The Happiest Place On Earth?

Posted: July 28, 2017 in Chastity, Fetish, Key-Holder, Kinky, Male Chastity, Orgasm Denial, Sex


Last week, we just returned from our second little vacation for the summer, back to Florida again. This one was a family vacation with the kids though–quite different than the trip Angel and I were able to take last month by ourselves!

For this trip we did the whole Disney thing for a couple of days (first time for the boys), after which we planted ourselves on the beach for the last half of the week. It was fun, don’t get me wrong. And the boys were definitely very excited for many of the rides, getting to meet some of their favorite characters, etc. But on the other hand it can get very frustrating dealing with kids “world is ending” type of problems every day while on vacation.. I love them dearly, but travelling with them can make me want to pull out what little hair I have left! 🙂

But I digress. The point of this story as it relates to chastity is that I was NOT in chastity for most of last week! I knew Angel had picked up a key before we left the house, it was just unclear if/when she would want to use it. Turns out, she was a little bit afraid of me possibly being stopped at the metal detectors at the gates to Disney World.

For myself, I wasn’t particularly worried about this. I’ve been through enough detectors at baseball games and even the county courthouse that I’m pretty comfortable now with going through them wearing my Jail Bird. IF I ever do get stopped, I’m prepared with a couple of explanations to the security guard.. First being that it’s just “body jewelry.” Hopefully in most instances that would be sufficient to be let on through. Second is the little card I keep in my wallet now with a more verbose description of exactly what I’m wearing, as I described on this post:

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That would probably be TMI for most security folks, but again HOPEFULLY it would be enough to convince them that I’m harmless and they would just let me through. Worst case, if they actually wanted a visual inspection then I suppose I wouldn’t have much choice there. But especially being that we were going with a lot of family (9 people total), Angel just didn’t want to risk being stopped and having everyone wonder why I wasn’t being let through quickly. That’s understandable, and Angel is still in control of when I’m unlocked, so it was completely her call anyway!

I unlocked on Sunday morning, right before we left for the park. This was the first time out for more than just a few minutes, in several months! I have to say, it does feel rather strange these days walking around WITHOUT a chastity device now that I’ve been in one for so long! But we made it through the day, and got back to our condo very late that night. Knowing that we were getting up early the next day to do the same thing again, I didn’t bother to put my Jail Bird back on. The next day though, I was pushing a stroller through the line so the security guard just took a peek around/under the stroller then waved me right on through, AROUND the metal detectors. So that day I know that I definitely could have gotten through without any alarms, but there was no way to have known that ahead of time.

After our second day at Disney, the next morning we would be packing up and driving to a beach resort for the rest of the week. I knew that Angel might want to sneak in a little bit of “play” at some point while we were there, so since I was already unlocked I decided to just leave it like that until if/when Angel asked me to put the cage back on. Still, it was taking a little while to get used to the feeling of being “free” again for that long!

The hardest part, honestly, was resisting the urge to get all touchey/feeley with myself when the mood would strike! Of course, kids took care of that “mood” most of the time! Lol But sometimes alone in the shower… or waking up early with some major morning wood… Yep, even after months of lock-up, I am still a man and everything still works! 🙂 I just couldn’t really help myself sometimes from grabbing, rubbing, and getting myself sooo close. But not all the way over the edge. I could not bring myself to do that without Angel’s knowledge and permission, even though I had to REALLY clench up and hold myself back to keep it from happening a couple of times!

One morning near the end of the week Angel and I did wake up early (before any kids were barging into the room) and had a little time to help each other out in that regard. Angel teased me for quite a while with her hands and mouth before finally pulling me on top of her and ordered me inside! Naturally with all of that build-up on top of what I’d already been giving myself during the week, it didn’t last particularly long, but did feel oh so amazing!

canstockphoto8149779It’s always just enough to give me a small taste to remember what I’m missing out on once I’m back to being locked up again for weeks or months at a time! But then when it’s over, and I’m back down from that small high, it’s also enough to realize yet again just how much better Angel’s orgasms are than my own! With hers I can stay on the edge and ride wave after wave right along with her. With mine, I get to the edge, jump over it for a few seconds of thrilling free-fall, then fall rather flat.

The next day after that last little experience was when we had to pack everything up and start heading back home. I woke up before Angel again, still hard as can be. I knew that I couldn’t keep that going indefinitely so it was time to go back into the cage. It took several minutes to get myself settled down enough to squeeze back into it, but then I laid back down next to Angel to wait for the alarm to start going off.

Snuggling up into Angel that morning and every day since, with HER dick locked safely away in the Jail Bird, I am much more content and at home than I was during that 6-day grace period. We may have paid a visit to Disney, which many deem as the “Happiest Place On Earth,” but not for me! MY happy place is anywhere right next to Angel, with my pleasure or lack thereof (sexually speaking, anyway) completely under her control!

  1. ancilla ksst says: just got back from vacation with kids too. I went through the metal detector over and over, taking off more and more things until I had to get the pat down and they were asking if I was wearing any other metal. And I don’t even have piercings or anything like that! I’m not sure what it was. I had my collar on, but they weren’t worried by that because they could see it.

  2. pcguy! Fascinating to read about your adventures in the chastity lifestyle. We too use the jailbird regularly, but it is off now for the summer months – it is just too hot where we live to handle the challenges involved in a full summer lockup

    Amazing to read about your take on metal detectors and the card that you carry around. Thanks so much for the advice!

    Best regards, Cruella

    • pcguy0681 says:

      Hi Cruella,
      Thank you very much for reading, and for the comments! I don’t know where you’re from exactly or just how hot it does get there, but yes I can see how sometimes getting too hot could affect the ability to remain locked up for too long of periods. It does get pretty hot here as well in the summer (90-100 deg F pretty regularly). But if/when that starts leading to a bit of chafing down there I remedy it fairly easily with some baby oil gel. It doesn’t take much, and the kind with aloe in it really helps clear up the skin quickly as well. I find that I can go pretty much indefinitely as long as I keep an eye on things and take a little bit of extra care once in a while! 🙂

      You have a very fun blog going there as well! I always enjoy reading from the perspective of a Domme, and it’s great how you can just speak so freely about all things “kink” like it’s just normal conversation while having a cup of coffee with your friends. Heck I don’t even drink coffee, but I’d love to sit down and have one with you, to hear more of your stories! 🙂 It’s a shame that there’s still such a stigma about this lifestyle in most circles that people would just blush at the thought of any of their vanilla friends finding out what they enjoy doing in the bedroom!

  3. HappilyLockedMan says:,
    I’m so glad I found your blog a few weeks ago. I’ve read all your past entries and was happy to see a new one. My wife and I got started in chastity about three months ago so we are still fairly new at it. I’m usually locked up 24/7 and feeling very happy with how our relationship is evolving and improving. I’m eagerly awaiting a nylon custom cage from CustomChastity. A few days ago a little irritation started under my balls so I asked my wife if it was OK if I took my steel cage off for a while. Of course, she said, as she lifted the gold chain off her neck. I found that my hand (totally on its own) was often down there stroking. I was definitely tempted to go all the way to a solo release but that would have been so contrary to what I’ve been committed to. After a day free the irritation was healed. I went to her and said “I need to be locked up again”. She asked “Are you healed up?” Then she handed me the key. When the cage was back on I felt a sense of … release from sexual urgency. I welcomed it.

    • pcguy0681 says:

      Thank you very much, and welcome to my blog. I’m glad you are enjoying it! If you have any questions about anything, feel free to drop a note–I always welcome more topics to write about! 🙂 And good luck with your own journey as well, the longer you go that “need” to be locked will only grow stronger!

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