I know that today is not a holiday for many of my readers outside of the U.S., but to all Americans I want to say Happy July 4th! The day we celebrate Independence… The day we celebrate Freedom… But wait, this is a blog about Chastity, so I’m sure you can tell the direction this is heading! 🙂
There is one area of my life where I am NOT currently “Free.” Still being locked in the Queen’s Keep, I am not free to orgasm on my own, without Angel knowing and allowing it! (And looking at the results of my recent poll, it seems that quite a few others reading this are in the same state as me!) To anyone who has never experienced chastity (from either side of it), it might seem to be absolutely crazy that someone would voluntarily be kept locked up like that. But, being locked provides a whole new perspective of “Freedom!”
First and foremost, I am very happy to live in a country where I am free to choose to participate in this lifestyle. I chose to be locked up and to give Angel the keys to my chastity device as well as complete control over when it comes off & when I am allowed to orgasm. Likewise, Angel has chosen to accept the keys and the control! I know at first she did it just to play along with the “game” that I put in front of her, but now she has seen the benefits first-hand for herself! Now, on a rare occasion if we go several days with me being unlocked, she starts to miss it about as much as I do! Either of us are also free to STOP playing at any time. For Angel, of course, if she were to get tired of playing she would likely just give me the keys back and tell me she was done.. It would probably take a little bit longer to get her to give up the keys if I were ever truly done, given how long it took to convince her that I really do WANT her to have the keys and to say “No!” But I think that’s just where good communication with your partner comes in. If there was ever something wrong where I NEEDED to come out, or I just really wasn’t feeling good about playing with it anymore, I’m fairly sure it would only take a pretty short conversation before she’d let me out.
Beyond just having the choice to experience chastity, being locked provides other freedoms all on its own! It has a way of freeing the mind.. On one hand yes, I do spend a LOT of time thinking about Angel, about the fact that I’m locked up, and about sex in general (who doesn’t? Lol). But at the end of the day I really don’t have to worry about ANY of that! When Angel is horny and wanting sex, I know that she will get it started. And I know that I will be able to help her to orgasm after orgasm, whether or not I ever come out of the cage! I don’t have to worry about “lasting” long enough for her. I am there for HER pleasure first, and her pleasure very quickly becomes MY pleasure as well! It might seem counter-intuitive to some, but there really is something very “Freeing” about that, even (or especially!) when I go weeks at a time watching Angel have all of the orgasms for both of us while my own continue to be denied.
So whether you celebrate freedom within your country or other freedoms that you may have even given up in the context of personal relationships, go out and enjoy your independence and your freedom! Go out and enjoy some fireworks and/or find that special someone in your life and make your own! 🙂
Oh, and anybody reading this who hasn’t yet left a response for my poll, please do! I have been getting some very interesting results so far and will probably write about them sometime soon!Take Our Poll