Posted: May 2, 2015 in Bedroom Bondage, Bondage, Chastity, Male Chastity, Mature Metal, Queens Keep


I experienced my first ever “chastegasm” on Friday night. I know that’s not really a word, but I’m going to use it here anyway for lack of a better term! Heck, I will even give it a definition, to make it official. (If Webster picks this up in a few years, remember that you heard it here first! Lol)

Chastegasm:  Achieving sexual orgasm while direct genital stimulation is not possible due to presence of a chastity belt/device.

So now that THAT is out of the way, here’s what went down… Friday morning Angel was able to “sleep in” more than usual since she had an appointment that morning so was taking a 1/2 day from work. Our 3 year old had already gotten up and climbed into bed with us but being how he was preoccupied with Angel’s phone, that didn’t stop her from reaching over under the sheets to start fondling the cage & balls, etc. She did this for quite some time and had me extremely turned on. She said that she wanted to make sure I was thinking about her ALL day, and you can bet I was!

Fast-forward to that evening. Angel was out running some errands most of the evening while I was home working on the house.  After getting everything cleaned up for the night I let Angel know that I was heading to bed (she was upstairs doing some work in the office). Laying there, still thinking about Angel, I had this urge again to engage in a little bit of “self-bondage” and leave a little surprise for her!

I proceeded to strip down, and started with placing Angel’s magic wand between my legs for her use later! Then I strapped my legs tightly together to help hold it in place.  I had one strap down around my ankles, another by my knees, and yet another around my upper thighs, so there wasn’t much chance of it going anywhere!  I pulled the sheet up over the top of me as much as I could, then finished off with a blindfold and worked my way into the wrist cuffs attached to the bed and got those cinched down as snugly as I could.  Then it was pretty much a waiting game, until Angel came downstairs to “find” me! Oh, and before losing my hands, I also went ahead and turned on the magic wand, on low.  It was hovering just over the cage, so I couldn’t feel it too much unless I thrust my body up into it. That felt nice, but there was still not nearly enough stimulation to actually do much..

I only had to wait about 20-30 minutes, I think. When Angel did come downstairs she was getting pretty tired and ready for bed, but upon finding my little surprise she was ready to take advantage of it! She stripped down as well and climbed aboard for a ride. It wasn’t long at all before she was having her first “mini-orgasms” of the night. She cranked the magic wand up to its High setting, and that’s when trouble started to happen! When she re-mounted it, the wand was pressed up right on top of my cage, vibrating away VERY strongly.  I was also talking to Angel about being able to “feel” myself inside her and seeing how she could virtually feel the same thing, when suddenly I did actually feel a “real” orgasm building for myself! This isn’t really anything new, as I fairly frequently feel like I’m about to have one while Angel is keeping me locked and getting off herself. I end up having my own vicariously through hers! This was a little bit different though. The feeling was extremely strong, and I almost DID feel like I might just come right through the cage! I told Angel this and asked what would happen if I came then, but got no response from her as she was already in the middle of her own biggest orgasm of the night.

As Angel came down from her high, I did as well, and thought that was the end of it. However, after being untied and getting a better look at things I truly did have quite a large load seeping right through the bars of the Queen’s Keep! It seemed like I really did have a full-blown orgasm, even while locked up and (though hard) only being about 1/3 or less the size of a normal erection! THAT had sure never happened to me before! I felt good, but not really any different than when I have my normal “virtual orgasms” coinciding with Angel’s.  It certainly didn’t really feel the same as when I am unlocked and actually allowed a true orgasm!

So there we have it.  For the sake of this blog (at least for now) my word of the day to describe what happened last night is “Chastegasm.” It was a new phenomenon for us, so we will have to wait and see if anything similar ever happens again!

  1. Matthew Vett says:

    Damn, that’s pretty hot… I’m not usually into that sort of thing, but that sounds like fun.

  2. I like Lady Eiluj’s view. Your body adapts. It will find a way. Weather it be through the pleasure of others, or through a ruined orgasm, that’s what this was. Your chastity situation did not change, you did not have much of an after glow, Your mindset\high about being in chastity didn’t go away, and you did not have a full sense of satisfaction. Ejaculating is different than having an orgasm. You ejaculate during an orgasm, but you don’t need an orgasm to ejaculate. Those are called ruined orgasms and that’s what you had. She IS that good, she is still in control as to when you are allowed to have those and they are still not nearly as good as the real thing.. She should be proud!

  3. Lady Eiluj says:

    I’m curious, I know your wife decides if and when you can be “let out” therefore semi controlling when you cum. Did it bother her that you had cum in this manner without her say so? Mind you don’t think either of you had control under the circumstances!
    Was it as satisfying for yourself?

    • pcguy0681 says:

      That is a great question! At least in this case, Angel really did not seem to mind at all. In fact when she saw it, her first words were something along the lines of “Damn, I’m THAT good!” 🙂

      You’re right, neither of us really had any control over it this time, and I didn’t even realize it had happened to that extent, until after the fact. Now that we know it’s possible, I suspect that if I were doing this completely on my own she may not be the most happy about it; but accidents are a different story. And I really don’t think I ever WOULD do that by myself, because to answer the last part of your question: No, it was not as satisfying for myself. Since Angel was having an orgasm at the same time, it just felt the way I normally feel with that sort of deep connection with HER, but without that it would be nothing. It was also nothing like when I am unlocked and having a FULL orgasm, so in general I think I would pass on doing this intentionally.

      Thank you for reading!

      • Lady Eiluj says:

        It proves how you body has changed by reacting to different stimuli ie your deepening connection with Angel. I think its a wonderful thing you two have going on and would love to be able to experience this for myself ….some day!

  4. Domina Jen says:

    My husband has those when he’s horny enough and I use my wand on him. We never had a word for it, though. I’m totally using that word from now on!

    • pcguy0681 says:

      Sweet, be my guest! I am very curious now to see if/how much the word sticks, and if I start seeing it turn up in anybody else’s writings now! 🙂

  5. Annie B says:

    What a GREAT word and a wonderful post.

  6. agatagrop says:

    Nice. Hope I’ll see my boy having the same experience

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