity’ Category


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I had a series of questions from a reader that I wanted to share on here, about Mature Metal Devices and effects of Long Term Chastity on the psyche.  For some background, this actually started on a different forum where a question was raised about the longest period of time that people have been locked in a chastity device.  I shared that I had made it just over 4 full months of being continuously locked (see that story here).  This led to a rather lengthy private conversation with this gentleman (Fantiesiza) about what device I was using and generally how I “dealt with” being locked for that long.  Here are some excerpts of that conversation, reposted with his permission. The quoted parts will be Fantiesiza’s side of the conversation, followed by my responses.

 

Fantiesiza asked:

Hi there,

I have read your comment in a group about longest period without cumming.  You claimed a significant period of time continually locked. 

What type of device is it?  Did you need any time out of the cage for cleaning or stress relief?

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It’s an age-old question, in practically all walks of life. Men all have their opinions of what feels the most comfortable to them, and women all have opinions of what they like to see on their man! So what kind of underwear do YOU prefer: Boxers or Briefs?

Through my teenage years and most of my adult life, personally I always tended to be a Boxers kind of guy. Keep everything loose, free, and able to “breathe!” But when it comes to wearing a chastity device, I can start to see the other side of it too! On one hand, boxers can make it a little bit easier to “reposition” the cage once in a while if it starts getting uncomfortable.  On the other hand though, the closeness and extra support of briefs, can make your chastity feel even more comfortable and secure!

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Something I’ve been working on for a little while lately is trying to compile a list of normal, everyday activities that I engage in (either on a daily basis or just occasionally), which I am also able to do while wearing a chastity device.  I have added this list as a separate “Blog Page” within the side and top menus of my site.

This list is specific to myself, for activities that I have personally engaged in while chaste, but I do welcome comments (on that page, please) from readers with any other experiences you may have had–especially if there is something that you CANNOT do while wearing a device!  For the most part, it seems like my Queen’s Keep does not really prohibit me from doing anything that comes up during my normal, daily routine.

The last point I wanted to make is that this list is primarily for NON-SEXUAL activities, as things that I can/cannot do in that department are fairly obvious–not to mention well documented throughout this blog!  Chastity is somewhat of a unique “kink” (for long-term wearers, at least) given how it extends far outside the bedroom, and into every mundane detail of our lives!

I will update this list periodically, as I think of anything new to add, so feel free to check back once in a while to see what’s different or to let me know about your own experiences!

The full list that I’ve come up with so far can be viewed here:

Chaste Activities

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I recently had a question from a reader regarding Chastity Game Rules; specifically how I actually count time locked vs. unlocked.
Servinghimwithchastity wrote (in response to “Four Months in the Keep“):

A super congratulations! That was a very long time and much longer than we have been able to go, hats off. I believe we are caught up with all your past posts but am wondering what your “game rules” are. We never know how long my hubbie has been “officially” locked. About 2 weeks ago he had an accident right in his cage (my fault), we don’t believe that counts as an unlocking. And about 3 weeks ago I was not having a good day (it happened to land on a bad day of the month 😦 ) and I unlocked him out of anger and told him to give it to me. I wasn’t even warmed up and as he had been locked for a few weeks at that point he lasted exactly 2 pumps and I put his device back on, the whole thing ended up being a lesson but does that count as unlocked? We were thinking it maybe it counts if he sleeps without the device on. I know it’s whatever “rules” you want it to be but if you can post (or point me to where you already posted) your rules of an official unlocking, we would love to follow them! You never know, your rules may become “The Official Rules to Chastity Time Locked”.

Thanks so much for your posts, we always look forward to reading them and get so excited for you and yours.

I hope your release is mind blowing.

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JUST in case you’re wondering, yes–the play on words in my title was very intentional! Four months of being locked in the Queen’s Keep pretty much equates to four straight months of foreplay leading up to the big event that we had this past Saturday night! So yes, I think that the term “fourplay” seems to be most appropriate! 🙂

I wasn’t completely sure if I would be getting out this past weekend or not.  Friday night came and went without much of a word about it.  Saturday, Angel did start hinting quite a bit that she “might” unlock me. Later that night after we had gotten the kids down to bed, we started talking about maybe taking a shower together since we had relatively early plans on Sunday morning and it would be much more difficult to take them while trying to get the kids going at the same time. The reasoning was sound, plus we don’t seem to get many opportunities to actually shower TOGETHER anymore, so of course I was all for that idea!  As she went off to get undressed, Angel also commented that maybe we should also go ahead and get that code for the lockbox (from EmlaLock).
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We’ve done it!  Four full months of being locked 24×7 in the Queen’s Keep with absolutely no release, even for a cleaning! I’d say it’s a good thing I chose one of the more “open” chastity designs, like the Queen’s Keep, otherwise it would be much more difficult to take care of and keep the device from getting rather smelly!  At any rate, I might have been able to get a break from it last weekend after EmlaLock released the keys back to us, except for the fact that Angel decided that as close as we were we should shoot for a full 4 months..  So here we are! My previous record duration of 60 days has been completely shattered (by more than double).  I could try to say it’s been the hardest 4 months of my life (no pun intended!), but it really hasn’t! 
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As I wrote about last week, the EmlaLock session that I had started which kept my keys completely out of reach for a couple months has ended.  We have not yet actually clicked the “End” button and gotten the combination to the lockbox, but Angel now has full say again of when that will happen.  The control is completely back in her hands again, and she has already taken great advantage of that fact!

Based only on recent bedroom talk and knowing our past history, I actually rather expected that Angel would most likely be letting me out sometime this past weekend.  I know that she has been desperately craving the intimate, one-on-one connection between us that only “real” sex seems to be able to fully provide.  Yes, I have been practically bouncing off the walls at times too, wanting my OWN release, but that is completely secondary to HER wants/needs and I wouldn’t have it any other way!

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At last, my session on EmlaLock has reached the end, and the combination to the lockbox holding my keys is now within reach!

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We’re coming down the home stretch! At most, it should only be about 10 more days before EmlaLock reaches the “max time” for my chastity session and releases the combination to the keys, effectively giving Angel full control once again of when I will actually be unlocked. But my feeling is that it will be a little bit earlier than that, so I’m expecting it to hit at some point this coming week! I have told Angel that as well, and she is definitely looking forward to having me out and being able to feel me inside of her again!
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I decided to go back through the records on my Current Status page and add up how many total days I was locked in a chastity device vs. being unlocked during 2015.  I was actually somewhat surprised by the results: For every day that I was free, I spent almost 5 days locked up!

The year ended the same way as it began, with me locked in the Queen’s Keep.  At the beginning of the year, the steel device was brand new to me and that was the very first session where I had turned control of these keys over to Angel.  But she took to it like a fish to water, and started keeping me locked far more than not!
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I had another question from a reader, this one about possible unwanted side effects from engaging in long-term chastity.

🔒🍆🗝👸🏽 wrote:

Hi, I’m an avid follower and love your writing. My wife and I enjoy it as we have much in common with you guys (or as much as can be surmised from your writing) ;).

I know you can lay an issue we have with chastity to rest once and for all, get it from the horses mouth so to speak. We have gone to 20 days in the past and read you can either have difficulty achieving erection or your size of the erection gets diminished with long term chastity. My wife saw this and immediately unlocked me. Now we are going to try for 6 weeks but were hoping you can put our concerns to rest.

Any advice you might have would be wonderful, thanks!

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Well 🔒🍆🗝👸🏽, here’s the deal.  First of all, thank you for the compliment! It is rather flattering to hear that I have an “avid follower!” Lol
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I have to say, that as the days/weeks/months continue to add up for this round of chastity, I have really been noticing just how horny it is making me ALL THE TIME!  This is especially true when I’m with Angel, helping HER to orgasm, but the feeling still continues well past “playtime” too! I have had other lock-up periods where it might eventually subside for a while, and it may have with this round too (a couple months ago) but now has come full-circle and I have a little bit of a hard time getting sex out of my mind! 
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About a year ago, I wrote a little Christmas song about being locked in chastity! Ok, so it’s not like I wrote an entire musical tune from scratch, but I did come up with my own complete set of lyrics that I thought should flow nicely to the tune of the well-known Bing Crosby melody: I’ll Be Home For Christmas.

I’m not going to repeat all of the lyrics here, but they are posted on another page with the new song title: I’ll Be ‘Locked’ For Christmas!

This year, I took it a step further.  I found a free-lance artist online who goes by the name Dying Seed, who was willing to record a track for me of him singing my custom lyrics along with playing his acoustic guitar with it.  It basically follows the Bing Crosby melody, with some minor variation that I had given him the artistic freedom to do as he saw fit.  I was VERY happy with the results! (Thank you, Dying Seed!)
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I have been locked in the Queen’s Keep non-stop now for 76 days, and still counting.  On one hand I am practically climbing the walls with how horny I am, ALL the time! Sometimes, it seems that this is pretty much all I can think about! Angel has been thoroughly enjoying having me in this state, and egging it on even more.  I know she is anxious to have it off as well, but in the mean time she likes to pet me through the cage and comment about how it’s too bad somebody can’t come out and play–which just manages to drive me even more wild! 🙂

This past weekend, I did show Angel the EmlaLock session that is controlling access to my keys, and explained the little calculation error that I made when setting it up.  If she was very disappointed that I will be locked a few weeks longer than we originally thought, she didn’t show it much, and in fact we ended up having some of the hotter rounds of “chaste sex” that we’ve had for a while!  That’s where the other side of the catch-22 comes into play for a chaste man.. While I am extremely horny and want to be released very badly, it still just never gets old watching and feeling Angel as she loses control of her body time and time again, as her orgasms come in huge waves! At that point, I truly don’t even care that I’m not getting a release. I only want HER to have more!
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Due to a little miscalculation on my part (oops!), it looks like I will be spending a few extra weeks in chastity than I had originally thought…

As I’ve previously written about, I have currently been locked in the Queen’s Keep continuously since September 29.  One month into it (on October 29), the combination picture providing access to my keys was uploaded to a new EmlaLock session and set to a random duration.  It was meant to ensure that I would reach a personal lock-up record, but not necessarily much more than that! (more…)


As of this past weekend, I am treading new waters and have reached a personal record as far as length of time being locked continuously in a chastity device! As tracked on my Current Status page, my previous record was 60 days.  As of today, being locked since September 29th, I am at 63 days and still counting!

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Ok, I gave a little teaser post on Halloween, but being how this past weekend was spent mainly focusing on the kids’ fun (as it should be!), now I finally have a chance to sit down and tell about what I was referring to!

I’ve written before about occasionally securing the keys to my Queen’s Keep into a little realtor’s lockbox, and uploading the combination pic to a site like CarliLock for a while.  This takes the control away from both myself AND Angel! The last time we did this, Angel and I sat down together to set up the session and upload the pic, making sure neither of us could ever remember the combination! We had talked briefly from time to time about doing this again, but so far had not done so.  Over the summer, I had suspected that we might do it pretty soon, so I had even gone ahead and set the lock on the box (making sure not to close it) and had the pic file stored in a specific folder on our computer.  I knew that as the weeks/months went on, there was no way I would remember what it was. So as long as I didn’t peek at that file, we would never know!  After our summer vacation, for various reasons we still did not go this route again with the keys, so a random combination has been set on this box for quite some time now!
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Happy Halloween, everybody!  Time for all the ghouls and goblins, and every other scary thing to come out and play! I know one thing of mine that will NOT be coming out to play any time soon…  In fact, we did something this week to ensure that won’t be happening for a rather SCARY LONG TIME!! But, I really don’t have a lot of time to write about that today. So consider this a tease (yes, us chaste guys tend to like things like that!) and stay tuned!


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This past weekend, with Angel and I both feeling particularly horny, we found some time to make sure that HERS was taken care of despite the fact that I would still not be unlocked for my own! Keeping in mind that the last time we had much playtime was following a big fight between us, it was very nice to both be going into this completely relaxed and on good terms with each other!

Angel told me that I was free to do ANYTHING I wanted to her that evening–though of course I was immediately shot down when I said that I wanted to be inside her! 🙂 THAT wasn’t happening. Instead, I started off with the usual routine of getting her warmed up with some orgasms via my fingers, tongue, and of course her magic wand! As things began to heat up a lot, Angel requested that I pay some attention to her ass, as it had been quite a while since we had done anything like that!

To backtrack just a bit, before we went on our little anniversary get-away last month, we had begun playing around with several different sized butt plugs, etc. and found that Angel was really enjoying them! She really wanted to try straight-up anal with ME inside her, but of course that could only be done when I was not locked! Well, when I was out of the Queen’s Keep that weekend, we did in fact try that for the first time ever!  I just didn’t write about that aspect of our adventures before, because it didn’t exactly work out quite the way either of us was expecting..

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It has been one year today since I published my first ever blog post, here on Thrill of the Chaste! It was, and in a lot of ways still is, just a personal little “diary” of my experiences being locked in chastity. I had no real idea what I was doing, or how long I would keep it up. (Minds out of the gutter, I’m talking about the blog! The very purpose of chastity is to make sure something else is NOT up… much! Lol)

The amount of following and feedback I have received since starting this blog has been incredible, and in a word: Thrilling! It is certainly a lot of fun to hear other’s ideas and experiences as well, and to be honest I suspect that in some ways the fact that I HAVE gotten such a following has helped me to keep going with my own writing!

As Angel and I have gotten deeper and deeper into the chastity lifestyle over the past year, it has become even more thrilling than I ever imagined!  That in itself makes it very easy to keep writing, because it seems that there is always some new experience to share.  I also really enjoy going back myself on occasion to read about what I was doing several months ago, and seeing just how far we’ve come since then!

So thank you again to all of my readers who make it feel like the time I spend writing this blog is worth it! Here’s to one thrilling year down and (hopefully) many more thrills to come! 🙂

P.S. As I was searching for some sort of celebration-themed clipart including some variant of a lock/key to represent chastity, I wasn’t actually finding much out there that I felt like attaching to this post.  What I DID find though, was the real set of lock/key champagne flutes that you can see in the picture above.  Some day, I may just have to order those for us.. They would be very appropriate, don’t you think?  🙂

The source of that pic as well as the sale page, is here:

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