My, how things can change/evolve over time! When Angel and I first got together years ago she was so sweet and innocent, and loved nothing more than just the two of us laying in bed all afternoon, enjoying each other’s bodies, skin-on-skin, feeling me inside of her as often as possible. That sweet, sensuous woman is definitely still around, but ever since the day that I introduced her to the concept of male chastity, Angel has come around to be MUCH more dominant in the bedroom! As much as she still LIKES the feel of me inside her, at this point she can just as easily say NO to me getting out of the chastity device, and instead focus on a myriad of other ways to bring her pleasure!
My own outlook seems to be ever changing as well. It’s like the more I am locked in chastity the more I WANT to be! Back in the day when I first experimented with chastity on my own, it was always fun and I could go a while without letting myself out, but probably at least every week or two it would have to come off for an orgasm. Now, with Angel controlling the keys it has become commonplace to go weeks and even months at a time between releases. After finally getting an orgasm, I do tend to get a little antsy for another fairly quickly. But then once locked again, especially after a couple weeks or so have gone by, I generally don’t even care anymore when my next one will be.
It’s like my brain has been rewired to want only to please Angel, in any way possible. 99% of the time when we’re snuggling in bed, I’m not even up with my head at the same level as hers on the pillow. I’m usually curled up much lower than that, either nuzzling into her nice boobs, or even further down her body–sometimes all the way down to her feet! My absolute favorite place in the world is having my head buried between Angel’s legs, feeling, hearing, and TASTING as she responds to my tongue flitting about her most sensitive parts!
I know that sometimes Angel still feels a little bit bad, like she’s “taking advantage of me” or not letting me out of my cage often enough. But when that comes up I always assure her that that’s not the case at all. I’ve tried to describe it to her that (at least sexually speaking) I do just feel that my status is that of being lower than her. Beneath her. I’m sure she finds those kind of words to generally be somewhat degrading, and doesn’t want to view me in that context. I know the more official “technical” term would be that I am just very much a submissive to her, and I have said that too. I was just trying to find some other way to more fully describe how I feel with her.
I also consider myself to be very lucky to have found such a wonderful woman who not only “tolerates” my little kinks but has come such a long way towards embracing many of them herself! Watching her grow into more of a Domme role over the past few years has been very rewarding! She now (only half jokingly) even refers to herself as my Mistress. She doesn’t like to be called “Ma’am,” as she feels that should be reserved for older women than her, but she definitely smiles from ear to ear when I call her my Mistress! Almost every morning now when we wake up I will snuggle into her and say “Good morning, Mistress!” It’s just a nice little way to start our day; another thing that a year ago I probably never would have dreamed would now be “normal” for us!
Do any of my readers have any suggestions on a term that might work for this type of situation? Any names that you like to be called, as a submissive? Or for the Dom-types out there, what do you like to call YOUR submissives? Bonus points for sort of a double entendre which could even be used in a more “vanilla” setting, leaving people to wonder just what exactly Angel means by what she calls me! 🙂