Reblog: On Ballroom Dance, Domspace, and Platonic Power Exchange

Posted: July 21, 2017 in BDSM, Fetish, Kinky

I may add more of my own thoughts on this topic some other time, but I love this post and just wanted to share it here as it fits quite well in my own life as well!

Annamarie in the Middle

dancing shoes

Last semester, on a whim, I took a ballroom dance class. I’ve always enjoyed partner dances and social dancing, but I’d never really learned any vocabulary. In my dance class, our teacher let us pick our dance roles- leader or follower- regardless of gender or any other trait, which I thoroughly appreciated. I decided to be a lead, also kinda on a whim. I think my whole thought process was “I want to dance with pretty girls!” At the time, it didn’t feel like a big deal, since the teacher was cool with it and we have a handful of other female-presenting leads in the class.

The other day, I showed up to dance class tired and grumpy. My teacher corrected my positioning, which is literally her job and she was perfectly polite about it, but it didn’t help with the grumpiness. I went to dance with a friend of…

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  1. thechastecyclist says:

    Interesting take on the topic. I’ve been thinking about the same issue as it relates to our power exchange here.


    • thechastecyclist says:

      We have the chastity piece well in hand whether locked or through devotional sex. However, MrsL still ebbs and flows with being in charge. Here recently, I’ve let my “bratty” side come to the fore trying to coax out her dominant side more. I’m getting those looks…now for the action.


  2. naughtynora says:

    Thank you for sharing, pcguy! I am excited to have found another great blog to follow!


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