About Me

Hi, I’m pcguy. Don’t ask where the name came from, it’s just an alias/username I’ve had for various things through the years.

I’ve had a very strong interest in Male Chastity for quite some time, and have been personally engaging in the activity for several years. What started as a “solo” thing turned very real for me when I eventually brought it up to my wife (Angel), and over time she has begun to get on board as my key-holder! In late 2014, I started the process of making a giant step from cheaper, plastic chastity devices to a custom stainless steel device, built to my own specific measurements.

I decided to start this blog as sort of a personal “diary” of my experiences at this new level of chastity play. I was very pleasantly surprised to find that within a month of starting it up I already had a number of “followers” regularly reading my new posts, and quite a lot of views of my blog from several countries around the world!  Who knew, there would be that many people interested in what I have to say, about a very niche topic!

Over the months/years since I began writing, my number of readers has continued to grow steadily, for which I am very grateful!  So to anybody visiting my little corner of the internet, I want to say Thank You for stopping by! The frequency of my posts might vary sometimes, but as long as I feel like I still have relevant things to share I will certainly keep on writing it down!

If you have just recently stumbled across my blog and have no idea what male chastity is all about or why anybody might actually want to engage in it (which is one of the most frequent questions that I am asked!), please start with this post which explains much of my own perspective on the topic.  And as always, if you have any other questions besides that, feel free to ask!




  1. Hello pc,
    I haven’t had an opportunity to read all of your posts so if this question has already been asked and answered please point me to it and I apologize for not having gotten there yet.


    • pcguy0681 says:

      Hi, WTF- Thank you for reading! I’m sorry for the delayed response, as that IS a very good question; just one that I wasn’t entirely sure at first how to best answer in a single comment thread. From a very high-level view of things, the “WHY” is just for the many “Thrills” of being chaste, which really is what my entire blog is about. If you read very much of it, I think you will quickly see the joys that chastity brings to both myself and my key-holder. To be more specific, and another reason that it took me so long to respond to your question, my very latest post from this morning (Dirty Poetry) kind of addresses this question specifically. So please feel free to take a look at that as well as any of my other posts, and if you have any other general questions about male chastity (anything from foreplay to a 24/7 lifestyle), feel free to ask! I am always willing to share my personal experiences/opinions, and I know there are other readers here as well who are also deeply involved in it and might be willing to share!

      Thanks again,

  2. Simon Bee says:

    This is a great blog. The post in particular that raised my interest was the one about “solo chastity” because I was in similar situation for 500 days before my Queen came along, and was kind enough to take control of my orgasms. The biggest difference of course being I did mine without a device.

    Keep on writing, and naturally, keep chaste! In case you’re interested I too came to the conclusion it would be a good idea to keep a blog about my discoveries during my voyage. Being denied of orgasms for a prolonged amount of time really is one of the few great experiences a man can have in this life.

    Mine is called “Chaste Diary” and you can find it at:


  3. wow! i like learning about new things!

  4. Hey, I just wanted to let you know that I nominated you for the Blogger’s Recognition Award. Here’s a link to the post if you’d like to see it: https://ananonymousoutsider.wordpress.com/2015/09/30/bloggers-recognition-award/

  5. TheLifeBot says:

    All I can really say is how do you stand it? I can’t last a few days without sex.

    • pcguy0681 says:

      Ah, that is part of the beauty of chastity, and I think a common misconception about it as well! The way I see it, I generally DON’T go more than a few days without sex. In fact, we have sex much MORE frequently now that I am locked most of the time! The only part missing, is penetration and, of course, my orgasm. But the other things I get to experience with Angel now, and the way she keeps me right on the edge of orgasm for so long, makes it so worth it! 🙂

      • TheLifeBot says:

        I am pleased you enjoy it. Far be it from me to comment on others interests but I don’t think I would find this to my taste. My kinks lie in other directions. I will still follow your blog with interest.

  6. E.Ng says:

    Hello pcguy! Indeed you have a very interesting subject in your blog

  7. Hey pcguy,
    I just read your last 6 posts. I was immediately drawn to your lifestyle and in how you pen content. Just enough to absorb the moments thoughts but to leave a desire for more. Gift of writing. I did not like or comment on any of the 6 read. Reason being, I would like to start at the beginning and catch up. I look forward to reading, liking and commenting. Cheers

    • pcguy0681 says:

      Hi, Antony-
      That is very nice, thank you so much! I’d never really considered myself that much of a writer before, so it still kind of surprises me sometimes what kind of following this blog has gotten, even a few months into it!

      Thanks again for visiting, and for the comments. Hope you enjoy the rest of your reading, as well!

  8. Lady Virtue says:

    This sounds like agony, but if you like it then that is all that matters. I will enjoy reading about your adventures. Smiles and hugs to you and yours!

  9. TylerTawin says:

    This here is fascinating and I look forward to your posts..x

  10. Hi your blog makes me smile, like a catch up with old friends, intimate, personal and funny. Thanks for sharing. https://secretsandpleasure.wordpress.com/2014/11/10/fast-love-how-far-do-i-have-to-get-up-to-get-down/

  11. charlypriest says:

    And this is going to be a curious read.

  12. I stumbled across this blog under the guise of ‘chastity’ and liked the name; there is a wonderful book of the same title. However when I came to read your blog I was quite shocked. Chastity (and our sexuality) isn’t some kind of game; it’s about self-discipline, not just locking yourself up. We’re chaste so we may glorify God with our body, and in turn glorify our partner. Don’t get me wrong you certainly have an interesting blog but I think you may have been lied to somewhere along the road about what true chastity is and what it is to be truly chaste. It isn’t about not having a sexual desire, we all have them, it’s about learning to control that desire. That control is what makes us truly free, that is the Thrill of the Chaste.

    • pcguy0681 says:

      Thank you for the comments! This is a great topic for my Discussion Board. Unfortunately I’m not aware of any way with WordPress to just move an entire comment between pages, so I have copied your text over there and given my full response in that location. Have a great day!

  13. SexwAnnie says:

    To each his or her own is what I always say. I would think that wearing a chastity belt would keep you thinking about sex even more. 😉

  14. I am in awe at your ability to be so chaste. You go, pcguy!!
    I was a virgin until I was 18 and then undersexed in my marriage for 15 years. That’s enough denial and chastity for me 😉

  15. I like your blog’s layout and your willingness to journal your experience. very interesting

  16. rosnazilli says:

    Such an interesting blog you have…. xx

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