I’ve done it! This past weekend (well, officially maybe more like Tuesday 10/15) I hit ONE FULL YEAR of continuous, 24×7 chastity!
To date I have been locked basically full time since October 1, 2018, but as I’ve written previously I was let out twice for maybe 20 minutes at a time for our 10 year anniversary weekend in mid-October of last year. But since then, I have been locked in my Jail Bird absolutely non-stop. That means ZERO releases. Not for sex, not for cleaning/shaving, not for doctor visits, or even air travel!! Over the past year, I think I have pretty much proven that there is essentially nothing that I ever do in my day to day life, that can’t be done while locked in a chastity device!
For many chastity enthusiasts, short of completely welding the lock shut and considering themselves to be in “permanent chastity,” one year is like an ultimate goal or test of endurance. And it is a fantastic, very rewarding milestone to have hit! It was no easy feat to get here, that’s for sure. Angel has had to find some strong willpower from deep within herself to not let me out for sex from time to time. And not that I have much to say about it when SHE has control of the keys, but I have definitely been experiencing the great Chastity Paradox of wanting to be out VERY badly for a full-blown, “real” orgasm, yet at the exact same time I never want this feeling [of being locked, on the edge, under Angel’s control] to ever end! I don’t even know any words to describe it any better than that. It can definitely mess with your head a bit!
Chastity has changed me. It has changed BOTH of us, but in a good way! Frankly, I can honestly say that don’t even particularly care when (if) I ever have a real orgasm again! As long as I am with Angel and able to help HER have her fill of them, I’m as happy as can be with our sex life! And Angel, well.. She’s had to get past a few feelings of “guilt” and “selfishness” for making it “all about her.” But the more we talk, and the longer we live this lifestyle, she has been able to realize that it’s not selfish at all because it does as much (or maybe even more??) for ME too. That is compared to when I could be inside her for maybe a couple minutes at a time, but after one orgasm I’m pretty much done for the night! This way I get to stay right on the edge the whole time and practically feel all of HER orgasms as well, vicariously THROUGH her! I’ve said this before and I don’t mind repeating myself, that if more men in this world actually had any clue what that could feel like, they would be lining up and clamoring to be locked in a chastity cage!
So what’s next? Where do we go from here after hitting a full year? Well, I haven’t even been let out YET! Angel has decreed that I should be locked for all of 2019, and “maybe” be able to ring in the 2020 new year with a very pent-up, explosive orgasm! So we’ll see what happens when we get there!
Oh, and just how did we celebrate this one year milestone? Well… I have very fond memories as I’m writing this of kneeling naked on the floor next to the bed, blindfolded and hands cuffed behind my back. Angel laying down off the edge of the bed, with her legs wrapped around my head letting me lick her to yet another wonderful orgasm for both of us!
Here’s to 12 months down and (at least) 2-3 more to go. I am SUCH a lucky man!! 🙂
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yeah, definite accomplishment
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Without a doudt, you are the sickest person out there. Your wife is a clse scond for putting up with your shit.
I don’t know, there’s some pretty sick shit out there, I kind of doubt this would even make the top 10 on most people’s list! 🙂
Clearly my kink is not your kink, but that’s OK!
It must be so hard to live your life being constantly threatened by things you don’t understand.
Congratulations!
A full year locked in chastity is a very exciting accomplishment.
I remember when I first started reading about orgasm denial and male chastity there was a woman writing a blog and a few books (can’t remember her name) who was writing about teasing her husband with the possibility of going a whole year with no sex (with lots of teasing though) and it seems so scary and exciting.
Having now experienced orgasm denial for “only” 3 months and appreciating what is is like to stay on that sexual high without the downer after orgasm I can certainly relate to the unlikely pleasure of her orgasm being wonderful for both partners.
I have purchased several cheap chastity devices, which my wife has not taken much interest in, let alone locking me up for long periods. I have taken it upon myself during Locktober to put one on myself each evening. If my wife is home I present her with the key so she can be in control. So far each morning I have unlocked myself and taken it off for the day. Last night she did surprise me with a sex session including teasing me, a little caning and finishing up with me between her legs, licking her ass hole as she brought her self to a climax and squirting all over me. I was completely satisfied as I drifted off to sleep locked up tight in my sexual high.
How exciting it must be to have your Angel take control of your sexuality! I can certainly relate to how this actually makes you love her more all the time.
Hi, I am well aware of the conflicting guilt that can be felt by a partner (with respect to orgasm denial). My Queen has had to battle that guilt too. But I think she’s over it now. lol. But she does really like to make me squirm through edging and teasing.
Your accomplishment is very cool. While I am caged every day and sleep that way, I am allowed out for workouts and for most sessions of sex. I’m just not allowed to cum—unless a ruined orgasm is desired by my Queen. And I haven’t had a ruined orgasm in forever…lol Hell, I haven’t had any orgasm in quite some time too! Enjoy the journey to the end of the year!
Yes, I think that’s probably pretty common among our lady key-holders to feel that way at first. Maybe sometimes even for male tops, I don’t know–that one probably doesn’t go against “societal norms” quite as much as the idea of a female controlling her man! But now, I may just be rambling a bit and regurgitating some thoughts from another very interesting blog post I read recently about FemDom possibly being the “last real taboo!”
But as with anything in a solid relationship, communication is key! I think that most women in this situation, as long as they are enjoying themselves and come to realize that their partner is enjoying it too, can eventually “get over” the guilty feelings! 🙂
Agreed
Congratulations. Such an amazing achievement. Wish you both well for your continuing future together. How lovely.
OMG I’m so happy for both you and her!!! That really is a milestone and I”m so glad that it’s going so well for both of you.
Thank you! By far the best part is watching Angel take the reins and drive how long we are going this time. SHE decided to go a full year, then SHE decided to extend it through all of 2019. Where she’ll go from there is anybody’s guess! Makes me love her even more, as if that were even possible! 🙂
Awwww 💕💕
Congratulations! With regard to being locked up…this sounds like a major accomplishment! 🙂
Thank you, Nora! And yes, it certainly is an accomplishment. Who could imagine that NOT having sex for a year could feel so good! 🙂 (“traditional” sex that is… I would still maintain that I probably still have more sex than average! Lol)
I bet you do!😊