Archive for May, 2015


It is a national holiday here in the U.S.: Memorial Day! And while I do understand the real meaning of this holiday and in no way at all want to take away from remembering all those who have died in service to our country, I am going to take this post in a little different direction to fit with the theme of my blog.  Do you remember… your last orgasm?


Since I have been sharing here on my blog pretty much everything going on in my life lately as relates to chastity, I thought I’d go ahead and share some of my recent reading material as well! I came across this book, “The Toybag Guide to Chastity Play,” and thought I would pick it up and see if it happened to offer any other insights into the lifestyle than what I have already learned/experienced for myself.

It was a very interesting read! (and NO, I am not being paid at all to promote books. 🙂 Everything here is only MY opinion and I just call it as I see it!) I liked that this is a small enough book that I could read through it relatively quickly, yet it’s chock full of all kinds of useful information about chastity! The first couple of chapters are mainly about the history and early designs of chastity devices. That is interesting, yes, but I did find myself skimming some of those pages rather quickly until it got to the parts about chastity making its way into more modern day “kink.” Then it started to resonate more with me and I did agree with a lot of the statements in the book about “why” a person might voluntarily wish to be locked up and have their orgasms completely controlled by another individual!



For all of the Mom’s out there who might read my blog, I want to wish you a very Happy Mother’s Day! In particular Angel (whether or not she ever reads it on here, I have already told her this anyway). Angel is first and foremost a fantastic mother for our children. Obviously any “motherly needs” that arise will always take precedence in our house but she STILL manages to keep her husband (that would be ME!) taken care of as well! She always knows just the right way to keep that spark alive in our relationship, and I do love how she has taken over more and more control of when I am allowed out of chastity to have an orgasm. (more…)


The counter on my Current Status page has reset again, starting the latest session this past Sunday. Saturday night Angel came to bed EXTREMELY horny and I was more than happy to help her out with that! We engaged in a lot of our “normal” activities with the magic wand, etc. After several very powerful orgasms for herself she began pushing my head down there, saying I needed to get a good taste of what I had just been giving her! Have I mentioned before that I LOVE it when she gets into that more “aggressive” mode and really tells me exactly what she wants? 🙂


I experienced my first ever “chastegasm” on Friday night. I know that’s not really a word, but I’m going to use it here anyway for lack of a better term! Heck, I will even give it a definition, to make it official. (If Webster picks this up in a few years, remember that you heard it here first! Lol)

Chastegasm:  Achieving sexual orgasm while direct genital stimulation is not possible due to presence of a chastity belt/device.