Reblogged: Keyholder’s Control

Posted: August 4, 2015 in Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm, Orgasm Denial


I came across this post, and for the first time it seemed to be appropriate to “reblog” somebody else’s writing into my own blog. Angel and I just had a very similar conversation to this, in terms of planning for this coming Wednesday night when we will be kid-free for the evening. We are already planning a good session with the Magic Wand (yes, it will be strapped to her this time, so my hands can be free for other things!) and I’m thinking a little more play with her new butt plug will also be in order!

Anyway, as it relates to this post, Angel mentioned that the only question will be whether or not she decides to let ME out for an orgasm, or keep waiting all the way until her birthday in late September as we’ve discussed before. Both ideas are very exciting to me so I have told her it is completely her call! Even just this morning, as I kept hitting the snooze button to put off getting ready for work while I snuggled up behind Angel in bed, I told her that (not that my vote matters here) but at that moment I would have to say I’d like to just keep this feeling going until her birthday. On the other hand, I’m sure that in the heat of the moment on Wednesday night I will really want to be out! So that decision is really best to be left completely up to her!

I identified a lot with Rhea’s comments below in that I am choosing chastity, therefore I am choosing to let my keyholder (wife) have that control. If SHE wants me to orgasm, then I will orgasm! If she wants to deny me then I will be denied. If that ever gets to be too much for me, then I know we’ll need to start a conversation about whether or not to continue with the chastity “game” altogether!

All of that being said, when we both agree to it I also think there’s still something a little extra hot to lock up the keys and put the combination under the control of a site like CarliLock or similar. That takes the control and need for will-power out of BOTH of our hands for a while! I have a feeling something like that could be in the near future for me again as well..


  1. Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this subject. I really am interested in seeing how other people view this, because as I stated, I personally think the keyholder should be entirely in control.

    It will be very interesting to see what Angel chooses to let you do, considering everything that will be going on Wednesday. I just got done reading your post talking about her newest adventures into anal play, and I can totally relate to where she’s coming from with all of her feelings in this. You’ll definitely have to update us and let us know what happens. 🙂

    I would also like to say thank you so much for the reblog. It means a lot to me.


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