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Breaking Out of the CB-6000S

Posted: May 2, 2016 in CB-6000s, CB-xxxx, Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm Denial
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So, that title is actually very literal…  I am currently “out,” because my CB-6000S broke!  I had been doing ok with that device since sending the Queen’s Keep back for some size adjustments, though the CB-6000s is definitely not NEARLY as comfortable as the keep!  The main issue I’d been having for the last week was that all the pieces of the base ring would still keep catching a stray pubic hair every once in a while, and I’d definitly feel it!  I got in there and shaved it as much as possible, but that’s not really the easiest thing to do in chastity without taking the device completely off.

However, Friday night I was woken up at about 3:00 AM feeling like something was really pinching me down there.  At first I thought it was just the hair thing, so I reached down to take care of that.  I couldn’t seem to find any hairs stuck, but over on the right side of the cage it seemed like (somehow) a small piece of actual skin was wedged up into the ring, causing the pinching.  I couldn’t figure out in the dark how that was happening, so ended up getting up to go to the bathroom and investigate.  That’s when I found that it was broken, but not in a way that you would expect of these plastic devices!
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Chastity Bloggers in the News

Posted: April 25, 2016 in Chastity, Fetish, Kinky, Male Chastity, Orgasm Denial
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I came across a recent article from the Huffington Post, titled “How A Male Chastity Device Transformed One Couple’s Marriage.”  [see Link for full article.]  It is about a particular blog which I thoroughly enjoy reading: Male Chastity Journal.  [http://www.malechastityjournal.com]

This is a blog written by BOTH parties in their FLM (Female-Led Marriage).  Caged Lion and Mrs. Lion do an excellent job of writing about their experiences in the male chastity lifestyle from each of their respective perspectives.  What’s even more incredible is that they write extensively, EVERY DAY!  That alone takes a lot of dedication!

canstockphoto32443760It was nice to see the Lions featured in a mainstream publication like this, putting the topic of male chastity out there in a good light!  I know that in many circles this would still be considered a pretty taboo sexual activity, but I really believe that if more people knew about it and about the many benefits that the chastity lifestyle can have throughout an entire relationship, there would be a LOT more people trying it out!  So it’s great to see articles like this helping to spread the word.

Congratulations to Lion & Lioness for the headlines!  Keep up the great writing! 🙂

Queen’s Keep vs. CB-6000s

Posted: April 22, 2016 in CB-6000s, CB-xxxx, Chastity, Fetish, Kinky, Male Chastity, Mature Metal, Orgasm Denial, Queens Keep
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This post is far overdue!  I intended to write up something like this way back towards the beginning of my blog, when I transitioned from wearing a CB-6000s to the Queen’s Keep.  I wanted to give a good side-by-side comparison of the two, but as I got into writing pretty much solely about my experiences in the Queen’s Keep, it kind of dropped off of my radar… Until now!

Now that my Queen’s Keep has been sent back to Mature Metal for some adjustments, and I am back to wearing the CB-6000s again in the interim, I am beginning to remember a lot of the differences between the two devices, and I do already miss being locked in the Keep!  🙂

These items are in no particular order, I pretty much just wrote them down as I thought of them.  This will likely continue to be a work in progress too, so if there are additional things that you would like to know about either/both of these devices feel free to ask!

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New Ring Size/Shape

Posted: April 12, 2016 in Chastity, Male Chastity, Mature Metal, Orgasm Denial, Queens Keep
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I wrote a couple posts ago (Re-sizing the Keep) about how I was beginning to get some pretty bad chafing on the scrotum from the Queen’s Keep.  Trying to work this out with Mature Metal, it seems that over time your body can actually adjust to being in chastity and the device might need to be resized a bit.  I already had a smaller base ring that I had ordered with my original purchase, since I wasn’t entirely sure which size I was going to need.  That one was too tight in the beginning, so I’ve been wearing the larger ring up to this point.  Now, the smaller ring seems to fit better, but the gap size between the ring and the cage was so small that when I put the cage on it felt like my balls were just being crushed in a vice or something…  Not pleasant!
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…Now Back To Your Regularly Scheduled Program

Posted: April 8, 2016 in Chastity, Fetish, Key-Holder, Kinky, Male Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial
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Last week, I did have a few pretty productive days alone while Angel and the boys were out of town visiting some family.  Of course I missed them all very much, but in a lot of ways it WAS a nice break for me as well!  They arrived safely back home very late last Saturday night, and it seems like we’ve all been going pretty much non-stop ever since.  Angel and I have had very little time to even be intimate at all since then, and I for one have been missing THAT too!

Last night I was working down in the basement for a while, and when I came upstairs to get ready for bed I found Angel relaxing in the bathtub, enjoying a nice Jacuzzi bath.  The thing to start with here is that Angel RARELY uses the tub anymore, generally just opting for a quick shower on her way out the door every morning.  When I saw her there, I was immediately struck with just how sexy she looked all stretched out, mostly submerged in the water!
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Left To My Own Devices

Posted: March 31, 2016 in Chastity, Key-Holder, Male Chastity, Mature Metal, Orgasm Denial, Queens Keep
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Angel and the boys went out of town yesterday morning to see some family for a few days.  I don’t have as much vacation time from work as she does, so I had to stay behind, home alone.  I do miss my key-holder very much, especially at night when I have this nice big bed all to myself and nobody to snuggle up into.. 🙁

Of course, Angel knows that she can leave me alone and not have to worry about me having an orgasm or anything like that without her… Or does she?  The thing is, I am actually temporarily unlocked now, though still chaste.  For some reason, I’ve been having a little bit of an issue lately with the Queen’s Keep kind of rubbing/pinching in a bad way, and it has left a pretty bad sore spot sort of right at the base of the penis; right where the bottom edge of the cage rests. (more…)

Hippety Hoppety Lockety… Happy Easter!

Posted: March 27, 2016 in Chastity, Kinky, Male Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial
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Happy Easter, everybody!  Last year around this time, I wrote a post with a fun little pun on the religious aspect of the holiday, being NOT Yet “Risen…”

This time, I thought I’d take a more secular approach and talk about the Easter Bunny instead! 🙂  This year, we opted to take advantage of a service offered by the youth group at a local church, and paid them like $25 to come by the house the night before Easter and drop about 6 dozen candy-filled eggs all over the lawn for the kids to find the next morning.  That was WELL WORTH the money to keep us from having to fill a bunch of eggs ourselves!  Plus we have a fairly small yard, so that was a TON of eggs to try to “hide” and the boys really had a blast running around picking them all up!

It occurred to me that in a way, chastity is kind of like an Easter egg hunt; there seems to be a new little surprise around every corner! 
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Reader Discussion: Fantasies & Cuckolding

Posted: March 16, 2016 in Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm Denial

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I just wanted to quickly share that a couple of new questions came up from a reader over on my Discussion Board, regarding losing interest in a fantasy after an orgasm, and also about cuckolding; both new topics for this blog!  I realize that the discussion board hasn’t really had much activity on since I started it about a year or so ago, so many people probably wouldn’t see it off-hand.  I think this is a good topic for there though, and depending on where it goes I may eventually dive deeper into those subjects with a full post.

In the mean time though, come on over to see what’s being said, and if you have any other insights to offer Chris_sd then feel free to leave your comments there!

Reader Questions: Sleeping In & Security Of the Queen’s Keep

Posted: March 14, 2016 in Chastity, Fetish, Key-Holder, Kinky, Male Chastity, Orgasm Denial, Queens Keep
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In response to my last post answering some general questions about the Queen’s Keep, I had another reader asking for more details about sleeping in chastity as well as security of the Queen’s Keep.

husbandinchastity writes:

Hi again. I’ve been in chastity since early January and the Holy trainer has been great as a starter device. When you are in the Queens keep, can you sleep on your stomach? Do you have any sleeping issues with it on? Can you escape if you tried? How 100% escape proof is your device? I am close to proposing buying one of the devices from mature metal for a few reasons.
My main ones:
– stopping nocturnal erections. I wake up quite a bit with the holy trainer with hard ons.
-the wife is having to unlock me twice a week to clean. With one of these other devices that may not have to happen.
Look forward to your response! Take care!
-J

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Reader Questions: Q&A About Mature Metal and Long Term Chastity

Posted: March 12, 2016 in CB-6000s, CB-xxxx, Chastity, Fetish, Kinky, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Mature Metal, Orgasm Denial, Queens Keep
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I had a series of questions from a reader that I wanted to share on here, about Mature Metal Devices and effects of Long Term Chastity on the psyche.  For some background, this actually started on a different forum where a question was raised about the longest period of time that people have been locked in a chastity device.  I shared that I had made it just over 4 full months of being continuously locked (see that story here).  This led to a rather lengthy private conversation with this gentleman (Fantiesiza) about what device I was using and generally how I “dealt with” being locked for that long.  Here are some excerpts of that conversation, reposted with his permission. The quoted parts will be Fantiesiza’s side of the conversation, followed by my responses.

 

Fantiesiza asked:

Hi there,

I have read your comment in a group about longest period without cumming.  You claimed a significant period of time continually locked. 

What type of device is it?  Did you need any time out of the cage for cleaning or stress relief?

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Chastity: Boxers or Briefs?

Posted: March 6, 2016 in Chastity, Fetish, Kinky, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Mature Metal, Orgasm Denial, Queens Keep
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It’s an age-old question, in practically all walks of life. Men all have their opinions of what feels the most comfortable to them, and women all have opinions of what they like to see on their man! So what kind of underwear do YOU prefer: Boxers or Briefs?

Through my teenage years and most of my adult life, personally I always tended to be a Boxers kind of guy. Keep everything loose, free, and able to “breathe!” But when it comes to wearing a chastity device, I can start to see the other side of it too! On one hand, boxers can make it a little bit easier to “reposition” the cage once in a while if it starts getting uncomfortable.  On the other hand though, the closeness and extra support of briefs, can make your chastity feel even more comfortable and secure!

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Fit to be Tied (part 2)

Posted: March 2, 2016 in BDSM, Bedroom Bondage, Bondage, Chastity, Key-Holder, Kinky, Male Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial, Sex, Strap-On
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Now for part 2 of our weekend adventure (Part 1 can be found HERE).  Our fun started on Thursday night, but then fast-forward to Saturday…  We had a pretty busy morning/early-afternoon, so sex was pretty much off the table outside of some extra teasing and reminding each other of the fun we’d had a couple nights before that!  When Saturday evening came around, Angel already had plans to have a group of girls over to the house for a little party and to binge-watch some new Netflix series that just came out.  Not exactly something I cared to stick around for!  Luckily, I had also managed to acquire a baby-sitter for the boys, and they were going to stay there all night (gotta love having grandparents nearby!)

So that left me free to be out, hanging out with other friends for the evening, and I didn’t hear any more from Angel until almost midnight!  I was sitting over at a friend’s house when the “dirty texting” began…  I missed seeing it for the first few minutes, but essentially the conversation went like this:

11:49 Angel:  I just want you to know I am in bed – lightly clothed
11:54 Angel:  I just made my toes curl!
   [nice, she’s gotten all the way to THAT point now–perfectly willing to take care of herself, whether I’m there or not! She has come SO far in that area since we met!]

11:58 Me:  I’m jealous… be there in 20 mins?
12:00 Angel: Sooner
12:01 Me:  Will try.. keep it warmed up for me 🙂
12:05 Angel: Trying but that is a long time for vibrating

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Fit to be Tied (part 1)

Posted: February 29, 2016 in BDSM, Bedroom Bondage, Bondage, Chastity, Key-Holder, Kinky, Male Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial, Sex
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This will end up being a two-part post, as I just wanted to take a little time to write about a pretty wild weekend that Angel and I just had. It actually began a little bit early, as in last Thursday night!  Angel had to work late into the evening on Thursday, but as a result she also got to take the day off on Friday.  I still had to work on Friday, but that wouldn’t stop us from having some fun!  I knew that Angel was working until around 8:00pm on Thursday, then she and a few co-workers had planned on going out somewhere for a bite to eat.  I managed to get the kids all settled down and off to bed, then naturally my horny mind started wandering.. wondering what kind of “fun” Angel and I might be able to have that night since she didn’t have to get up early for work the next morning!

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Chaste Activities

Posted: February 22, 2016 in Chastity, Kinky, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm Denial, Queens Keep

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Something I’ve been working on for a little while lately is trying to compile a list of normal, everyday activities that I engage in (either on a daily basis or just occasionally), which I am also able to do while wearing a chastity device.  I have added this list as a separate “Blog Page” within the side and top menus of my site.

This list is specific to myself, for activities that I have personally engaged in while chaste, but I do welcome comments (on that page, please) from readers with any other experiences you may have had–especially if there is something that you CANNOT do while wearing a device!  For the most part, it seems like my Queen’s Keep does not really prohibit me from doing anything that comes up during my normal, daily routine.

The last point I wanted to make is that this list is primarily for NON-SEXUAL activities, as things that I can/cannot do in that department are fairly obvious–not to mention well documented throughout this blog!  Chastity is somewhat of a unique “kink” (for long-term wearers, at least) given how it extends far outside the bedroom, and into every mundane detail of our lives!

I will update this list periodically, as I think of anything new to add, so feel free to check back once in a while to see what’s different or to let me know about your own experiences!

The full list that I’ve come up with so far can be viewed here:

Chaste Activities

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Dirty Poetry

Posted: February 16, 2016 in Anal Sex, Chastity, Chastity Poem, Key-Holder, Kinky, Male Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial, Strap-On
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My last post, A Chaste Valentine, described a gift that I had given Angel for Valentine’s Day.  It involved locking myself back into the Queen’s Keep, and giving her the keys again inside of a special card that I created just for the occasion.  Yes, most of that post was pre-written, based on what I PLANNED on doing for Angel for Valentine’s Day.  Once it actually happened, that made it much easier to just get online and publish the post with only minor changes.  What I couldn’t pre-write at all, obviously, was Angel’s reaction to it–which was absolutely phenomenal!

My Valentine’s card for Angel was written, printed, and ready to go, so all I had to do to complete the plan was to lock myself back into the Keep, tape the keys inside the card, and place it somewhere that she would easily find it.  We had some friends over Saturday evening, and Angel had excused herself to go get ready for bed before everyone had even left, so in my head I thought that it should be easy to lock back up before I went to bed, without her noticing it at all.  However, once everybody left and I peeked into the bedroom, Angel was still lying there awake reading a book, so it it was already on to Plan B.  I changed clothes and joined her in bed still unlocked, and therefore did get to enjoy a final little bit of rubbing/teasing on her part before she turned out the lights and rolled over to go to sleep.  I had to lay there for a while to make SURE that she was asleep before I got back out of bed and went into the bathroom to complete my plan..

Being rather excited for what I thought might be coming (which alas, would not be me! Lol), it did take a little while to get myself down to a point of being able to fit back into the cage again.  But eventually I did get it, then I taped the keys to the inside of Angel’s card and left it sitting prominently on the bathroom vanity.  I went back to bed and drifted off to sleep feeling very secure and “home.” Back home where I belonged, in the Keep.

Now HERE’s where the story gets much more fun & interesting!
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A Chaste Valentine

Posted: February 14, 2016 in Chastity, Chastity Poem, Key-Holder, Kinky, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial, Romance, Sex, Walking Dead
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Happy Valentine’s Day, everybody! Yes, it’s supposed to be the most “romantic day of the year,” yada-yada.  Angel and I never really do a whole lot on this day.  To be honest, the most exciting part of today that we’re both looking forward to is the return of the “Walking Dead” later this evening! 🙂 And I’ll even go out on a limb and predict a special little surprise for Rick’s little sweetheart here on this Valentine’s Day! Don’t worry, that’s not exactly a spoiler–it could be a good or bad surprise! Lol

canstockphoto16905256Anyhow, I’m not here to talk about zombies! In REAL life, one “gift” I gave Angel today was the keys back to my Queen’s Keep, securely locked back where it belongs.  To go along with it, I created Angel a very custom card (take that, Hallmark!) with a handful of little poems that I wrote for her, very specific to chastity and key-holding.  Some are admittedly rather cheesy, but I figured I’d go ahead and share them here anyway…

 

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Birth Control

Posted: February 11, 2016 in Birth Control, Chastity, Key-Holder, Male Chastity, Orgasm Denial, Queens Keep
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About a day before I was let out of the Queen’s Keep this last time, Angel and I were at an event downtown with several of our friends.  About half way through it, Angel caught up with me and told me about how she and one of my friend’s wives had been talking in general about kids, etc. and the question came up about whether we planned on having any more or if we were stopping with our two boys.  Angel told her that she thought we were “probably done.” The friend went on to state the fact that if we haven’t yet taken measures to KEEP from getting pregnant again, you NEVER know! Angel had to chuckle to herself and secretly say that “if your husband is locked in a chastity cage, then you DO know it won’t be happening!”
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Living on the Edge

Posted: February 8, 2016 in Chastity, Kinky, Male Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial
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I have been unlocked for a little over a week so far (9 days, currently).  The last time I was free for this long was some time way back in July 2015! It really does almost feel strange NOT wearing a cage, as I’ve been so used to that constricted feeling for such a long time.

Over the past week when I wake up in the middle of the night next to my sleeping Angel, I notice that I’m still horny as hell, but unlike when I’m locked I actually have something to “show” for it! 🙂  I have given Angel control of when I can have an orgasm, so that’s not going to change just because I’m not locked at the moment.  But, being how I suddenly AM able to at least touch myself down there, I have not been able to resist the temptation to stroke “just a little bit…”  Several times, I have managed to bring myself right to the brink of an orgasm, then stop.  A few minutes later (if I haven’t fallen back asleep by then!) I might do the same thing again..
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Reader Question: Chastity Game Rules

Posted: February 4, 2016 in Chastity, Long Term Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial, Queens Keep
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I recently had a question from a reader regarding Chastity Game Rules; specifically how I actually count time locked vs. unlocked.
Servinghimwithchastity wrote (in response to “Four Months in the Keep“):

A super congratulations! That was a very long time and much longer than we have been able to go, hats off. I believe we are caught up with all your past posts but am wondering what your “game rules” are. We never know how long my hubbie has been “officially” locked. About 2 weeks ago he had an accident right in his cage (my fault), we don’t believe that counts as an unlocking. And about 3 weeks ago I was not having a good day (it happened to land on a bad day of the month 🙁 ) and I unlocked him out of anger and told him to give it to me. I wasn’t even warmed up and as he had been locked for a few weeks at that point he lasted exactly 2 pumps and I put his device back on, the whole thing ended up being a lesson but does that count as unlocked? We were thinking it maybe it counts if he sleeps without the device on. I know it’s whatever “rules” you want it to be but if you can post (or point me to where you already posted) your rules of an official unlocking, we would love to follow them! You never know, your rules may become “The Official Rules to Chastity Time Locked”.

Thanks so much for your posts, we always look forward to reading them and get so excited for you and yours.

I hope your release is mind blowing.

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No More FourPlay!

Posted: February 1, 2016 in Chastity, Key-Holder, Kinky, Long Term Chastity, Male Chastity, Mature Metal, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial, Queens Keep
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JUST in case you’re wondering, yes–the play on words in my title was very intentional! Four months of being locked in the Queen’s Keep pretty much equates to four straight months of foreplay leading up to the big event that we had this past Saturday night! So yes, I think that the term “fourplay” seems to be most appropriate! 🙂

I wasn’t completely sure if I would be getting out this past weekend or not.  Friday night came and went without much of a word about it.  Saturday, Angel did start hinting quite a bit that she “might” unlock me. Later that night after we had gotten the kids down to bed, we started talking about maybe taking a shower together since we had relatively early plans on Sunday morning and it would be much more difficult to take them while trying to get the kids going at the same time. The reasoning was sound, plus we don’t seem to get many opportunities to actually shower TOGETHER anymore, so of course I was all for that idea!  As she went off to get undressed, Angel also commented that maybe we should also go ahead and get that code for the lockbox (from EmlaLock).
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