Archive for February, 2016


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This will end up being a two-part post, as I just wanted to take a little time to write about a pretty wild weekend that Angel and I just had. It actually began a little bit early, as in last Thursday night!  Angel had to work late into the evening on Thursday, but as a result she also got to take the day off on Friday.  I still had to work on Friday, but that wouldn’t stop us from having some fun!  I knew that Angel was working until around 8:00pm on Thursday, then she and a few co-workers had planned on going out somewhere for a bite to eat.  I managed to get the kids all settled down and off to bed, then naturally my horny mind started wandering.. wondering what kind of “fun” Angel and I might be able to have that night since she didn’t have to get up early for work the next morning!

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Something I’ve been working on for a little while lately is trying to compile a list of normal, everyday activities that I engage in (either on a daily basis or just occasionally), which I am also able to do while wearing a chastity device.  I have added this list as a separate “Blog Page” within the side and top menus of my site.

This list is specific to myself, for activities that I have personally engaged in while chaste, but I do welcome comments (on that page, please) from readers with any other experiences you may have had–especially if there is something that you CANNOT do while wearing a device!  For the most part, it seems like my Queen’s Keep does not really prohibit me from doing anything that comes up during my normal, daily routine.

The last point I wanted to make is that this list is primarily for NON-SEXUAL activities, as things that I can/cannot do in that department are fairly obvious–not to mention well documented throughout this blog!  Chastity is somewhat of a unique “kink” (for long-term wearers, at least) given how it extends far outside the bedroom, and into every mundane detail of our lives!

I will update this list periodically, as I think of anything new to add, so feel free to check back once in a while to see what’s different or to let me know about your own experiences!

The full list that I’ve come up with so far can be viewed here:

Chaste Activities

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My last post, A Chaste Valentine, described a gift that I had given Angel for Valentine’s Day.  It involved locking myself back into the Queen’s Keep, and giving her the keys again inside of a special card that I created just for the occasion.  Yes, most of that post was pre-written, based on what I PLANNED on doing for Angel for Valentine’s Day.  Once it actually happened, that made it much easier to just get online and publish the post with only minor changes.  What I couldn’t pre-write at all, obviously, was Angel’s reaction to it–which was absolutely phenomenal!

My Valentine’s card for Angel was written, printed, and ready to go, so all I had to do to complete the plan was to lock myself back into the Keep, tape the keys inside the card, and place it somewhere that she would easily find it.  We had some friends over Saturday evening, and Angel had excused herself to go get ready for bed before everyone had even left, so in my head I thought that it should be easy to lock back up before I went to bed, without her noticing it at all.  However, once everybody left and I peeked into the bedroom, Angel was still lying there awake reading a book, so it it was already on to Plan B.  I changed clothes and joined her in bed still unlocked, and therefore did get to enjoy a final little bit of rubbing/teasing on her part before she turned out the lights and rolled over to go to sleep.  I had to lay there for a while to make SURE that she was asleep before I got back out of bed and went into the bathroom to complete my plan..

Being rather excited for what I thought might be coming (which alas, would not be me! Lol), it did take a little while to get myself down to a point of being able to fit back into the cage again.  But eventually I did get it, then I taped the keys to the inside of Angel’s card and left it sitting prominently on the bathroom vanity.  I went back to bed and drifted off to sleep feeling very secure and “home.” Back home where I belonged, in the Keep.

Now HERE’s where the story gets much more fun & interesting!
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Happy Valentine’s Day, everybody! Yes, it’s supposed to be the most “romantic day of the year,” yada-yada.  Angel and I never really do a whole lot on this day.  To be honest, the most exciting part of today that we’re both looking forward to is the return of the “Walking Dead” later this evening! 🙂 And I’ll even go out on a limb and predict a special little surprise for Rick’s little sweetheart here on this Valentine’s Day! Don’t worry, that’s not exactly a spoiler–it could be a good or bad surprise! Lol

canstockphoto16905256Anyhow, I’m not here to talk about zombies! In REAL life, one “gift” I gave Angel today was the keys back to my Queen’s Keep, securely locked back where it belongs.  To go along with it, I created Angel a very custom card (take that, Hallmark!) with a handful of little poems that I wrote for her, very specific to chastity and key-holding.  Some are admittedly rather cheesy, but I figured I’d go ahead and share them here anyway…

 


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About a day before I was let out of the Queen’s Keep this last time, Angel and I were at an event downtown with several of our friends.  About half way through it, Angel caught up with me and told me about how she and one of my friend’s wives had been talking in general about kids, etc. and the question came up about whether we planned on having any more or if we were stopping with our two boys.  Angel told her that she thought we were “probably done.” The friend went on to state the fact that if we haven’t yet taken measures to KEEP from getting pregnant again, you NEVER know! Angel had to chuckle to herself and secretly say that “if your husband is locked in a chastity cage, then you DO know it won’t be happening!”
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I have been unlocked for a little over a week so far (9 days, currently).  The last time I was free for this long was some time way back in July 2015! It really does almost feel strange NOT wearing a cage, as I’ve been so used to that constricted feeling for such a long time.

Over the past week when I wake up in the middle of the night next to my sleeping Angel, I notice that I’m still horny as hell, but unlike when I’m locked I actually have something to “show” for it! 🙂  I have given Angel control of when I can have an orgasm, so that’s not going to change just because I’m not locked at the moment.  But, being how I suddenly AM able to at least touch myself down there, I have not been able to resist the temptation to stroke “just a little bit…”  Several times, I have managed to bring myself right to the brink of an orgasm, then stop.  A few minutes later (if I haven’t fallen back asleep by then!) I might do the same thing again..
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I recently had a question from a reader regarding Chastity Game Rules; specifically how I actually count time locked vs. unlocked.
Servinghimwithchastity wrote (in response to “Four Months in the Keep“):

A super congratulations! That was a very long time and much longer than we have been able to go, hats off. I believe we are caught up with all your past posts but am wondering what your “game rules” are. We never know how long my hubbie has been “officially” locked. About 2 weeks ago he had an accident right in his cage (my fault), we don’t believe that counts as an unlocking. And about 3 weeks ago I was not having a good day (it happened to land on a bad day of the month 😦 ) and I unlocked him out of anger and told him to give it to me. I wasn’t even warmed up and as he had been locked for a few weeks at that point he lasted exactly 2 pumps and I put his device back on, the whole thing ended up being a lesson but does that count as unlocked? We were thinking it maybe it counts if he sleeps without the device on. I know it’s whatever “rules” you want it to be but if you can post (or point me to where you already posted) your rules of an official unlocking, we would love to follow them! You never know, your rules may become “The Official Rules to Chastity Time Locked”.

Thanks so much for your posts, we always look forward to reading them and get so excited for you and yours.

I hope your release is mind blowing.

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JUST in case you’re wondering, yes–the play on words in my title was very intentional! Four months of being locked in the Queen’s Keep pretty much equates to four straight months of foreplay leading up to the big event that we had this past Saturday night! So yes, I think that the term “fourplay” seems to be most appropriate! 🙂

I wasn’t completely sure if I would be getting out this past weekend or not.  Friday night came and went without much of a word about it.  Saturday, Angel did start hinting quite a bit that she “might” unlock me. Later that night after we had gotten the kids down to bed, we started talking about maybe taking a shower together since we had relatively early plans on Sunday morning and it would be much more difficult to take them while trying to get the kids going at the same time. The reasoning was sound, plus we don’t seem to get many opportunities to actually shower TOGETHER anymore, so of course I was all for that idea!  As she went off to get undressed, Angel also commented that maybe we should also go ahead and get that code for the lockbox (from EmlaLock).
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