Archive for April, 2016


I came across a recent article from the Huffington Post, titled “How A Male Chastity Device Transformed One Couple’s Marriage.”  [see Link for full article.]  It is about a particular blog which I thoroughly enjoy reading: Male Chastity Journal.  []

This is a blog written by BOTH parties in their FLM (Female-Led Marriage).  Caged Lion and Mrs. Lion do an excellent job of writing about their experiences in the male chastity lifestyle from each of their respective perspectives.  What’s even more incredible is that they write extensively, EVERY DAY!  That alone takes a lot of dedication!

canstockphoto32443760It was nice to see the Lions featured in a mainstream publication like this, putting the topic of male chastity out there in a good light!  I know that in many circles this would still be considered a pretty taboo sexual activity, but I really believe that if more people knew about it and about the many benefits that the chastity lifestyle can have throughout an entire relationship, there would be a LOT more people trying it out!  So it’s great to see articles like this helping to spread the word.

Congratulations to Lion & Lioness for the headlines!  Keep up the great writing! 🙂


This post is far overdue!  I intended to write up something like this way back towards the beginning of my blog, when I transitioned from wearing a CB-6000s to the Queen’s Keep.  I wanted to give a good side-by-side comparison of the two, but as I got into writing pretty much solely about my experiences in the Queen’s Keep, it kind of dropped off of my radar… Until now!

Now that my Queen’s Keep has been sent back to Mature Metal for some adjustments, and I am back to wearing the CB-6000s again in the interim, I am beginning to remember a lot of the differences between the two devices, and I do already miss being locked in the Keep!  🙂

These items are in no particular order, I pretty much just wrote them down as I thought of them.  This will likely continue to be a work in progress too, so if there are additional things that you would like to know about either/both of these devices feel free to ask!



I wrote a post recently (Re-Sizing the Keep) about how I’ve been having a few “fitting” issues with the Queen’s Keep.  This came as a little bit of a surprise to me at first since I had been able to wear it for so long already with no issues at all, but I’ve learned that over time your body can start changing in chastity and the device might need to be adjusted a bit.  For starters, I am going down to a slightly smaller base ring, but found that the gap size on that one was way to small.  I sent the ring back to Mature Metal to increase the gap, but I failed to include the cage itself at the time.  I didn’t realize at the time that this was necessary, plus I was still WEARING the cage with my larger base ring!

When I got the ring back, I tried it on right away and it did seem to make a world of difference with the wider gap.  However, it wasn’t very long before it was still rubbing the scrotum pretty badly again.  So, last Friday morning I had to ask Angel for the keys back so I could take it off to re-assess the situation.  I ended up stayed unlocked for a few full days so everything could get really healed up properly.  In the mean time, I was trying to figure out what else could be causing this problem.

20160419_065318.jpgI put the ring and cage back together (off of my body) and immediately saw a potential problem. Since adjusting the gap size, the cage is way off center, all the way over to the right side of the base ring!  I thought when I was wearing it last week it seemed like everything was always kind of falling back to the left side most of the time, so clearly that’s because there was a lot more space on that side to work with!  I will say up front that it is not Mature Metal’s fault that this happened…  They did warn me that they needed to have the cage to make sure the alignment was correct, but I opted to take the risk and just hope that it still came back ok.  I would be willing to bet that this is probably a big part of why it’s rubbing so much now, so the whole thing will need to go back to Mature Metal one more time to make it right.

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I’ve gotten 236 responses so far to my poll about what kind of underwear people prefer to wear while in a chastity device.  I think that’s a pretty good sampling of my readers, so I wanted to go ahead and share the results.  Anybody who has NOT yet voted in this poll, please feel free to do so anytime, HERE.

First off, there were 17 folks who responded that they are never actually locked in chastity, so this question doesn’t really apply to them.  If that’s you, I wanted to say a special thank you for reading my blog and participating in my poll anyway!  I’m glad to hear that you find my writing interesting enough, even though the topic isn’t something that you even participate in!  Although I suppose I may be getting ahead of myself with that assumption too… It’s very possible (likely, even) that I have other key-holders who are reading this, and you ARE actively involved in the chastity lifestyle–just not locked up yourself.  But either way, thank you! 🙂

As for what types of underwear people who ARE locked up tend to wear, I found some of the results rather predictable and others were a bit of a surprise to me.  Now let me just clarify another assumption that I’m making here, which is that the vast majority of people reading my blog who ARE locked in a device, are probably men.  That might be a bad assumption, and please don’t be offended if you are a woman locked in a device.  I am only making this assumption based on my own experience as a man being locked up, trying to keep everything clean, etc. and I just can’t really imagine that full female-type chastity belts could really be very sustainable for a long term.  I’ve been wrong before though, so this could just be another one of those times!

[Side Note: If you ARE a woman actually locked in a chastity device, please leave a comment or drop me a note sometime… I’d be very interested to hear if your perspective of chastity resembles mine at all!] 

So again, ASSUMING that the majority of respondants to my poll are men, here are the results:



I wrote a couple posts ago (Re-sizing the Keep) about how I was beginning to get some pretty bad chafing on the scrotum from the Queen’s Keep.  Trying to work this out with Mature Metal, it seems that over time your body can actually adjust to being in chastity and the device might need to be resized a bit.  I already had a smaller base ring that I had ordered with my original purchase, since I wasn’t entirely sure which size I was going to need.  That one was too tight in the beginning, so I’ve been wearing the larger ring up to this point.  Now, the smaller ring seems to fit better, but the gap size between the ring and the cage was so small that when I put the cage on it felt like my balls were just being crushed in a vice or something…  Not pleasant!

Last week, I did have a few pretty productive days alone while Angel and the boys were out of town visiting some family.  Of course I missed them all very much, but in a lot of ways it WAS a nice break for me as well!  They arrived safely back home very late last Saturday night, and it seems like we’ve all been going pretty much non-stop ever since.  Angel and I have had very little time to even be intimate at all since then, and I for one have been missing THAT too!

Last night I was working down in the basement for a while, and when I came upstairs to get ready for bed I found Angel relaxing in the bathtub, enjoying a nice Jacuzzi bath.  The thing to start with here is that Angel RARELY uses the tub anymore, generally just opting for a quick shower on her way out the door every morning.  When I saw her there, I was immediately struck with just how sexy she looked all stretched out, mostly submerged in the water!


I have been learning lately, that not only is a good fitting chastity device crucial for long-term comfort, but that it can actually change over time!  I wrote a tiny blurb in my last post (Left To My Own Devices) about how recently I have been noticing a bit of an issue with the very bottom of the cage kind of rubbing a sore spot on the scrotum.  I had just a tiny bit of an issue with this early on with the Queen’s Keep, but had found that keeping things lubricated and sort of “free-flowing” would solve the problem, and I hadn’t had any issue with that in quite a long time.  Lately though, it has been happening again, and it seems like none of my normal little tricks are working to make it better.  MOST of the time it isn’t too bad and I barely even notice it.  Until I do notice, then it can be difficult to get comfortable for a little while..  I have had to go so far as to take the cage off and put a band-aid over the sore spot in order to keep the cage from rubbing it too hard; and as my last post indicated, at the worst case I even had to leave it completely off for a couple days to heal.