We were driving home from the in-laws house the other night following some very busy, tiring days of Christmas activities. Angel looked over and asked if I was “too tired” or not. Of course I knew what she was referring to, and let her know I’d be up for whatever she had in mind! She was happy about that and made it a point to say that I wouldn’t be getting out that night though, because she hasn’t been taking her birth control recently. (We just had our newest baby recently and chances are that might be it for us.. Keeping options open for now though!) It’s always fun seeing her take advantage of the control I’ve given her and to blatantly deny me like that. It was interesting though, hearing her throw that out as a “reason” to deny me that night!
It got me thinking. I’ve written before about Chastity as a Game, and Chastity as a Lifestyle, but Chastity as a form of birth control? I’d say YES! Great idea! Traditionally speaking, even as far as other birth control options have come these days the only 100% effective way to not get pregnant (outside of a tubal or vasectomy) is with complete abstinence.
Per Webster, abstinence is defined as:
the practice of not doing or having something that is wanted or enjoyable : the practice of abstaining from something
Abstaining from sex, obviously, means no chance of pregnancy! So where does chastity fit into that? On the surface, one might think that being locked in a chastity device ALSO means practicing abstinence from sex. But I disagree! In fact I would venture to say that Angel and I might even have MORE sex when I’m locked than when I’m not! Some might argue that “Chaste Sex” isn’t really sex at all, but again I would disagree! In my experience even when I’m not having a full orgasm myself, being able to help HER to orgasm is just as good and even better than my own. And when we’re finished I am generally both exhausted and completely satisfied (as is she). If that kind of intimacy isn’t “sex,” then I don’t know what is!
In short, I do believe that chastity is a very effective form of birth control. Angel and I can have all the sex we desire but since I’m not actually inside her it’s 100% sure not to result in another pregnancy! It’s like abstinence, but without the actual “abstaining” part! 🙂 hmmm… It’s almost a surprise that teenagers haven’t taken off with that concept yet!