I decided to go back through the records on my Current Status page and add up how many total days I was locked in a chastity device vs. being unlocked during 2015. I was actually somewhat surprised by the results: For every day that I was free, I spent almost 5 days locked up!
The year ended the same way as it began, with me locked in the Queen’s Keep. At the beginning of the year, the steel device was brand new to me and that was the very first session where I had turned control of these keys over to Angel. But she took to it like a fish to water, and started keeping me locked far more than not!
There were a few cases here and there where I was let out for only a few hours to attend certain events, or sometimes only about 20 mins or so for a quickie, then I would be right back into chastity. I didn’t count those days for the sake of this post, since it was such a short time out of the device. Once we determined that I could safely pass through at least certain metal detectors unnoticed, that was pretty much the end of being released for that reason!
Total, there were only 9 instances during the year where I was let out for at least one full day at a time, making it a grand total of 61 days Unlocked. Doing the math, that puts me being Locked for 304 days, or approximately 83% of the year. 83%! That is a very big number!!
While locked this past year, I do feel that I have become very adept at getting Angel to orgasm multiple times per session, whether with my fingers, tongue, toys, or a combination of all. I definitely do find that I get just as much enjoyment these days from helping HER to orgasm as I do when I have my own!
Besides chastity, we have also engaged in several other types of bedroom play (some for the first time this year and others that we’ve done before) including, but not limited to:
- Light Bondage (velcro cuffs, rope, etc.)
- Blindfolds
- Gags
- Magic Wand
- Misc. other vibrators
- Nipple Clamps/Suckers
- Massage Oils
- Butt Plugs (both of us)
- Spanking
- Strap-On (worn over chastity device, used on Angel)
- Wearing/showing off Lingerie (both of us)
- Hot candle wax
A year ago, some of this stuff (namely butt plugs or anything “ass” related at all) would have completely off-limits to Angel and I never would have dreamed that now she would be not only allowing it, but enjoying it too! I am very anxious to see what other new adventures 2016 might bring us. This is, after all, the “Thrill of the Chaste!” 🙂
Do you ever feel like not letting a woman control when you’re free to move about the cabin? Have you ever thought about going back to the way things were?
If I’m understanding your question correctly, at least at the moment NO- I do not feel like “not letting” Angel control when I am free or locked up. As for going back to how things were, we have the kind of relationship where pretty much all I’d have to do is ask! We would then probably just have a little conversation about what is/isn’t working with chastity and decbide whether to make some little tweaks to it or suspend it altogether.
The thing to remember is that I ASKED for this! I dabbled with chastity for a very long time before bringing it to my wife’s attention. And I brought it to her because I ENJOY it and wanted to share the experience with her as well. I am so grateful that she kept enough of an open mind to try it with me, and has also come to enjoy it!
Wow! 83% is a long time! It’s cool that being locked up has helped y’all branch out to new interests! I’m excited to hear about your 2016.
I’m just beginning this journey, but I hope my 2016 is as successful as your 2015 – thanks for sharing your experiences.
I’ll just suggest: take it slow and let things happen at their own pace. There’s no need to rush anything, and you will be very pleased with yourselves when you get there. Good luck!