Archive for November, 2014


Right now, I am very happy that I made the decision to go with Mature Metal for my custom-fit chastity device.  As I’ve already talked about, the fit and craftsmanship of my Queen’s Keep is outstanding!  And even when I DID have an issue, with the security screw, the service at this point has been top-notch.  I sent off the Queen’s Keep, screws, keys, as well as another padlock that I had tried unsuccessfully to use with it, less than a week ago.  As of today, they have already addressed everything I had inquired about, and let me know it will be back in the mail for me again tomorrow!

Thanksgiving Freedom

Posted: November 30, 2014 in Chastity, Male Chastity


We’re back from our little mini-vacation over the Thanksgiving holiday and overall I’d say it was fairly relaxing.  At least as relaxing as it can be going out of town with small children!  In the back of my mind I was still wishing I could have used that time to surprise Angel with a shiny new form of chastity, but at the same time it was kind of nice having the extra time of “freedom.”


Happy Thanksgiving

Posted: November 27, 2014 in Male Chastity


In the spirit of Thanksgiving, I certainly do have much to be thankful for!

Above all I am thankful for my family. My beautiful wife and two great kids (even in the times that they drive me a little crazy! 🙂   )

I am thankful for a good job, to always be able to provide a warm house, clothing, and food on the table.

I am thankful for good health, to be able to enjoy life for as long as possible.

I am thankful for great friends who are always there when I need them.

To stick with the theme of this blog, and to expand on a portion of my first point:  I am thankful for a wonderful, open-minded wife, willing to indulge in (and even embrace) some of the more “kinky” aspects of my life–namely chastity and orgasm denial.

I am thankful to be in a relationship where I am able to talk to my wife about anything.  Even though sometimes it still makes me a bit nervous to do so, once I get everything out I always feel much better about it!

To all, I say: Happy Thanksgiving!


Posted: November 26, 2014 in Chastity, Male Chastity


Well we’re heading out of town soon for our little “mini-vacation” over the Thanksgiving holiday!  I had really thought I’d be locked in my Queen’s Keep right about now, and be handing over the keys to Angel.  I even had a nice little poem written out to leave her along with the keys, but I guess now I’ll just have to keep that one in my back pocket for a while. Lately I’ve been waking up every morning next to Angel just as horny as I can be, and having this very strong, familiar urge to have it locked back up again!


Today I boxed the Queen’s Keep up and shipped it on back to Mature Metal for service.  That’s a little disappointing, but hopefully they’ll be able to get that stuck security screw out. And hopefully with new screws and keys, I won’t ever see that problem anymore! With the holiday this week, I don’t know when they’ll receive it or what the turnaround time might be.

3D Operator working in a call center

So far, my experience with Mature Metal’s customer service is true to their reputation: outstanding! I had a fairly prompt reply from them regarding my serious problems with the security screw. They apologized and said if I can send the device back they will fix it, and provide brand new screws & keys.

Apparently this is the first time they’ve heard of this particular issue, so I guess maybe I just happened to get a “bad” set? Let’s hope that’s all it is. I know I will be testing it very thoroughly by screwing it in and removing it again a ton of times before I actually wear it again!  It still kind of scares me a little bit to think about what may have happened if the screw had gotten stuck to this extent while I had the device on!


Crap! After all my testing, I found a deal-breaker today and will most likely have to send the Queen’s Keep back to Mature Metal to check out… 😦  All related to that darn security screw again!

I fit everything back together again dry (not on my person!), and secured it with the screw so I could make sure I knew for sure how to best get it loose again.


New Blog Pages

Posted: November 20, 2014 in Chastity, Male Chastity


I’m still pretty new to this whole blogging thing, so I’m still kind of figuring out what all I can and can’t do with it.  The look and feel of the site may change a bit over time as I get more into it!  I just updated/added a few new Blog Pages that I’ve been playing around with.  I think there should be links visible either at the side or bottom of any other posts, etc.  The exact location seems to depend on if it’s being viewed from a computer or mobile device.

But they can also be found here.  Enjoy!

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It’s been basically two weeks since my new Queen’s Keep arrived, and I have been unlocked from Chastity for almost that same amount of time. I have been testing out the new device pretty extensively and generally everything has been going quite well with it!  I am thinking it’s just about time to go ahead and give Angel the keys, and therefore once again full control of my orgasms! If I was just getting started with chastity, it may have taken a lot more than two weeks to get to this point. But since I’m already used to it and pretty much know what works and what doesn’t work, this feels like plenty of time!


I’ve just finished up my longest test so far of the Queen’s Keep: about 48 hours worth.  The good news is that I’m seeing no ill-effects so far, like bad rubbing or chafing anywhere!  I had the CB-6000s sized as well as was possible for me, but this custom device really does blow it away in terms of being comfortable. (At least as “comfortable” as one can expect from having their junk locked up in a metal cage! Lol)

Other observations at this point:



Yes, the title pun was intended! 🙂 I made it through my first nighttime trial of the Queen’s Keep last night and it brought out two big revelations for me that I probably should have known but must have forgotten:

  1. It’s amazing how many nighttime erections I tend to get.
  2. The CB-6000s had more room in it than I realized to get “partially hard” in.



I’ve talked about this before and don’t want to completely beat it into the ground, but I did want to say more specifically on the locking mechanism of the Queen’s Keep.  As I’ve said there are two methods of locking it, but I suppose neither is really perfect. The sideways mounted padlock is much too bulky, and the security screw is rather difficult to get started, especially alone.

I wore my Queen’s Keep into work today, and so far it is still by far the most comfortable chastity device I have ever tried!  Granted, most of my day is spent sitting on a chair in front of a computer, but whether I’m sitting, walking around, or anything else, I can barely tell it’s there. Only if I start thinking “erotic” type thoughts, making me “try” to swell up inside the cage, do I feel the normal effects of wearing a chastity device. Of course, those thoughts would be centered around Angel, and when/how I might move forward with giving her the keys to the Queen’s Keep to use (or not use) at her discretion!

They say you only get one chance for a good first impression, and so far I am quite impressed with Mature Metal’s chastity devices–specifically the Queen’s Keep!  I had a chance to try out my new device for a couple hours tonight, and at least so far I do think I nailed it on the measurements!  I found getting into it the first time was a tiny bit trickier than the CB-6000s, but once in it fits very snuggly and certainly will not allow any sort of erection to happen!



I’m out!  After basically 7 weeks of being locked continuously in the CB-6000s, Angel did decide to go ahead and take it off last night.  Officially I’d have to call it a good 49 days (maybe a few hour shy of that), making this the second longest duration I’ve gone to date.  My personal longest right now is 60 days, just a little bit short of 9 full weeks.


It’s here! I was thrilled to check my mailbox today and find my new Queen’s Keep has arrived! When I finally got a little time to start checking it out, so far it looks wonderful! (Wonderfully secure, that is!)



Woo Hoo! Just hours after my last post, patiently waiting for word that my Queen’s Keep is on its way, I did in fact receive an e-mail from Mature Metal stating that my device is ready and being mailed out today! So just under the 6 week mark.. Can’t complain about that! Depending on how long the actual shipping takes, I suppose I should have it in my hands possibly by the end of the week, or early next week at the latest.


As I alluded to with very early blog entries here, I recently ordered a new chastity device from Mature Metal, called the Queen’s Keep.  I want to document my experiences with the Queen’s Keep and give an adequate review of it.  So far, I can only really speak to the ordering process, of which I had zero complaints!


Yes, I know there are only 24 hours in a day… except once per year!  Generally speaking I hate the time of year when we come off of Daylight Savings Time, because it just gets dark way too early now.  But the one good thing that comes from it is the extra hour everybody gets to sleep…  Or play, of course!


Besides the sex game aspect of chastity, the other part of the equation are the lifestyle changes it requires.  Of course here, it mainly only affects me, as the person locked in a device. In the beginning there were a few “growing pains” (no pun intended!) of trying to get used to wearing the device. I’ve gotten through all of that though, to the point it actually feels quite natural having a hard ring/cage wrapping around my genitals!  Dare I say it almost even feels more strange to be OFF at this point!  There are other issues to consider though for long-term chastity to be viable…