Archive for January, 2016


We’ve done it!  Four full months of being locked 24×7 in the Queen’s Keep with absolutely no release, even for a cleaning! I’d say it’s a good thing I chose one of the more “open” chastity designs, like the Queen’s Keep, otherwise it would be much more difficult to take care of and keep the device from getting rather smelly!  At any rate, I might have been able to get a break from it last weekend after EmlaLock released the keys back to us, except for the fact that Angel decided that as close as we were we should shoot for a full 4 months..  So here we are! My previous record duration of 60 days has been completely shattered (by more than double).  I could try to say it’s been the hardest 4 months of my life (no pun intended!), but it really hasn’t! 


As I wrote about last week, the EmlaLock session that I had started which kept my keys completely out of reach for a couple months has ended.  We have not yet actually clicked the “End” button and gotten the combination to the lockbox, but Angel now has full say again of when that will happen.  The control is completely back in her hands again, and she has already taken great advantage of that fact!

Based only on recent bedroom talk and knowing our past history, I actually rather expected that Angel would most likely be letting me out sometime this past weekend.  I know that she has been desperately craving the intimate, one-on-one connection between us that only “real” sex seems to be able to fully provide.  Yes, I have been practically bouncing off the walls at times too, wanting my OWN release, but that is completely secondary to HER wants/needs and I wouldn’t have it any other way!



At last, my session on EmlaLock has reached the end, and the combination to the lockbox holding my keys is now within reach!

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We’re coming down the home stretch! At most, it should only be about 10 more days before EmlaLock reaches the “max time” for my chastity session and releases the combination to the keys, effectively giving Angel full control once again of when I will actually be unlocked. But my feeling is that it will be a little bit earlier than that, so I’m expecting it to hit at some point this coming week! I have told Angel that as well, and she is definitely looking forward to having me out and being able to feel me inside of her again!


I decided to go back through the records on my Current Status page and add up how many total days I was locked in a chastity device vs. being unlocked during 2015.  I was actually somewhat surprised by the results: For every day that I was free, I spent almost 5 days locked up!

The year ended the same way as it began, with me locked in the Queen’s Keep.  At the beginning of the year, the steel device was brand new to me and that was the very first session where I had turned control of these keys over to Angel.  But she took to it like a fish to water, and started keeping me locked far more than not!


I had another question from a reader, this one about possible unwanted side effects from engaging in long-term chastity.

🔒🍆🗝👸🏽 wrote:

Hi, I’m an avid follower and love your writing. My wife and I enjoy it as we have much in common with you guys (or as much as can be surmised from your writing) ;).

I know you can lay an issue we have with chastity to rest once and for all, get it from the horses mouth so to speak. We have gone to 20 days in the past and read you can either have difficulty achieving erection or your size of the erection gets diminished with long term chastity. My wife saw this and immediately unlocked me. Now we are going to try for 6 weeks but were hoping you can put our concerns to rest.

Any advice you might have would be wonderful, thanks!


Well 🔒🍆🗝👸🏽, here’s the deal.  First of all, thank you for the compliment! It is rather flattering to hear that I have an “avid follower!” Lol

I have to say, that as the days/weeks/months continue to add up for this round of chastity, I have really been noticing just how horny it is making me ALL THE TIME!  This is especially true when I’m with Angel, helping HER to orgasm, but the feeling still continues well past “playtime” too! I have had other lock-up periods where it might eventually subside for a while, and it may have with this round too (a couple months ago) but now has come full-circle and I have a little bit of a hard time getting sex out of my mind! 


I have reached 100 days of being locked continuously in the Queen’s Keep, and still am not entirely sure when my EmlaLock session will end for me to be released! It definitely should be this month, I just will not know an exact day until it gets here..

Angel and I have been having lots of fun with it lately though! There was a ton of “action” going on while we both had a little bit of time off over the holidays, I just never really had much of a chance to sit down and write about it much. One of my favorites relates back to a previous post (Playtime for Angel?) where I had tried to prod Angel into having a little bit of solo fun one day when she was home alone.  It didn’t work out that day, but one evening later that week she decided to go for it!


I had a question from a reader regarding my opinion on purchasing a CB-6000 chastity device vs. saving that money to put towards a custom metal device.  I realized that I’ve spent pretty much the entire last year or so just raving about my own custom device, and haven’t really talked for quite a while about the other devices that I used to lead up to this.  So, I thought I would publish this question & answer in case anybody else might also care to read about it..

Outatlast wrote:

sorry to bother you.  Having a bit of a dilemma of what cd to buy.  You used to use the cb6000 as I recall.  Didn’t the 8cm tube stick out a bit and make it obvious that you are wearing something? I was thinking of going straight into custom – rather than blow £100 on a device that I may only use for a few weeks.  I’ve been chatting to a guy on the chastity forum who is about to start making devices out of titanium.  I could just spend the £100 on paying for adjustments to be made.  I’d really appreciate your opinion, if you have time.


2015 in review

Posted: January 3, 2016 in Chastity, Male Chastity, Orgasm Denial

The stats helper monkeys prepared a 2015 annual report for this blog.

Here’s an excerpt:

The Louvre Museum has 8.5 million visitors per year. This blog was viewed about 180,000 times in 2015. If it were an exhibit at the Louvre Museum, it would take about 8 days for that many people to see it.

Click here to see the complete report.


Happy New Year, everybody! 2015 was a very exciting time for Angel and I in terms of exploring our boundaries with chastity, and I look forward to seeing what kind of new adventures 2016 brings as well! I’ve never been one for making resolutions, but for anyone who does: good luck!  Anyone going for an entire year locked up? Not for us, but it’s an interesting concept none-the-less.

Happy 2016! 🙂