I had another question from a reader, this one about possible unwanted side effects from engaging in long-term chastity.
🔒🍆🗝👸🏽 wrote:
Hi, I’m an avid follower and love your writing. My wife and I enjoy it as we have much in common with you guys (or as much as can be surmised from your writing) ;).
I know you can lay an issue we have with chastity to rest once and for all, get it from the horses mouth so to speak. We have gone to 20 days in the past and read you can either have difficulty achieving erection or your size of the erection gets diminished with long term chastity. My wife saw this and immediately unlocked me. Now we are going to try for 6 weeks but were hoping you can put our concerns to rest.
Any advice you might have would be wonderful, thanks!
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Well 🔒🍆🗝👸🏽, here’s the deal. First of all, thank you for the compliment! It is rather flattering to hear that I have an “avid follower!” Lol
As for your question, I can’t speak for everybody in every situation, but in my own personal experience I have not seen any evidence of this happening. I seem to feel like I am straining against the end of the cage trying to get hard practically all the time, so once the cage comes off (even after several weeks of being locked) it pretty much springs right into action! In fact, sometimes it’s up so quickly that it is very difficult or impossible to get the base ring pulled off! There have been numerous times when I have had to just turn the ring so that the locking post is at the bottom, to make sure it doesn’t hurt Angel. At that point it would likely kill the mood if I made myself get soft enough again to get the ring completely off!
I also have not noticed any difference in size, though I’ve never really asked Angel to verify that either. I’m no doctor, so take this as a grain of salt, but I tend to think that’s just a myth.. I don’t really see how wearing a chastity device could lead to being “smaller.” I mean, it’s just a bunch of blood vessels down there that expand when aroused, so I don’t really believe that the “use it or lose it” philosophy would apply the same way as say, muscle memory or something like that in other parts of your body. Again, those are just my thoughts on the matter and I have no scientific evidence to back that statement up! 🙂
Now if you want to take this question a step further and talk about performance issues, then I would say that stamina can definitely be affected by long-term chastity. I do believe that it takes a lot of practice to develop enough self-control to be able to delay your own orgasm in the heat of the moment. One thing Angel and I have noticed and talk about quite a bit is that the first time (and probably even a few subsequent times) after I’ve been locked, I will definitely not last very long! In some ways, this kind of leads straight into greater enjoyment (by both of us) of keeping me locked even longer. There have been MANY times where I am pleasing Angel and really starting to feel desperate to come out, but at the same time I don’t want the current feeling to ever end–and I know that if I were unlocked it would be over within a minute or so! And Angel often feels the same way, where she would love to have me out and inside her, but the more we push it and the longer we play she will end up having much longer/deeper orgasms than what would have been possible if she had let me out at the first urge! It really is quite a unique catch-22, which only those who have experienced it would really be able to understand!
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