Angel was out of town with the boys for this past weekend visiting some family, leaving me home alone again. Not that I could really do any more than I normally can anyway, since she is still in full control of my keys! But this did turn out to be a very fun, interesting weekend, with even more FIRSTS for our relationship!
To start with, I’m going to have to back up just a little bit to set the stage for what happened Saturday night… Over the past several months, I have been getting involved to a small extent with our local “kink” community. There is a really great “munch” just a few miles from my house that meets once a month, where everyone is always so nice and welcoming! (If you don’t know what a munch is, I highly recommend looking into it to see if there are any in YOUR area!) It is so nice to have a place to go and be able to talk to real people about absolutely anything! The conversations are definitely not always kink related, but when it does come up everybody is very accepting and not judgmental in the least. And in my previous statement, I say “real people” not to imply that you folks from all over the world who are reading my blog AREN’T real, but I find that face-to-face interactions are also very rewarding! It’s one thing to tell my story on the internet for strangers to read in their spare time, but quite another to tell somebody point blank that I am locked in a chastity device for which my wife holds the keys, and see them not even bat an eye at the topic!
Anyway, moving on. Besides getting to know some local kinksters at these munches, I learned that there is also a monthly “play party” not too far away. It is by invitation only, but it only took a quick e-mail to the organizers to get the address, with an invite! I actually tried a couple of months ago to get Angel to come to it with me, but that didn’t work out so well.. I mean, it wasn’t a BAD conversation, but she was definitely just not ready to make a “public” appearance at a venue like that.. This month, the party happened to fall this past Saturday night while Angel was out of town, so I asked her ahead of time if she would be OK with me going to it alone. After thinking it over, she told me that it would be ok with her. I think she still had some reservations about turning me loose like that, but she said herself that it’s not like I could actually “do anything” anyway, being how she still had my keys!
To be honest this was not even the first time I had gone to this particular event.. It was the second time. The first time I went to check it out a few months ago one night when Angel was busy, the kids were at their Grandpa’s, and I had a night basically to myself. That first time, I was very nervous going in not having any clue what to expect. So I actually confided in my best friend and he came to the party with me that month. It was definitely not his scene, and I think he was pretty surprised that I wanted to go there, but he was a real trooper and came with me anyway. The BDSM interest is pretty much all he knows about the “kinky me” though.. I don’t know if I could ever actually reveal my chastity secret to him!
Special note to Angel:
Honey, IF you are ever at the point of actually reading my blog and catching up on some of these posts, I know that at least at the time of this writing you were unaware of me going to this party one other time with my friend. If I haven’t told you that yet, I am truly sorry and hope you will forgive me.. Now you truly do know the REST of the story! If I HAVE gotten to tell you all about it, I’m very glad to have it off my chest and all secrets out in the open! 🙂
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So my second time going in I was not nearly as nervous. I got a drink from the bar, found a couple people I’d met at the munch to say hello to, then settled down into a seat just to observe some of the action going on at various “stations” around the room. I didn’t really know very many people there, so most of the time I just kind of sat by myself and watched, picturing either myself or Angel (or both!) in some of the scenes. It was definitely a lot of fun!
I stayed for a few hours then headed on home. Angel had asked me to give her a call when I got home, which ended up being almost midnight. She didn’t answer, so I figured she must have fallen asleep waiting for me. Even though she did technically give me her blessing to go that night, I did still worry that she might have been in her hotel room upset with me for actually going through with it. I missed her so much right then, and yes I was rather horny from everything I had just witnessed (with no way to do anything about it!) I really wished that Angel was there, so maybe she could give ME a good spanking, then I could go down and taste her, and give HER a couple of good orgasms with my tongue, fingers, and her wand! As I’ve been known to do from time to time in the past when Angel travels without me, I slipped into a piece of her lingerie, making it feel like she was at least a little bit closer to me, then drifted off to sleep with her at the front of my mind.
I had been sleeping for maybe about an hour or so when I heard my phone ringing on the nightstand next to me. It was Angel. She had woken up, seen my missed call, and really wanted to talk to me to see how things had gone that night. As I described to her how things were set up and what actually went on at this play party, Angel was very intrigued, and kept asking pretty detailed questions. She assured me that she really was not upset that I had gone. Any fear I had of that evaporated fully at the end of the conversation! She asked if the cage was feeling pretty tight on HER dick, which of course it was! (God, I love it when she takes ownership of things like that!) When I learned that she was feeling very horny and wet as well, things took another big turn and for the first time in our almost 8 years of marriage we found ourselves having a bit of phone sex!
I told Angel that she needed to reach down and rub herself, while I described what I would have LIKED to have been doing for real: sticking some fingers up inside as I licked her, then letting her ride her magic wand to orgasm right on top of her locked dick… I could hear her getting VERY worked up on the other end of the line, and something about knowing that she was pleasuring herself just seemed to make it that much better! For added sound effect I began smacking my own ass and telling Angel that was what she should be doing to ME right then!
I know that Angel had at least two good orgasms for herself during that time; and while I may have been close, the count was still zero! But that was quite OK. I had come home from the play party wishing that I could give her an orgasm, and by the time the night was over she had multiples! And even from 300+ miles away, Angel still made me feel like I had practically come right along with her. I fell back to sleep exhausted, very sexually satiated, much more relaxed than I had been a couple hours earlier. I am such a lucky man, and truly feel like I must have the best wife in the world! 🙂
Oh yes, when I woke up again a few hours later, knowing that Angel was probably still asleep so she should get any messages off of her phone before she was with her family again, decided to send her a little text with a picture of my current state…
“There’s YOUR dick, all safe and sound!
That was incredibly hot hearing you last night,
can’t wait to do it again for real! 🙂 “
that is amazing! ive breached the subject of a cock cage with my current and he seems reluctant….this post made me want it even more…..i hope he agrees to try it soon
Wow. That was hot. I’ve been thinking about going to our local munch but haven’t summoned up the courage. I guess I am afraid of who might be there.
Phone sex is great…especially…the first time!
Yea, I think that’s one of Angel’s biggest hangups too–afraid of running into someone she knows from outside the kink community. So far, I’ve never seen anybody that I already knew from elsewhere.
But even if that DID happen, I guess I’ve always been of the mindset that they would be there for the same reasons as me, so it actually might give us something new to talk about (depending on who it was, I suppose! )
Munches are very low key events and safe to attend for any who are interested. Most are at restaurants or bars with no kink activities at the location – just fun socialization and discussion topics. If there’s more than one in your area, I’d suggest trying several. They can be different in ages and kink interests.
I met only one person non-kinky while going to munches…and it was exciting – but no issues came of it. The munch was at a coffee shop (the original munch location) and a co-worked showed to get coffee. He asked who were all the “strange” people (not strange, IMO but more colorful than he’s seen around me). I said I was with my friend who was part of the group. No issue :).